Should I Marry Someone I Don't Love? - Sam, 20

Dear Love Guru, I'm 30 and my parents want me to get married. I have a boyfriend but I am not interested in getting married at the moment. Neither is he. I tried talking to my parents, but they are very adamant. Sometimes, my boyfriend and I feel we should pretend that we got married; the pressure is so much. What can I do? I want to travel, enjoy my life and then settle down. How do I handle this?

My parents said to me for marriage but i am relationship with someone but he doesn't want marry me he doesn't understand me and my parents also don't understand because it's very difficult for me move on in life

Hi Mam, Actually I am self independent girl. I am not financially dependent on anyone. I am good in my career. I have a boyfriend the relationship is been 10 years. lastyear when i told my parents i wanted to get married to him, my parents opposed it . now they have fixed my marriage with someone else , i tried to tell the person who is going to get married to me that i am in relationship and i am not able to overcome with that. i am not interested in this marriage. The boy who is going to get married to me told all the details what i have informed to him regrading my relationship to my parents . and also he is saying me that he is going to give me a good life he wanted to marry me only. what should i do now even my parents wanted me to get married to the person who they have arranged wedding .But i am really not interested.

I am sam i am 20 yr old . When I was 17 my parents talked an alliance i said I don't want to get married but they talked about the groomed so much that I accepted to get married then after 1 month i lied to him that I love someone but so he stopped after 2 yrs they are coming back thinking that I am mature now they want me to get married my dad said he want me to get married to that groom and I am flip flopping