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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 31, 2023Hindi
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Thanks Madam. Your diagnosis is absolutely correct. But the challenge is with following the prescriptions, which requires lots of patience. I tried to convince my wife several times to join some school or any other organization, where she can get mentally engaged. Earning money is not a priority. But, she never agreed. In fact, she gets infuriated with any of my suggestions. She keeps blaming me for not being a working woman. In absence of all social/ family support system, it is frustrating when I don't find any progress since last 10 years or so.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If the marriage and the person is important, you know you will do what it takes to get things back to what they were. She is just playing around to get your attention and of others as well.
Your children are the biggest supporters in this journey and YEs, it requires patience.
If you have decided to give up, then you will continue with this fault finding with her. Can you change the past? Then why keep talking about it?
Think about what is important now in the relationship and do just that. It isn't easy, but it isn't impossible either!
And to make this possible, you need to clear your mind from the past baggage and move ahead. I am sure you can do this otherwise you would not have interacted twice with me. You want things to get better and I am sure you can look at the suggestions made and do what's best for the family.

I wish the best!

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Hello sir, I am a 42 year old, have a dependend wife and 10 yr old daughter (5 STD). I have a monthly income of 2.25 lakh in hand. Monthly expenses 70k. I have no debts and I am staying in my own flat. I invested 1 lakhs in equity stocks, 16 lakhs in MF lumpsum, 13 lakh in FD and 10 lakh in NSC. Till date my PF is 27 lacs. I pay 40,000 SIP monthly starting from 2023, pay PPF 1.5 lacs p.a.from 2022, pay NPS 1.3 lacs p.a from 2022 and pay SSY 1.5 lacs p.a.from 2020 and PPF for wife 1 lacs p.a from 2022 and PPF for daughter 50k p.a.from 2023. Family medical insurance of 10 lacs.. and myself term insurance of 50 lakhs and LIC of 10 lakhs. Also I purchased LIC Child Money back of 10 lacs and SBI smart chap 5 lacs for my daughter education. I want to plan my retirement at the age of 55. How should i plan my retirement 3 cr corpus??
Ans: Your financial situation is stable, with multiple investments and no liabilities.

Income: Rs. 2.25 lakh per month offers strong savings potential after expenses.

Expenses: Rs. 70,000 per month leaves ample room for investments.

Existing Investments: Equity stocks (Rs. 1 lakh), mutual funds (Rs. 16 lakh), FD (Rs. 13 lakh), NSC (Rs. 10 lakh), and PF (Rs. 27 lakh) form a diversified base.

Ongoing Commitments: SIP of Rs. 40,000, PPF contributions, and NPS add regular growth.

Insurance Coverage: Adequate health insurance (Rs. 10 lakh) and term insurance (Rs. 50 lakh).

Defining Your Retirement Goal
You aim for a Rs. 3 crore corpus by age 55. Consider inflation and lifestyle needs.

Inflation Impact: Rs. 3 crore today might not suffice in 13 years due to inflation.

Monthly Expenses: Rs. 70,000 now could double to Rs. 1.4 lakh due to 6% inflation.

Longevity Planning: Plan for a 30-year post-retirement period to ensure financial security.

Evaluating Current Investments
Equity Stocks: Rs. 1 lakh is a small allocation. Consider diversifying into mutual funds.

Mutual Funds: Rs. 16 lakh in lump sum and Rs. 40,000 SIP build growth over time.

Fixed Deposits: Rs. 13 lakh ensures safety but offers low returns.

National Savings Certificate (NSC): Rs. 10 lakh provides stability but lacks flexibility.

Provident Fund: Rs. 27 lakh builds wealth steadily, given your regular contributions.

PPF and NPS: Long-term instruments aligned with retirement goals.

SSY for Daughter: Rs. 1.5 lakh annually ensures her education expenses are planned.

Insurance Policies: LIC and child plans provide minimal returns; consider alternatives.

Key Recommendations for Retirement Planning
Optimising Investments
Increase SIP Amount: Gradually raise your SIP to benefit from compounding and market growth.

Focus on Equity Funds: Actively managed funds can generate higher returns compared to index funds.

Reduce FD Dependence: Move a portion of FDs into balanced mutual funds for better returns.

Exit Traditional Plans: Consider surrendering LIC and SBI child plans to reinvest in high-growth mutual funds.

Build Emergency Fund: Maintain 6–12 months' expenses in liquid funds or savings accounts.

Enhancing Retirement Corpus
Leverage NPS: Increase contributions to benefit from tax savings and market-linked returns.

Continue PPF Contributions: This offers tax benefits and secure, inflation-beating returns.

Diversify Equity Allocation: Explore mid- and small-cap funds for higher growth potential.

Tax Efficiency: Plan withdrawals carefully to minimise capital gains taxes.

Securing Post-Retirement Income
Systematic Withdrawal Plans (SWP): Use SWPs for a steady, tax-efficient post-retirement income.

Debt Funds: Consider debt funds for predictable, stable returns during retirement.

Hybrid Mutual Funds: These balance growth and stability, suitable for retirement years.

Rebalance Regularly: Adjust equity and debt allocations annually as retirement nears.

Planning for Daughter’s Education
SSY Continuation: Ensure contributions continue till maturity for her education needs.

Mutual Funds for Education: Invest in diversified mutual funds for additional education corpus.

Avoid Traditional Plans: LIC and child policies may underperform compared to mutual funds.

Protecting Against Risks
Health Insurance: Increase family health coverage to at least Rs. 20 lakh to cover rising medical costs.

Term Insurance: Ensure term insurance coverage matches your family’s financial needs.

Inflation-Proofing: Allocate part of the retirement corpus to equity for inflation-adjusted growth.

Emergency Fund: Keep funds easily accessible for unexpected expenses.

Final Insights
Your financial foundation is strong, and your retirement goal is achievable with better planning. Focus on optimising investments, ensuring inflation-adjusted returns, and securing your family’s future. Regular reviews with a certified financial planner will ensure alignment with your goals.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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