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Samrat Question by Samrat on Oct 14, 2023Hindi
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Hii Anu, I am always curious about relationships and I have come across my relationship problems of my friends and solved them. But for a very long time I am wandering about the why even a happily married woman get attracted towards someone else ( I am not asking about males because I think I know about them) . Do these extramarital attractions are always result of deep unidentified issue in their marriages or it is a result of specific qualities that we admire ? Please help me to understand about these kinds of attraction outside committed relationships

Ans: Dear Samrat,
We are all humans and to develop feelings for someone is not the nature of a particular gender BUT to respond to that attraction is a choice that we have...
To have feelings for someone is also not dependent on whether one is married or not as it can be a product of some inadequacy within a marriage or relationship OR simply an infatuation which knows no age or marital status...
It could also be that you admire someone for who they are and get attracted towards them irrespective of being married or not AND what you do with that attraction is something that you have a choice on...
So, these attractions can be short-lived or when responded to can turn into a full affair but not without dragging a lot of people down...
Bottom line: Attraction is normal and usual BUT how you respond to it is something that will rule the next phase of your life...

All the best!

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sir am 26 yrs old . and I was doing company secretary couse but unfortunately couldn't clear in 2024 i join my father's personl office he was a accountant and later started his own firm and he was a advocate.. but sometimes I feel that ca degree is important for our office work when it comes to audit . so for providing ace to office I want to pursue ca but it's too hard as am not able to clear cs like ( 199 ) marks left with only 1 marks to pass . so I have a doubt that am not able to pas cs so how can I pass ca . i don't talk with my parents about my this thinking .. it's like am able to clear cs ? with ofc ? or not ? or it's just a bad decision for me ! please sir replyyyt !
Ans: Dear Priyanka,

Thank you for being so honest about everything!

Do you like CA and CS first of all? This is the first question you have to ask yourself!

The next question I want to you ask yourself is, ‘am I scoring less marks because I have not studied / lack of interest or lack of understanding of concepts?’ Seek help if you really want to clear these exams!

Next question is ask yourself , “what comes naturally to me and I love doing it?”. It can be anything…. cooking, baking, teaching, accounting, handling customers in your dad’s office, taking care of office administration, etc, list out everything and then home down to one thing and start working on it with honesty of purpose, let that become your way to earning money!

And please sit and have a heart to heart chat with your parents!
If verbal communication is a problem, write a letter to them… I am giving you options, choose what is comfortable to you , but talk to your parents!

All the very best…

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