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Hello, I have recently started working out as I am looking to gain some good weight. My current height is 5'10 and my weight is 65kgs. Can you please suggest me a diet in order to gain good weight with a mix of proteins and other foods good for natural gaining.
Ans: Your ideal weight should be around 77 to 80 kgs and hence protein requirement is 70 gms per day .

Pre workouts you can have
Carbs so as to perform max during your workouts .

Eg

Oats / nuts with fruit like banana / orange / apple
Overnight soaked almonds / walnuts / pista -5 to 7 pcs each

Post workouts you need to include proteins in diet
Eg protein supplement - isopure or muscle blaze -30 gms or GNC muscle gain -30 gms in a glass of milk or water

Can have eggs -2 to 3 / sprouts -1 bowl / paneer grilled -100 gms

Or Smoothie - protein supplement + nuts + milk + fruit of your choice .

Rest in the meals you can add
Paneer
Sprouts
Dal
Lentils
Eggs
Chicken
Fish
Curds
Milk and milk products
Soy beans etc
Which are loaded with proteins and will help achieve your requirements of protein in the body .
Also help built lean muscle mass .
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Self-care: Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. Engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Prioritizing self-care allows you to bring a positive and balanced energy to your friendships.

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