Should I give up on finding a partner as a single child?

Dear Love Guru,  I am 40 years old, recently divorced. I have two children. I am not working.  My friends and family want me to find a partner again and get married but it is not easy to find anyone. When I tell my friends and family to find they also become quiet because they know no one is interested in a mother of two children.  My husband is already aaram se dating again and having fun.  I also want to date and find someone but I am not comfortable with Tinder which seems like it is for kids. I don’t want to register on a marriage site.  How do I find someone who will not be horrible to me like my ex-husband was?

Hello Gurus! I am 40 yr divorced NRI man in the UK. I have a 10 yr old son and he lives with his mum in a different country. I have visitation rights and I meet him regularly. I have been divorced for 6 years now. I have been trying to date since last 5 years and it has been quite a frustrating experience. I do not want to jump to Matrimonial Sites as I would prefer to date someone to know them better before deciding to settle in a committed relationship. Also, there are many frauds on the Matrimonial Sites. My challenge is that most of the single women in the age range of 36 – 42 that I have met in last 5 yrs is that either they have unstable career and looking for someone to depend upon or if they have a career, they are arrogant and unruly. Though I look decent, I don’t have looks as a criteria. I worry sometimes if will I ever find love and affection in my life. Apart from the dating apps, where else do you suggest I could try to meet decent and normal woman?

I am 41 years old and happily single. Have worked overseas and have settled in India with my own business, which keeps me more occupied. Parental and society pressure is to settle down, but can't find the person or reason to connect. Any advise...

Hi Team, I am 40 years old with 9 year old son, divorced an year back. Separated from my husband 4 year's back....I am Senior software engineer, well settled in life with supporting family.. My mom wants me to get married, i have gone through a bad rough phase in my previous marriage..I also need a partner in life but worried about the kind of person who might come in life and not sure will the person be good and will be give intense love to me and my son.. For me my son is my world and he is my lifeline...I am Regular follow of your advises, i have seen many people approaching you people and they are looking for partners in life.. I don't want to register in matrimonial sites as maximum are fake profiles... What is your advise???

I am 33, female, living and working in Bangalore. My parents are constantly asking me to settle down in an arranged marriage. I was in a serious relationship but the boy cheated me for a rich girl so I have trust issues. The people I meet for marriage either on apps or through friends don't want commitment. My mom is scared that if I don't marry soon, society will label me as old and picky. I don't want to marry for the heck of it. Is it even possible to find someone serious online or should I rely on my parents to find a suitable guy?