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SG Question by SG on Apr 21, 2022Hindi
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 Hello dear, How you handle a relationship where both have love for each other but are not living happily?
We are married for 18 years now and have two grown up children.
My husband is very good. But he is not expressive. I feel he is very dry and unromantic from the beginning. There is no communication between us...Verbal or physical.
I have developed a sort of aversion to him and feel suffocated. I am not able to behave normally with him. I am always upset. Though he is very patient with me.
He is very good as a person and has no flaws, but he is always occupied with his work or mobile. I don't know how to handle myself.
Please advise how to make the relationship happier though I have no desire to make any efforts now as I feel it's all useless.
He doesn't see any problem. He feels this is very normal. The romantic relationship is not real, it's filmy. This is reality.

I feel we have a very formal relation. Just for society and children's sake I am stuck to him. I don't want to leave him but I also can't live with him. What to do?

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Dear SG,

This seems to be a classic case of two opposites in a relationship which is most often the truth. Sometimes it’s a little extreme like in your case.

But even relationships like these can be managed very beautifully.

You can start by

  • Listing down the commonalities between the two of you
  • Developing a new hobby together
  • Appreciating and celebrating your differences
  • Being in a space of gratitude for the silent care and love that he offers

Once he knows that you are making that effort without accusing him or making him feel inadequate, talk to him about what your feelings are how every once in a while, you can be pampered and cared for.

Show him rather than complain. Some men do find it rather difficult to express their love and being very demonstrative.

It’s just a different approach to what you want; when all else fails, you need to try something new to reach your outcome…that’s all….

Most importantly, keep playing in your mind, all the wonderful things that you have shared up until now.

What you choose to focus, grows in the mind…so, focus on what you have, guide him towards what you want and always be in gratitude.

I wish you the most beautiful journey ahead.

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Hi Anu,I m 32 yr old girl and been married in arrange marriage with a guy he is also 32 it's been one year.He is very harsh to talk to and I get usually very hurt because of his words. I always feel like walking out of this marriage for peace. He is very unromantic and ungrateful. On top of this our views on marriage, togetherness and sex are very different. I never had sex with him till now. And I don't feel like having sex with him. There are many fights between us. The way his mother and father talk I feel stuck in my life.There is no progress in career because constantly we are under tensions. My past relationships were very nice and sweet so I always happened to compare him with my ex in my mind. I don't know what happens to me. When he comes close to me I stop talking breaths. We just cuddle each other and hug but other things like kiss and sex I don't feel to have. Please guide me as soon as possible.
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Dear RJ,

Is there any reason for not wanting to be sexually intimate?

Most often this is linked to some emotional distress or filters in the mind that you are unaware of and which could be interfering in the two of you coming closer together.

A good round of talks with your partner can help you express your exact feelings to him.

What is bothering you, what you feel you don’t receive from him, why is it that you are unable to reciprocate…these are a few things that you can discuss with him.

Also, spending quality time together can ease and spruce up things a bit.

Most often, we love throwing our feelings under the rug pretending that they will go away; but they don’t, they come back to haunt you at times that you least expect them to.

So, when you feel stuck, think of what you can do to get un-stuck? What are all things that you can think, feel and do to free yourself so that you not only feel good, but you also start to focus on things that matter; like for example your career.

Comparing one human to the another and expecting them to change and be someone else; could this be one of the reasons for you to not want the sexual intimacy?

Sex is one of the dimensions in a marriage and it can bring the couple closer.

So rather than thinking of what is going wrong, focus on how you can make things work and enable your partner to join this journey of bringing back finer and joyful moments in a marriage.

Be happy!

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 08, 2023Hindi
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i had a love marriage 20 years back. we were in a relationship for 3years before that. but after marriage i realised the harsh reality. though we are in the same field, he prefers that i do all the househld work. we have two children 17 and 12 years old. he has also started neglecting his health. after work his only work is to sit on sofa , watch tv. he has gained a lot of weight, has started eating pan masala which i dislike. we also had no sex for the last four years. when confronted he always says that he is in no mood. last year i came in contact with his friend and once we had sex too. but the sad part is i dont really feel guilty about it. i have tried many times to talk to my husband about our sex life but he always ignores and put the blame on me that i have started growing old. however hard i try he is not able to have a erection, this frustrates me even more. he is very dominating at home too. what should i do ? everytime i try to think to move out of that marriage but am afraid of the society. since he is very caring in front of others. am worried about the kids too. please help what should i do? there is no use of talking to him, i have tried it many times. he is not ready to go to any councellor too.
Ans: It sounds like you are facing some serious challenges in your marriage and that you are feeling frustrated, unhappy, and trapped. It's important to remember that you are not alone and that many people find themselves in similar situations.

