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Varun Question by Varun on Oct 26, 2023Hindi
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I am 41 years old and happily single. Have worked overseas and have settled in India with my own business, which keeps me more occupied. Parental and society pressure is to settle down, but can't find the person or reason to connect. Any advise...

Ans: Dear Varun,

Genuine connections happen only when you are open to them and ready for it. If you are ready to give it a shot, you might want to sign up for a dating app and scope the dating pool before jumping into action. Meet new people, make some new friends, and see what’s all this hype about romance and online dating. If you happen to enjoy it, get to work; start looking for a serious partner.

It's easy to meet people online and easier to attract the right person. Be sure to set your intentions clear in your BIO and once you have connected with someone. Get to know each other. A match is not a commitment. If it does not seem to work out for you, you can mutually part ways. And repeat the process. Soon enough you will find the right person for you.

Best Wishes!

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 07, 2023Hindi
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Hello Gurus! I am 40 yr divorced NRI man in the UK. I have a 10 yr old son and he lives with his mum in a different country. I have visitation rights and I meet him regularly. I have been divorced for 6 years now. I have been trying to date since last 5 years and it has been quite a frustrating experience. I do not want to jump to Matrimonial Sites as I would prefer to date someone to know them better before deciding to settle in a committed relationship. Also, there are many frauds on the Matrimonial Sites. My challenge is that most of the single women in the age range of 36 – 42 that I have met in last 5 yrs is that either they have unstable career and looking for someone to depend upon or if they have a career, they are arrogant and unruly. Though I look decent, I don’t have looks as a criteria. I worry sometimes if will I ever find love and affection in my life. Apart from the dating apps, where else do you suggest I could try to meet decent and normal woman?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I hear your concern but I don't think it has anything to do with the mode of dating. Online or IRL, rude people will continue to be rude everywhere. Also, not everyone with a stable career is arrogant and unruly, men and women alike.

Apart from dating apps, you can try finding love IRL. You can try going to clubs, cafes, or social gatherings to meet like-minded women. Or you can ask your friends to set you up with someone who matches your criteria. You can join some activity of your liking to find women who prefer the same things as you. Start with a HI and see where it goes.

You can find a decent human being even in a dating app. It is a matter of patience, a pinch of luck, and primarily a good amount of effort from your end. To get better results, try mentioning your intents in your bio; for instance, you want to date and then move on to marriage- mention the same in your bio to attract the right kind of people.


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Hello Sir/Ma'am, Myself Sachin. Basically I'm from Thrissur (Kerala) where I born. But in terms of education, I did my schooling & colleges from Pune (Maharashtra). My DOB is 30th October 1984. So right now I'm 39. Till now I'm single trying to get a life partner to have a good understanding since 7 years. However, no one I got yet. Even I tried dating through online dating app called quack quack where sometimes I get a positive responses. But later on, that relationship doesn't prolongs. In this situation, what shall I do to have a good life partner? Right now I reside in Coimbatore (Tamilnadu) with my parents in one of the senior citizen complex. In terms of education I did my BBA from Delhi University. Also have work experience into customer support voice process for about 9 years. Currently I run my business as a photostat in Coimbatore.
Ans: Hi Sachin,

I understand that dating can sometimes be very frustrating. You have every right to start wondering whether it will work or not. Since you have already tried dating apps and even had a positive experience, I would ask you to recognize that as a win first. Second, let me share some tips with you that might help you find the right kind of matches:

- Write a detailed and attractive Bio. What should it include? 40% about yourself- your education, your quirks and habits, likes and preferences, and everything that makes you you. 10% about what you can offer as a partner. 10% about the type of relationship you want. Do you want to date exclusively, or are you looking for casual? Are you looking to get married or long-term dating? Mention it clearly to attract the right matches. The remaining 40% should be about the kind of person you want to date. Your idea of a perfect partner. It would save you a lot of time and energy on the relationships that start strong but eventually fizzle out.

- The display picture can play an important role. Always pick a recent and clear image to never mislead anyone. Choose an image that shows you in your element, preferably smiling because that makes you seem warm and welcoming. Refrain from over-editing.

