During my conversation with my bf , I texted him that I will be waiting for that day when we will meet and he said let's see🙂 Idk why but something feels off ... Plus the emoji he sent makes me to doubt even more .. is it me overthinking or there is something.. even if i want to ask abt him wht should i ask him ??

Ans: Dear Yashasvi,
It's possible he wants both of you to have single minded focus on the exams. Nothing wrong in that!
But, if he's doing it to avoid you, then you need to ask him as to where your relationship is headed.
Thoda intezaar karna. Exams ke baad tumhe khud pataa lag jaayega ki time aaya ya nahin baat karne ke liye.
So, be a little patient; wait...focus on your exams and then on this issue.

All the best for the exams and in life!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Sometimes people are truly busy in their work place especially if they have meetings of deadlines coming up. But, if you are feeling that your partner can put a little more effort and reply to your messages, you are not wrong. If you have a gut feeling that something is wrong, do not ignore it. Talk to him directly. Tell him that you do not appreciate the way he is acting. There is nothing wrong in standing up for what you think you deserve. And as a matter of fact, you do not deserve to feel this way in a relationship. Talk about it.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Thank you, I am well and hope you are doing well too.

To want to get into the depth of life-changing event like choosing a life partner, is not called desperation but it's called clarification. And simply pick up the phone and call, why text?
Tell him that there are a few things that you would like to discuss with him and then let the conversation flow. I am sure that if he feels the same way about you and wants to make a decision, he too will come for his set of clarifications. Be clear and communicate your intent clearly.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand your concern, but I cannot completely dismiss his argument- you have, after all, met only once or twice. That might be enough for you, but for some others, it can be a tad too fast. But at the same time, if you are in a rush or if you think there are other signs that indicate that he might not be serious, please rethink the relationship. There is nothing wrong with that. You have not been dating for a very long time, and there is still time for you to reconsider before you are too deep into this.

Hope this helps.