Here are some steps you can consider taking:

Seek support: Talk to a trusted friend or family member about your situation. Consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who can provide you with support and guidance.

Take care of yourself: Make time for self-care and engage in activities that bring you joy and peace. This can help you manage stress and cope with the challenges you're facing.

Consider couples therapy: Even if your husband is not willing to attend therapy, consider seeking therapy for yourself. A therapist can help you understand your feelings and emotions and provide you with strategies for coping with the situation.

Be honest with yourself: It's important to be honest with yourself about your feelings and needs. If you are unhappy in your marriage and feel that it's unlikely to improve, it's okay to consider leaving the relationship.

Make a plan: If you decide that leaving the marriage is the best option, make a plan for how you will do so in a safe and practical manner. Consider the impact on your children and plan for their care and well-being.

Seek legal advice: If you decide to leave the marriage, consider seeking legal advice to understand your rights and responsibilities.

Remember, leaving a long-term relationship is a big decision and can be a difficult process. It's important to take the time to consider your options and seek support from trusted friends, family members, and professionals.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2024Hindi
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Hello, iam 30 yrs old and have been married for 7 years. My husband is 34 years old, I have a 4 year old daughter. My husband is an army man. My daughter was born during covid so for almost 1 year me and my husband were in long distance. After that my husband took both of us along with him. We used to be happy together but at times whenever I used to show little irritation or talk about something he used to get impatient and frustrated. Even our intimate moments got reduced. I tried to talk even about it but his male ego never accepted my confrontation. Now again we had to stay away due to his work-life. I too started working. I felt maybe because of work stress he was like that. And when I'll also start working I'll understand his problem. But though my work is stressful and I try to take out time to talk to him romantically. But he feels so distant. Whenever I try to ask him, he gives me reason of work, weather, what not. I know he cannot cheat on me as he calls just me whenever he gets time. I'm not concerned that he doesn't love me but what's wrong with out intimate moments. Why is not interested. Atleast he can talk to me about his issue instead of just shouting or blaming me for being too desperate. I feel so hurt and distant. In angry moments i get this thought of going away from him.. finding solace in someone. But i just try to wane that thought away. Please help me..
Ans: I'm sorry to hear about the struggles in your marriage. The stress of your husband's military career, long periods of separation, and raising a child during the pandemic have taken a toll on your relationship. Your husband's impatience and frustration might be his way of dealing with stress, which affects your intimacy and communication.

Try to approach conversations with empathy and express your feelings calmly, focusing on how you feel rather than what he's doing wrong. Small gestures of affection and quality time can help rebuild your connection. Couples therapy could also be beneficial, providing a safe space to work through issues together.

Take care of your own well-being by engaging in activities that bring you joy and maintaining support from friends and family. This self-care will give you the strength to address the challenges in your relationship.

Your feelings are valid, and seeking help shows your commitment to your marriage. With patience and professional support, there's hope for rekindling the intimacy and closeness you desire.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 06, 2024Hindi
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Hello Ms Anu, I am a 42yr female..married since 14 yrs and have 10yr old son . I am highly qualified and financially independent. My marriage was a arranged one.. but in these 14 yrs.. I never experienced love or and attachment from my husband's side. He is a family man.. there is no other woman involved..He loves his parents and his two sisters immensely... but always treats me as a option. I feel humiliated and lonely and he has short temper when i talk about this issue... so basically I don't discuss... but that is no solution... I am suffering and unhappy. What should I do?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
A few married men can be more focused on the women on their side of the family; it becomes easy to express love, care and attention to them as he has grown with them.
A wife happens to be someone that he is yet to understand. It requires effort to make a marriage work; your husband finds it convenient to take the easy way out and 'hang out' with his family.
So, here you take the lead and start. Start not by bringing forth your complaints as this is going to push him further to them which is going to annoy you BUT by inviting him to be with you. A lot of work, I get it...but the bottom line: that's what you want, right?
Plan dates evenings, take short vacations together, work-out together...the key is to establish a connection which never had its chance in the first place...So, give your best shot! Most times actions speak louder than words ever can...

