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Vishwa Question by Vishwa on Oct 05, 2024
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I am now 52, i have problem correct at 3 am in (night), i cannot control. My part get hard like rod. I haven't made relationship with my wife since 12 years, after she delivered 2 childerns. I cannot control on my sex after 15 days i need. I have one partner but she is not available aways . I want to reduce my sex. what to do.

Ans: Dear Vishwa,
Seek the help of a medical expert for this please.
And oh, it can be useful to channel that energy into sports or the gym during the day so that you can get a good night's sleep.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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<p><strong>मैं गुमनाम रहना चाहूंगा।</strong><br /><strong> मेरी उम्र 62 साल है और मेरी पत्नी 54 साल की है. दो साल पहले तक हमारी सेक्स लाइफ अच्छी थी।</strong><br /><strong> वर्तमान में मेरी पत्नी का सेक्स के प्रति कोई रुझान नहीं है, जबकि मुझमें तीव्र कामेच्छा है और मुझे हस्तमैथुन से राहत पाने के लिए मजबूर होना पड़ता है।</strong><br /><strong> कृपया मेरी कामेच्छा को कम करने या मेरी पत्नी की रुचि को पुनर्जीवित करने के तरीके सुझाएं।</strong><br /><strong> धन्यवाद,</strong><br /><strong> अनाम</strong></p>
Ans: <p>रजोनिवृत्ति के बाद, महिलाओं को कई हार्मोनल परिवर्तनों से जूझना पड़ता है और कभी-कभी सेक्स में रुचि कम हो जाती है।</p> <p>आपको अपनी पत्नी को अपनी निराशा समझानी होगी और उसका पक्ष सुनना होगा।</p> <p>यदि आप कहते हैं कि सिर्फ दो साल पहले तक उसके साथ आपकी सेक्स लाइफ अच्छी थी, तो इसका मतलब है कि किसी विशेष मुद्दे ने निश्चित रूप से इस स्थिति को जन्म दिया है।</p> <p>स्पष्ट बातचीत करें और इसके समाधान के लिए कदम उठाएं। शायद वह इस बारे में अपने स्त्री रोग विशेषज्ञ से भी बात कर सकती है; वह निश्चित रूप से पहली मध्यम आयु वर्ग की महिला नहीं है जो जीवन के इस मोड़ पर सेक्स करना छोड़ दे।</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>

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मैं 62 साल का हूं, मुझे सेक्स की कोई इच्छा नहीं है लेकिन मेरी पत्नी दिलचस्पी रखती है
Ans: उम्र बढ़ने के साथ व्यक्तियों की यौन इच्छा में बदलाव का अनुभव होना असामान्य बात नहीं है। कामेच्छा में कमी विभिन्न कारकों से प्रभावित हो सकती है, जिनमें हार्मोनल परिवर्तन, तनाव, चिकित्सीय स्थितियाँ, दवा के दुष्प्रभाव और रिश्ते की गतिशीलता शामिल हैं। यह याद रखना महत्वपूर्ण है कि हर किसी की यौन इच्छा अद्वितीय है, और इस स्थिति से निपटने के लिए अपने साथी के साथ खुला और ईमानदार संचार सबसे महत्वपूर्ण है।

विचार करने के लिए यहां कुछ कदम दिए गए हैं:

