I am 55 this is my third job, everyone says I need personality development, kindly advice if possible then what are the steps to be taken

Ans: Hi Abhay,

Here are some signs you may look at-

If you are facing any communication challenges and you struggle putting across your thoughts will complete clarity due to which conflicts/ misunderstanding / arguments might have occurred

If you often feel low on confidence in various situations, addressing self esteem and self confidence through personality development can make a positive impact.

If you find yourself struggling to maintain a strong and positive relationship then enhancing interpersonal relationships, empathy and emotional intelligence can improve your ability to connect with others.

You find yourself in various situations like - lacking in been assertiveness, inability to handle stress, you often procrastinate, struggle in managing time, negative attitude, difficulty in accepting feedback, lack of goal clarity.

Please know that personality development will be an ongoing process. Importantly self awareness is the key.

All the best


Thanks
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or Attitude?

Ans: Hi Prakash,

It's great that you are looking to enhance your professional and personal development.

Few aspects you can consider-
To enhance your communication skills you can at joining Toast Masters or some similar platforms. These forums will give you opportunity to work on your public speaking skills
You can do self practice by doing recordings of your own. This will help you identify the gaps to work upon.
Take help of friends and family who can regularly help you in articulating your thoughts.
Take relevant courses which will help you get the right job
Network with the people from the industry as this will open doors of opportunities. Attend industry related events this way you expand your connections
Seek professional guidance like career counselling or coaching
Importantly believe in your self and have patience. Keep practicing.

All the best

To your success. Be you. Be confident
Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of Confidence Decoded. Is it a skill or Attitude?

Ans: Hello

Now that you are aware of your situation...accept it as is and start working on to be your natural normal self... believe in yourself and most important don't fear losing job. Imposter syndrome happens because we fear losing things in life.

All the best in your new journey.

Ans: Dear Sir/ Madam,

Go well prepared for your interview
Know the Job description and company profile to the T
Dress well- Formals completely
Take care of your personal hygiene
Smell good
Listen to the interview before you speak. Do not interrupt
Smile and show case confidence
Just be yourself

All the best

Thanks
Ashwini