Hi Anu ji, I am married since 2002 and have a single son who is 21 years. I like and love another lady who is also married and has 2 sons. We both are not happy in our respective married life. We also both love each other and have gone far ahead in our relationship n want to get married. My wife has caught me several times but i cant forget my girlfriend. what should i do

I am 36 years. I have been married for last 5 years and we have a 4 years old boy. Though she was my girl friend during my college days, we broke up after college as we have many differences. Then I met with a girl who loved me a lot. During this period she too had some relationship but I never asked and tried to know about it. But finally in a film like situation I got married with my previous girlfriend as our families arranged our marriage. Day by day our differences are increasing and we dont have any love or respect for each other and just for the baby I am continuing my relationship. I miss the second girl too much every now and then. Since my marriage I have not in touch with her. But it is not possible for me to forget her. What should I do ? Please suggest

To start with i live abroad . I was married in 2009 with 1 kid and divorced later in year 2017 abroad only as i got into a new love relationship and married after 1 yr with no kids my present wife knows about my past and moreover we trying to have baby but due to medical conditions and diabetic myself unable and have to hear negative things she is working well and independent but due to all this i befriended another girl and had developed a feeling towards her and had relationship with her as well she knows about that i am married but cant leave my gf want to marry her we had good communication as well between us but at times we fight due to issues that i am married still not divorced and moreover she doesnot know about my 1st marriage either sometimes i feel embrassing whag ppl will think of me i am tired of my life being the only child of my mom i cant do anything as she is too old 85 yrs and heart patient. I am 42 currently married with wife 41 yrs age but seems lost interest in her and often fight shd doesnt live with me as i am away for 3 years and goes home 1 a year. The new gf is 35 yrs old but dont want to lose her we have been to nany trips together in about 5 to 6 countries . I am having mentally stress what to do sometimes feel to end up my life

Hi Anu! I am 46 yrs old. I am married and have two daughters. I fell in love with a woman of 3-4 yrs younger to me, around 8 yrs ago. She was not happy with her marriage and she took divorce as I helped her to come over her trauma. It was very fine relationship between both of us. Now she is asking me to give divorce to my wife and to get marry with her. I really love my wife and her also, b'coz she also loves me so much and so do I. What to do now as my wife doesn't want to accept her and neither she wants to accept my wife.