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20 Year Old Sam Confused About Arranged Marriage: Should I Go Through With It?

Anu Krishna |1530 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 22, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 19, 2024Hindi

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I am sam i am 20 yr old . When I was 17 my parents talked an alliance i said I don't want to get married but they talked about the groomed so much that I accepted to get married then after 1 month i lied to him that I love someone but so he stopped after 2 yrs they are coming back thinking that I am mature now they want me to get married my dad said he want me to get married to that groom and I am flip flopping

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are young...please think of yourself, your career (if you are career oriented) and do find ways to make yourself financially independent first. That will give you focus on what you want in a life partner and then you will not nod your head to just anybody and everybody.
Use the next couple of years to build an identity for yourself will be my suggestion. But if you really think that you want to get married and what your parents think is right for you, then stop using so much of your mind into it. State a few things that you wish to see and have in the groom and if that is satisfied, what more is the problem?

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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I am sam i am 20 yr old . When I was 17 my parents talked an alliance i said I don't want to get married but they talked about the groomed so much that I accepted to get married then after 1 month i lied to him that I love someone but so he stopped after 2 yrs they are coming back thinking that I am mature now they want me to get married my dad said he want me to get married to that groom and I am flip flopping . I still don't want to get married but no one seems to understand me or let me be single . I don't know what to do anymore

Ans: Dear Srisamhita,
Here is your answer in this link below:
https://gurus.rediff.com/question/qdtl/relationship/sam-20-yr-when-17-parents-talked-alliance-said-don/5181895

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Maam i am in relationship but my parents is not agree with them they are forcing me to do marriage with other but I can’t they have their mind set I can’t leave him also and can’t leave family also because today i am independent and earning because of them plz help me maam

Ans: Dear Preeti,
In almost most the questions that I receive on similar issues as yours, my suggestion has usually been: parents disagree due to certain beliefs that they have on culture, traditions, faith, financial status differences and so, actually talk to them about what actually is worrying them. That could be a start point for you.

Then of course, the reason as to why you chose this person cannot simply be: I like him and so...when you speak with your parents, they are going to need not just information but also a lot of reassurance as to why the boy is right one for you. Do ask you partner to step in to actually help in this situation with your parents. Let them get to know one another...You need to start somewhere to see what works and what does not and what absolutely will not! Then you can modify the manner in which you approach the situation; start somewhere...And oh, do not feel obligated to your parents and make decisions about your life. Instead know that they care for you and have done what parents do for their children.

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