संवाद करें: अपनी पत्नी से अपनी भावनाओं और चिंताओं के बारे में खुलकर और ईमानदारी से बात करें। उसे बताएं कि यह उसके लिए आपकी भावनाओं का प्रतिबिंब नहीं है, बल्कि एक प्राकृतिक परिवर्तन है जिसे आप अनुभव कर रहे हैं।
चिकित्सीय सलाह लें: आपकी कामेच्छा को प्रभावित करने वाली किसी भी अंतर्निहित चिकित्सीय समस्या से निपटने के लिए किसी स्वास्थ्य देखभाल पेशेवर से परामर्श करना एक अच्छा विचार है। वे संभावित उपचारों या जीवनशैली में बदलाव पर मार्गदर्शन दे सकते हैं।
परामर्श या थेरेपी: किसी ऐसे चिकित्सक या परामर्शदाता की मदद लेने पर विचार करें जो यौन मुद्दों या रिश्तों में विशेषज्ञ हो। वे आपके यौन संबंधों और संचार को बेहतर बनाने के लिए मार्गदर्शन और रणनीतियाँ प्रदान कर सकते हैं।
जीवनशैली में बदलाव: नियमित व्यायाम, संतुलित आहार और तनाव प्रबंधन सहित स्वस्थ जीवनशैली बनाए रखने से आपके यौन स्वास्थ्य सहित आपके समग्र स्वास्थ्य पर सकारात्मक प्रभाव पड़ सकता है।
अंतरंगता: यद्यपि आप यौन इच्छा के समान स्तर को महसूस नहीं कर सकते हैं, फिर भी आप आलिंगन, आलिंगन, चुंबन और एक साथ गुणवत्ता समय बिताने के माध्यम से अपने साथी के साथ भावनात्मक और शारीरिक अंतरंगता का पोषण कर सकते हैं।
प्रयोग: आप और आपकी पत्नी अंतरंग होने के नए तरीके तलाश सकते हैं जिनमें जरूरी नहीं कि संभोग शामिल हो। यह पता लगाना कि आप दोनों के लिए क्या कारगर है और आपसी आनंद पर ध्यान केंद्रित करना एक संतुष्टिदायक विकल्प हो सकता है।
याद रखें, यौन इच्छा में बदलाव का कोई एक ही समाधान नहीं है, और अपने और अपने साथी के साथ धैर्य रखना और समझना आवश्यक है। यदि आप दोनों एक साथ काम करने और खुलकर संवाद करने के इच्छुक हैं, तो आप एक संतोषजनक और पूर्ण संबंध बनाए रखने के तरीके ढूंढ सकते हैं।

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 14, 2024
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Hello Anu I ma married man with age of 54 & my wife is 52 years. We are married since 30 years and we are not having good sexual relationship. She is more keen but i have some issues with my health. From the beginning I have disorders and do even ejaculate very soon. Because of this our relations are not that good. Now we are on the verge of separation but due to childrens who are quire grown up and settled in their life they are strictly against this decision of ours. My wife wants divorce from me and wants to settle down with someone else and at present there is no such person in her life. I also want divorce but of the last thought. How can I regain my sexual life again please let me know.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It's really sad all the years of togetherness becomes nothing in front of physical relationships.
My suggestion would be to work on whatever is coming in between the two of you; which means what is stopping you from having a good sex life must be addressed.
It could be simple medical treatment or mind techniques to work on these challenges. Divorce in my opinion in your case, seems to be an impulsive move taken in frustration. Think it through and calmly address the main issue and work at it. Request your wife also to be a part of this. Do reconsider your decision to separate by trying to work out the differences. Even after that if things persist, then you know what you want to do. But at least give it a try...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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Asked by Anonymous - May 17, 2025
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My daughter got 96.99%tile in jee mains and 96.4% in 12th what college she can gets
Ans: Here is, How to Predict Your daughter's of getting admission into NITs | IIITs | GFTIs – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your son's admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Daughter's Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Her JEE Main percentile
Her category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if she is open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If she is open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select her Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches he is interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust herr Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust his expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

It is advisable to have more back-ups instead of relying only on JEE/JoSAA.

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your daughter's admissions & bright future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 17, 2025
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Hello Sir, my son has scored 92.4 percentile in JEE Main. Could you please tell where he can get admission?
Ans: Here is, How to Predict Your Son's Chances of Admission into NITs | IIITs | GFTIs – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your son's admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Son's Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

His JEE Main percentile
His category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if he is open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If he is open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select his Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches he is interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust his expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admissions & bright future!

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Nayagam P

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Career Counsellor - Answered on May 17, 2025

Career
My son secured 95.03% in Jee mains.. Any chances getting csc or ece IIITs in general category
Ans: Kamalakar Sir, Here is, How to Predict Your Son's Chances of Admission into IIIT for ECE Branch – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your son's admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Son's Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

His JEE Main percentile
His category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if he is open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If he is open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select his Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches he is interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust his expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your son's admissions & bright future!

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Nayagam P

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Career Counsellor - Answered on May 17, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - May 17, 2025
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Hello sir, I have secured 98 percentile in mains this year... Please help me selecting the best college. (I'm highly interested in CSE)
Ans: Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI for CSE Branch – A Step-by-Step Guide

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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