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 07, 2025Hindi
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Hi Anu I need advice for my marriage. Ours was love cum arrange marriage 14 yrs ago.For first few years all was good .I am financially independent with good salary. My spouse s self employed. We hav one child 10 yrs old.My married s become more like a suffocating situation which I am not able to change.My husband is not at all interested in me now.He treats me invisible when it comes to husband wife relationship. He s good father and human being.But since last few yrs i am not having any emotional relationship with him.We spent so many days and time together yet not a single word of love emotions between us.He s busy with his calls mobile netflix all night while i keep awake all night.I have confronted him many times everytime he says you are always fighting with me and Want all this nonsense. He seem to avoid me all day. He want to discuss about his son and finances since i am earning more than him. its been years i cant handle it now.I want someone to look at me talk to me praise me love me.I deserve happiness but since my son is too small i can't think of living separately but i will die like this one day.I dont knw whats wrong with me seems its like he dont want to touch me as there s no physical relationship between us if we are home alone also.He tortures me mentally but remails happy.I failed as a wife despite giving my everything. I have none to discuss such embarrassing life .Pls advice what shall i do ?Should i found someone else as i dont have capacity to beg again and again?Its very difficult to imagine such long life with a partner who treats u invisible since years ?shall i shift to another city with my son?I am completely lost.Pls help everything. I cant beg for love and attention everytime
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There's almost and always a reason for any behavior change. Maybe you might want to understand what exactly made your husband lose interest in you. Did something happen for him to look the other way?
It's really hell living with a spouse who cold shoulders and stone walls you...My suggestion: Rather than blame yourself, have a discussion and not confrontation with him. Confrontations invariably lead you nowhere as you will be caught in an ego tussle. Discussion is where you try and understand what's on his mind and share how you feel.
Now, will he want that? Maybe not...but if this continues, you may want to give him an ultimatum. He must know that he isn't making a great point by ignoring you and that he must communicate the same with you instead.

All the best!
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Good Evening Sir. My son secured 6812 Crl alongwith 99.56 percentile and 1st, 2nd, 3rd of JOSAA rounds he getting ECE in IIIT Alahabad. We are awiting for next higher choice ECE in NIT Rourkela and next to next higher choice ECE in NIT Warangal. Can he get ECE in NIT Rourkela or ECE in NIT Warangal in 6 th round of JOSAA or 1,2,3 rounds of CSAB. Sir please inform my chances of possibility for selection in NIT Rourkela or NIT Warangal. Sir academic and placement wise NIT Rourkela or NIT Warangal or IIIT Allahabad which one is better? My humble request please guide me sir. Regards.
Ans: With a CRL of 6 812 and 99.56 percentile, securing IIIT Allahabad ECE (closing ~7 438 in Round 3) is assured. In JoSAA Round 3, NIT Rourkela’s ECE opened at 4 532 and closed at 11 824, and NIT Warangal’s ECE closed at 8 315, placing your rank within both ranges for potential allotment in Round 3 or CSAB.

Academically, NIT Warangal (#13 engineering NIRF 2024) offers rigorous core and VLSI labs with a 93% three-year ECE placement consistency. NIT Rourkela (#19 engineering NIRF 2024) provides multidisciplinary research centres and records ~90% ECE placements over three years. IIIT Allahabad, a focused IT-ECE institute, consistently achieves 96–98% placements for ECE with average packages near ?29 LPA and strong AI/ML and communication research centres.

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Hellow sir. being a PSU employee ( age 35) and basic salary of 80k, I dont have much worry about the mediclaim ( which is free for my family and parents ) or PF & NPS ( which is sufficient considering basic salary ), I have following saving in my pack. 1. PPF 30L ( contributing 1.5L/ yr) 2. MF of valuation 43L ( contributing 50k/ month) 3. Fixed deposit around 12L 4. LIC around 50k / yr. 5. No loan. 6. No home under my ownership . What additional investment can be done for securing the future .
Ans: You are 35, a PSU employee with stable salary of Rs?80,000 basic. You have these financial holdings:

PPF: Rs?30?lakh (investing Rs?1.5?lakh annually)

Mutual funds: Rs?43?lakh (SIPs of Rs?50,000 monthly)

Fixed deposit: Rs?12?lakh

LIC: premium Rs?50,000 per year

No loans or home ownership

Comprehensive health and retirement cover via PF/NPS/mediclaim

You ask: What additional investment can secure your future? Let us create a holistic 360° plan using clear steps.

