Anu Krishna |1269 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 22, 2022
Dear MM,
I am not against getting daughters married to people who live abroad, but at the same time, there’s only little that you know of them.
Just because the boy lives in the US, does not mean that he is broad minded and progressive.
Sadly, your daughter has fallen into a family that does not value feminine charm and power and wants to cull it before it can spread its magic around.
How do you explain something like this to her?
As a woman and mother, will you tell your daughter to grin it and bear it?
Someone who doesn’t have the decency to initiate a call to talk to his wife, sitting on a throne waiting for her to call? (I am going by the details provided by you as I don’t know his side of the story here).
It might be worth the effort to talk to your daughter and find out, if she has also put in the necessary work into growing into the marriage; as living far away from the family might have made her homesick and not working might have made her feel lonely.
This might have also caused her to isolate herself from the marriage which in turn would have caused cracks in it.
Hear both sides, and then come to a wise decision! Ultimately, she’s your daughter and I do know that you want what’s best for her.
So, think and act in a manner that’s best for her; unbiased to begin with.
Best wishes!
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