Hi, I am 31 yr old girl and in relationship from last 7 months. My bf is not talking to me over call or messages. On my messages he is replying only once or twice in a day. Is it okay? When I want to know the reason for the same every time his answer is he was busy in study or job? What should I do ? Is I am overthinking on him?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Sometimes people are truly busy in their work place especially if they have meetings of deadlines coming up. But, if you are feeling that your partner can put a little more effort and reply to your messages, you are not wrong. If you have a gut feeling that something is wrong, do not ignore it. Talk to him directly. Tell him that you do not appreciate the way he is acting. There is nothing wrong in standing up for what you think you deserve. And as a matter of fact, you do not deserve to feel this way in a relationship. Talk about it.
Best Wishes.