- Another important step is the first message. Write a detailed and personalized first message instead of a Hi.

Other than this, I would ask you to have patience. Regardless of the mode of dating, finding the right partner can take time in certain instances. Good things take time.

Best Wishes.

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I am a Good Looking guy aged 32 , Government Officer and I do own my own consultancy firm and an Wildlife conservation NGO. I am into Music field as a singer and instrumentalist since 17 years. However I am unable to find a right life partner. Most of them reject as I am not ready to move to Bangalore. Basically I am from Mysore and work in Coorg. I live with mom and we are Brahmin family with moderate values and respect towards our culture and not orthodox. Now I am not ready for intercaste marriage. I dont have any compulsions like working girl or not working girl. I need only a girl who is beautiful , caring and loving. She should understand her responsibilities. I think I deserve such life partner. What to do ? How can I make any match.
Ans: Dear R,
You can try asking close friends and family members to set you up with someone compatible. If you want more control over this, try a matchmaking and dating app. A little research and you will find the right apps, ideally, the ones that cater to serious daters who are looking to get married. Once you find that, update your profile with a recent picture; write your qualifications in the BIO to impress your matches, and mention exactly what you expect from your match- good looks, caring, loving, and responsible- this would help you attract the right people and save you time and energy from chatting up the wrong matches that will go nowhere. These platforms are perfect for finding a compatible partner because you can, quite literally, filter through tons of people and find the one that suits you best.

Hope this helps. Best Wishes.

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If I transfer shares Rs 10L worth from my demat to my wife, will there be any tax implications on me. Also once my wife receive the shares in her demat, if she sells what would be the tax implications on her for Rs 10L shares sold
Ans: Tax Implications on Transfer of Shares to Your Wife
No tax on the transfer:
Transferring shares to your wife is treated as a gift.
Under Indian tax laws, gifts between spouses are tax-free.
There is no gift tax for you or your wife on this transfer.

No capital gains tax at the time of transfer:
Since you are not selling the shares, there is no capital gain.
Hence, no capital gains tax applies to you.

Tax Implications When Your Wife Sells the Shares
Clubbing of Income Rules Apply:
Even though the shares are in your wife’s name, the capital gains will be taxed in your hands.
This is due to the clubbing provisions under Section 64 of the Income Tax Act.
The income from the gifted asset is added to the income of the person who gifted it.

Capital Gains Calculation:
The original cost of acquisition and the holding period will be based on when you bought the shares.
This means:

Short-term or long-term capital gain will depend on your holding period.
Indexed cost (for long-term gains) will be based on your purchase date.
Tax Rate:

Short-term capital gains (STCG): Taxed at 15% if held for less than 1 year.
Long-term capital gains (LTCG): Gains above Rs 1 lakh taxed at 10% (without indexation) if held for more than 1 year.
Key Points to Remember
The capital gain will be added to your taxable income, not your wife’s.
If your wife reinvests the proceeds, income from that reinvestment will be taxed in her name.
This clubbing rule applies only to the first level of income (capital gains in this case).
How to Reduce Tax Liability (Legally)
If your wife invests the sale proceeds into new assets, the future income from those assets will be taxed in her name.
This helps in tax planning for future earnings.
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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 08, 2024Hindi
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Hello sir Very very afternoon How To Claim Tax Amount With Out GST Number.
Ans: If you do not have a GST number, you cannot claim GST input tax credit (ITC) or get a refund of GST paid on purchases. However, depending on your situation, there are some ways to manage taxes:

1. If You Are a Salaried Employee
You don’t need a GST number to file income tax returns.
You can claim deductions under Section 80C, 80D, HRA, and other sections to reduce taxable income.
If TDS is deducted, file ITR to claim excess tax refund.
2. If You Are a Business Owner or Freelancer (Without GST Number)
If your turnover is below Rs 20 lakh (service) or Rs 40 lakh (goods), GST registration is not mandatory.
You cannot charge GST on invoices or claim input tax credit on business expenses.
Instead, show expenses as deductions under income tax rules.
3. If You Paid GST but Do Not Have a GST Number
If you have paid GST on any purchase, but you don’t have a GSTIN, you cannot claim ITC.
However, you can include those expenses as business costs to reduce income tax.
4. If You Are Eligible for GST Registration
If your business turnover exceeds the GST threshold, register for GST to claim ITC.
If you voluntarily register for GST, you can claim ITC on future purchases.
5. If You Want a GST Refund Without a GST Number
GST refunds are usually only for registered businesses.
If you are an exporter or have made a zero-rated supply, you need a GST number to claim refunds.
If you were wrongly charged GST, you can request the seller for a refund or avoid paying GST on exempted items.
Final Insights
Without a GST number, you cannot claim GST input tax credit.
For salaried employees, claim deductions under income tax laws.
For businesses, show expenses to reduce taxable income.
If eligible, register for GST to claim ITC and get refunds.

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 04, 2025Hindi
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Hi Sir.. i came across this website and found many peoples' financial security questions were clarified with good advice. I'm now 35. Working in abroad. Right now my salary is good and can save, but can't say for the future, since there are decisions by the countries to give job preference to the citizens rather than expats. So just I want to start something save for future I haven't started investing in Stocks / Mutual Funds. Just planning to invest soon. Just a beginer in these areas. Apart from that I have own home, wife home, some land properties altogether adds to 2 to 3 Cr. But these are properties not planned for selling as these will have carry on to next generation. Please advice me for my future financial security for myself and wife, 2 Sons and If I plan for another kid. My Goals as below. I have a salary of 2.5L+ INR per month. I not planned for early retirement. Will just work based on my health conditions (right now ok). So i have to plan for 1. Son 1 (Age: 3) - Education & Marriage 2. Son 2 (Age: 6m)- Education & Marriage 3, 3rd kid if in case.... 4. Also If I want to buy a property (say 5 years once), how can I save or invest money. 5. Then a decent income of 75000 to 100000 per month in future once I started investing from now onwards. 6. Emergency funds. 7. Soon to buy a car (mostly 2nd hand) 1. I don't have any loans. 2. I don't have health insurance for myself or my family 3. I have started invested in HDFC Sanchay PLus 4. My expenses in India is around 15000 to 20000 per month 5. My abroad expenses around 40000 per month
Ans: You have a strong financial foundation with a good salary, no loans, and multiple properties. Since you are new to stocks and mutual funds, a structured approach will help secure your family's future. Below is a complete financial plan considering your goals.

1. Emergency Fund
Keep at least 6 to 12 months of expenses in a separate account.
Since your monthly expenses (India + abroad) are around Rs 60,000, maintain Rs 5-7 lakhs in a liquid fund or fixed deposit.
This will protect you from unexpected job loss or medical emergencies.
2. Health Insurance
Since you and your family don’t have health insurance, getting coverage is important.
Opt for a Rs 10-20 lakh family floater health insurance plan.
Choose a separate policy for your parents if they are dependent on you.
A good insurance policy will reduce the risk of medical expenses affecting your savings.
3. Investments for Children’s Education & Marriage
For Son 1 (Age: 3) & Son 2 (Age: 6 months)
Higher education costs in India and abroad are rising.
You need at least Rs 50-80 lakhs per child for higher education after 15 years.
Marriage expenses may require Rs 20-30 lakhs per child after 25 years.
Investment Plan:

Invest Rs 25,000 per month in a mix of equity mutual funds.
Split between large-cap, mid-cap, and flexi-cap funds.
Increase investment by 10% every year to match inflation.
Invest in regular mutual funds through a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) for expert guidance.
4. Future Property Purchase (Every 5 Years)
Buying a property every 5 years requires structured saving.
You should accumulate at least Rs 50-80 lakhs in 5 years for the next property.
Investment Plan:

Set aside Rs 40,000 per month in a combination of debt and equity funds.
For short-term (5 years), invest 60% in debt funds and 40% in equity funds.
This ensures capital safety while still getting growth.
5. Building Future Passive Income (Rs 75,000 to Rs 1 Lakh per Month)
To generate Rs 1 lakh per month, you need a corpus of Rs 2-3 crore.
Since you are just starting, a mix of growth and income-based investments is necessary.
Investment Plan:

Allocate Rs 50,000 per month to mutual funds with dividend options.
Invest in a mix of high-quality debt and equity funds for steady returns.
Increase investment as your salary grows.
6. Retirement Planning
You haven’t planned for early retirement, but financial freedom is important.
You need Rs 5-7 crore to retire comfortably by 55-60 years.
Investment Plan:

Invest Rs 50,000 per month in equity mutual funds.
Increase SIP amount as your income increases.
Later, shift investments to safer options like senior citizen schemes and annuities for retirement income.
7. Buying a Car (2nd Hand Car Soon)
If planning to buy in the next 6-12 months, keep the amount in a fixed deposit or liquid fund.
For a Rs 10 lakh car, set aside Rs 1 lakh per month for the next 10 months.
Avoid car loans since you have good savings potential.
8. Life Insurance Protection
If you don’t have term insurance, buy a Rs 2-3 crore term plan immediately.
This ensures your family is financially protected.
9. Investment Strategy for Beginners
Since you are new to stocks and mutual funds, start SIP investments in regular mutual funds.
Avoid index funds and direct plans, as actively managed funds provide better risk-adjusted returns.
Work with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) to select the best funds.
10. Reviewing & Monitoring Investments
Review investments every 6 months with a Certified Financial Planner.
Rebalance asset allocation based on market conditions.
Increase SIP amounts as income grows.
Final Insights
Your current financial position is strong, and you have the potential to create long-term wealth.
A structured investment plan in mutual funds will secure your family’s future.
Protect your family with health and life insurance immediately.
Set clear financial goals and invest consistently.
Avoid unnecessary loans and focus on building assets.
Work with a Certified Financial Planner for better financial security.
Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,

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My mother sold a house with Rs. 50Lac capital-gain. Can she buy a Rs. 50Lac house to get tax exemption, but register it under my name? Or she need to register in her name and then execute a gift deed to avoid tax for both of us?
Ans: For your mother to claim capital gains tax exemption under Section 54 of the Income Tax Act, the property must meet certain conditions:

Key Conditions for Section 54 Exemption
Ownership: The new property must be purchased in your mother’s name.
Timeframe: Purchase should be within 1 year before or 2 years after the sale of the original property.
Type of Property: Must be a residential property in India.
Can She Register the Property in Your Name?
No, she cannot claim the tax exemption if the property is directly registered in your name.
The exemption is strictly allowed when the new property is purchased in the name of the seller (your mother).
Alternative Option: Gift Deed After Purchase
Your mother can purchase the property in her name and claim the exemption.
After the purchase, she can execute a gift deed to transfer the property to you.
A gift from mother to child is tax-free under the Income Tax Act.
However, you may incur stamp duty charges on the gift deed, depending on your state’s rules.
Why This Approach Works
The Income Tax Department recognizes the exemption because the initial purchase was in your mother’s name.
The gift deed is treated separately and doesn’t affect her eligibility for the exemption.
Final Suggestion
Buy the property in your mother’s name to claim the exemption.
Afterward, transfer it to you through a gift deed to avoid capital gains tax for both of you.
Consult a tax expert for proper documentation and compliance.
This ensures tax savings and a smooth transfer of ownership.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 01, 2025Hindi
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hi team, thank you for guiding on verious queries my current portfolio is distributed as below, can you please suggest for better improvement. Index funds 43.93% mid-cap 21.9% large & mid-cap 11.78% flexi cap 9.08% large-cap 7.07% sector technology 5.61% elss (tax savings) 0.3% global other 0%
Ans: Your portfolio has a good mix of equity funds. You have diversified across market caps. However, there is room for improvement. A structured approach can enhance returns and reduce risks.

Strengths of Your Portfolio
You have a strong allocation to mid-cap and flexi-cap funds. These have high growth potential.

Large-cap funds provide stability in your portfolio.

A sectoral fund can give additional growth in specific market cycles.

ELSS investment provides tax benefits. Even though allocation is low, it helps in tax savings.

