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I’m married for 14 years and have a 12 yr old son, both working. It was love marriage but before marriage explained me that leaving her ex from her college as it was not true love. After these 14 years, I came to know that they were having physical relation as well and the same hurt me very hard and couldn’t focus on anything and difficult to believe that with whom I spent 14 yr and still there is something can be hidden. Thats not all, on domestic issues whenever we have argument on household work/ expenses/ guiding son on studying etc, if she is not able to answer or didn’t like my response couldn’t control her anger, she tried to stangle me, beat me up, slapping, pour water/ hot tea on me, also not to mention abusing me in front of my son. Also many times she threatened to end her life by taking a knife in hand or by closing door to attempt hanging. That’s why bedroom & washroom door locks are broken in my house. Due to all these I left house twice in these years but due to her repeated apology and affection to my son I returned. Now I think all these are unbearable and need to take some step for resolution. Also as my son is old enough to understand all happenings don’t want ruin his life with all these nuisance. Humble request to advice as I’m under tremendous pain.

I don't know how to wirte this, but I just learnt that my grandfather is addicted to pornstar, and has been a victim of blackmail and even paid out in lakhs to avoid the scandal. Everyone in the family knows, bu since he is a selfmade man, are keeping quiet because he will leave them from his will then. But I don't want to keep quiet like others, and want to tell him he bringing shame to the family. How should I do it?

i am married and 49 yrs old and my wife 42 having 2 children boy is 10 yrs and girl is 14. Last six years not proper relation with me but living in same house. She is having affair with one his friend as i also known him as physical relation also. As i known this matter last year end as seen the abortion medical paper. I too much love before this matter as we caste wise different same as language also. What can i do now as i am living for my children future only. How can i stay with her?

My hubby says i should obey him for living happily with him, he will not give divorce and is a responsible father. Im a working woman who is capable of taking decisions without his support financially and emotionally. The big problem is he neither talks to me nor is interested in me but still values marriage and a wife who will be for society. I cannot see any reason to obey him in 21st century, so what should I do?

I am married to my childhood sweetheart for the last 13 years after dating her for 7 years, 20 years of relationship. After marriage things had changed she never does house chores. We have a 12-year-old son, I was looking for house expenses/loans and I asked her to take care of my son's education expenses which are hardly 70% of the above, although she is 5 times richer than me. She was in depression before marriage. For the last 10-plus years, we are living separately, and once a week we meet for a couple of hours. Last week I sent a message to her "Don't treat me like a slave". After that things worsened she approached an Advocate and send a letter for mutual divorce without alimony. She told me that I can give child expenses as per my wish. I am in deep trauma now

Hello Pooja madam, my wife began hating her mother in law since last 15 years . They dont speak and dont see eye to eye. The issue was ancestor property division... Now my daughter has grown up. She will get married next year, my wife does not want to invite mother in law or even talk about them.. My wife earns more than me ... my mother in law is a widow .. how can I solve this marraige inviting problem , kindly suggest a remedy..

Why relationship sours when woman earns more than man?

i dont happy marriege life

Is it possible to forgive someone who has cheated us and if they are willing to change? We are legally separated but now my wife regrets what she has done which includes selling jewelries of in laws and extra marital affair. We have a son who is just 6yr old. I don't want my son to suffer. As a mother she is good. Her only condition is she is not willing to stay with inlaws. Want me to move out of the house and stay with her and son on rent. Son possession is with me only. Whatever happened was past. Is it possible that things will be better in future.

I recently had a breakup because she cheated me and now seems that she again wants to have patch up what to do

Dear Pooja, How can someone with social anxiety make their partner happy if it’s hard for them to go out on dates?

i am unable to have sex with my wife

Hi Pooja, do star signs and zodiac influence your behaviour and the way you respond to difficult situations in life?

I am worried because my son doesn't go out and mix with friends. He likes to stay at home and be online all the time. In a way it's good he is at home and out of trouble but shouldn't children be out of the house, doing things that are done at that age? Plus, online is not such a safe place to be... How does one wean him away?

Poojaji, Do reduced expectations make senior citizens happy?

My dob 18/02/1979.place of birth Lucknow....i am presently working near home as safety coordinator in power plant...i am looking for part time work to earn extra income...But donot now what to do....IF there is online typing work then let me know

Suggest lifestyle, foods after uterus removed in late 40's.

Stress and tension are unavoidable so what should we do to have an ideal life without stress and tension?

I rarely use astrology anymore, and even then it is just out of curiosity. The more we become self-aware, the more checking into astrology only agrees with what we have already discovered within ourselves.Like looking at the natal charts of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard during this very-public law suit. The astrological conclusion? Inconclusive.

Hi Pooja My husband and I were going through a tough time during the lockdown and I got in touch with an old friend. Both of us are married and have a history with each other. We knew each other since we were young. We got involved physically and although we are mature adults, we do long for each other. But there are kids and much as we'd want to be together, we can't afford to take this relationship forward. We have limited our communication but it is getting harder by the day because we do love each other. Is this normal? What do you generally advice someone in a situation like this? How do we deal with this situation better?

Dear Pooja, my husband and I share a very friendly relationship. When we have disagreements, we often tend to forget that our child is around. In the past few months, we have been arguing a lot and this seems to have taken a hit on our son. He is behaving strangely at school. He has got into trouble with other kids in his class and is often caught scribbling at his desk. He gets angry and throws tantrums in public. When we tried talking to him, he seemed normal but he did mention to the counsellor that even my mom and dad fight when they are angry. Since then we have mellowed down a bit. But how do we address this to our child?