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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 10, 2023

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Question by Samrat on Oct 17, 2023Hindi

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Hii Anu, first of all thanks you answered my question. My question is related to previous one. As you have mentioned that attraction can happen to anyone and it doesn't say anything about your relationship status, I wanted to ask do you ever have come across with the situation where attraction arises from admiration turned into extramarital affair. To be precise, I wanted to know do all extramarital affairs or cheating in a relationship is always a result of something missing in a relationship or something is wrong with the person e.g. self-esteem issues or any kind of personal insecurity ?

Ans: Dear Samrat,
Attraction can turn into an extra marital affair but an affair does not need a precursor to it. It may or may not be dependent on anything.
Yes, most often a lack in a relationship can cause people to look outside of marriage but this may not be the only reason. It's also the time and place and how the opportunity presents itself and how much one is willing to explore the realms outside of a marriage/relationship.
A person who practices monogamy will have very strong opinions about why one needs to be true to his/her partner whereas where people believe in multiple relationships will justify things according to what they believe. So there is no black and white answer just the way life is...they grey area comes around to confuse, question, debate and set us on a path that aligns well with our beliefs.

All the best!

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Hii Anu, I am always curious about relationships and I have come across my relationship problems of my friends and solved them. But for a very long time I am wandering about the why even a happily married woman get attracted towards someone else ( I am not asking about males because I think I know about them) . Do these extramarital attractions are always result of deep unidentified issue in their marriages or it is a result of specific qualities that we admire ? Please help me to understand about these kinds of attraction outside committed relationships

Ans: Dear Samrat,
We are all humans and to develop feelings for someone is not the nature of a particular gender BUT to respond to that attraction is a choice that we have...
To have feelings for someone is also not dependent on whether one is married or not as it can be a product of some inadequacy within a marriage or relationship OR simply an infatuation which knows no age or marital status...
It could also be that you admire someone for who they are and get attracted towards them irrespective of being married or not AND what you do with that attraction is something that you have a choice on...
So, these attractions can be short-lived or when responded to can turn into a full affair but not without dragging a lot of people down...
Bottom line: Attraction is normal and usual BUT how you respond to it is something that will rule the next phase of your life...

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Question by Samrat - Nov 23, 2023Hindi

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Hello Ma'am . Hope you're fine I have a doubt for some days regarding women. I have came across many questions from people (both male and female) that either a woman or a woman's partner is asking questions regarding that the woman has been involved into intimate relationship i.e. sharing their intimate details and emotional feelings to the other man even when they are satisfied in their marriage and these kind of intimate relationship doesn't involve anything romantic but as we all it also betrayal. In short , my question is that why these women got involve into intimate relationship outside their exclusive relationship even when her relationship is satisfying.

Ans: Hello Samrat,
It's important to recognize that every individual and relationship is unique, and there can be a variety of reasons why someone may seek emotional or intimate connections outside of their primary relationship, even when it seems satisfying. and there is no one-size-fits-all explanation for why some women may become involved in intimate relationships outside of their exclusive partnerships. People's motivations and actions are influenced by a complex interplay of psychological, emotional, social, and situational factors and this is not exclusive to women; individuals of any gender may experience this behavior.

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