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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 07, 2025Hindi
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Sir my husband have a policy1997 and he lapsed it, now he is no more. I got the policy original now, Iam the nominee, can I get the money in our policy?

Ans: Hello;

You may check with the insurance company.

Quite likely the policy may have been converted into a paid up policy with a reduced sum assured commensurate with the number of premiums paid.

Best wishes;
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The LIC Jeevan Saral policy offers a sum assured with flexibility in premium payments and attractive features.

Surrender Considerations
1. Current Financial Situation
Assess your current financial situation to determine if the surrender value of the policy aligns with your immediate needs or long-term financial goals.

2. Surrender Value Calculation
Understand the surrender value of the policy, which may vary based on the duration of the policy, premiums paid, and applicable charges.

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Consider the impact of surrendering the policy on future premium commitments and the potential loss of insurance coverage.

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