Areas for Improvement
High Exposure to Index Funds
Index funds make up 43.93% of your portfolio. This is too high.

Index funds do not outperform the market. They only match it.

Actively managed funds give better returns over time.

Fund managers adjust holdings based on market trends. Index funds lack this flexibility.

Reducing index fund allocation can help improve returns.

Mid-Cap and Large & Mid-Cap Allocation
Mid-cap funds are 21.9% of your portfolio.

Large & mid-cap funds are 11.78%. This combination gives good growth.

These funds need long-term holding for better returns.

You can continue holding them, but periodic review is necessary.

Low Allocation to Large-Cap Funds
Large-cap funds are only 7.07%.

Large-cap stocks provide stability in downturns.

You may increase allocation to maintain a balanced portfolio.

Sectoral Fund Allocation
Technology sector fund is 5.61%.

Sectoral funds are high-risk. They perform well only in certain cycles.

If technology sector underperforms, it can drag your returns down.

Reducing exposure may help in risk management.

No Allocation to International Funds
Your portfolio has 0% in global funds.

International funds provide geographic diversification.

This helps in reducing risk from local market downturns.

A small allocation to international funds is recommended.

Suggested Portfolio Rebalancing
Reduce index fund exposure. Shift to actively managed funds.

Maintain mid-cap and flexi-cap allocations for long-term growth.

Increase large-cap allocation for better stability.

Reduce sectoral exposure to manage risk.

Add a small portion to international funds for diversification.

Risk Management and Portfolio Review
Equity investments need long-term commitment.

Review your portfolio every six months.

Rebalance if any fund underperforms consistently.

Ensure you have adequate health insurance for financial security.

Finally
Your portfolio is structured well, but small changes can improve returns.

Reducing index funds will enhance growth potential.

A better mix of large-cap and global funds can reduce risks.

Keep reviewing your investments and adjusting as needed.

A disciplined approach will help you achieve long-term financial goals.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP

Chief Financial Planner

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I am 35, single, earning Rs 10 LPA with no loans or liabilities. I have savings of Rs 15 lakh. I want to retire at 50 with a corpus of Rs 5 crore. How can I plan my investment? Possible?
Ans: Your goal is ambitious but achievable. You have a stable income and good savings. With the right investment plan, you can build wealth.

Understanding Your Current Financial Position
You earn Rs. 10 lakh per year. This gives good savings potential.

You have Rs. 15 lakh in savings. This is a strong base to start.

You have no loans or liabilities. This gives flexibility in investing.

You want Rs. 5 crore in 15 years. This needs disciplined planning.

A structured investment strategy will help you achieve this.

How Much Should You Invest?
You need to invest aggressively for wealth creation.

A mix of equity and debt investments will help balance risk.

Invest a large portion in equity for long-term growth.

Increase investments every year as your income rises.

Review your portfolio regularly to stay on track.

Building an Investment Portfolio
Actively managed mutual funds can generate higher returns.

A mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap funds is ideal.

Equity mutual funds should form a major part of your portfolio.

Debt investments can provide stability in the long run.

Avoid index funds, as they lack flexibility and active management.

Role of Savings and Emergency Fund
Keep at least six months of expenses in an emergency fund.

This fund should be in liquid investments for easy access.

Do not use retirement investments for short-term needs.

Maintain a separate health fund for medical emergencies.

Retirement Planning Considerations
Inflation will increase expenses in retirement. Plan accordingly.

You need a withdrawal strategy for a stable income after 50.

Medical costs will rise. Health insurance is essential.

Continue investing even after retirement for wealth preservation.

Insurance and Risk Management
A term life insurance policy is necessary if you have dependents.

Health insurance is critical for financial security.

Avoid investment-cum-insurance plans as they have low returns.

Separate insurance and investment for better financial growth.

Finally
Your goal is achievable with disciplined investments.

Equity investments should be the core of your portfolio.

Increase SIP amounts as your income grows.

Keep reviewing and adjusting your strategy regularly.

A well-planned approach will help you retire comfortably at 50.

Stay focused and committed to your financial plan.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP

Chief Financial Planner

www.holisticinvestment.in
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