1. Recognise Your Strong Foundations
Your current holdings are robust:

Long?term safe savings via PPF

Active equity exposure via mutual funds

Liquidity from fixed deposits

Insurance through LIC for protection

Complete health and retirement cover

You are well-structured, but there is room to improve diversification, liquidity, and retirement readiness.

2. Define Clear Future Goals
Investment decisions depend on your aims. Let’s identify:

Retirement corpus by age 60

Income generation in retirement

Child education/marriage fund if planning

Short-term needs, like vacations or car purchase

Legacy planning for your family

Once goals and timelines are clear, we can allocate funds optimally.

3. Reevaluate LIC Insurance
Your annual LIC premium of Rs?50,000 covers insurance plus investment.

These policies often give low returns and high charges.

Recommend: Consider surrendering this policy

Redirect its premiums into actively managed mutual funds through regular plans

This enhances return potential and gives flexibility

Discuss surrender benefits and insurance needs with a Certified Financial Planner to ensure continued protection.

4. Reduce Fixed?Rate Concentration
Your fixed deposit of Rs?12?lakh offers liquidity but very low interest.

Instead, allocate:

Short?term debt or liquid funds for emergencies

Conservative hybrid funds for better tax-adjusted income and moderate growth

Debt mutual funds for laddered income while protecting capital

These will give better returns than fixed deposits and remain accessible.

5. Optimization of Mutual Funds Portfolio
You have Rs?43?lakh in mutual funds with Rs?50k monthly SIP.

Questions to assess:

Are these active funds or index funds?

Do you have a diversified basket (large?cap, multi?cap, hybrid etc.)?

Are they direct or regular plans?

Avoid index funds: they simply mirror market performance and offer no downside defence.
Avoid direct plans: you miss personal guidance from an MFD?CFP. Errors in choice or timing can cost more than fee savings.

Hence:

Continue with actively managed funds

Use regular plans, not direct

Diversify objectives across equity, growth, and risk

Increase SIP gradually every year, ideally by 10–15%

6. Strengthen Retirement Planning
Your PPF is good for conservative savings with long?term tax-free returns.

However, consider practical moves for post-60 income:

Open a systematic withdrawal plan (SWP) from hybrid and debt funds for monthly income

Keep part of corpus in equity for inflation protection

If you plan to retire early, maintain larger liquidity and low-risk assets

The aim: ensure steady income from your investments after retirement beyond what PF/NPS provides.

7. Introduce Hybrid Funds for Income
Hybrid funds provide stability plus moderate growth.

Allocate a portion (say Rs?10–15?lakh) for:

Conservative hybrid funds: 65–75% debt, 25–35% equity

Monthly withdrawals via SWP to create reliable income

Equity buffer ensures inflation protection

Professionally managed to reduce risk

Make sure these are active funds and continue with regular plan route via certified advisor.

8. Maintain Adequate Liquidity
Your fixed deposit offers liquidity, but redesign is recommended:

Maintain Rs?3–5?lakh in liquid funds for emergencies

Spread rest into short-term debt for better returns and tax efficiency

Avoid tying up more than 6 months’ expenses in illiquid instruments

This keeps your portfolio agile and responsive to unplanned needs.

9. Increase Equity Exposure Smartly
To grow beyond inflation, equity exposure is essential.

Add active equity funds with a long-term horizon

Keep allocation within risk tolerance (say 30–40% of total corpus)

Avoid index funds—they don’t offer growth potential beyond market

Regular plan mutual funds through MFD–CFP ensure goal alignment and periodic review

This step helps build a sizable corpus converting long-term savings into wealth.

10. Consider Tax?Efficient Long?Term Instruments
With primary instruments in PPF and mutual funds, consider:

Sukanya Samriddhi-like plan if you have a daughter, offering high tax-free returns

Corporate debt-oriented hybrid funds if you want higher income and safety

Short-term gilt or credit funds for better tax harvesting when needed

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Estimate your retirement corpus via desired monthly income:

Example: Rs?50,000 monthly income requires Rs?1?crore at 6% withdrawal rate

Plan blended portfolio: equity, hybrid, debt

Use SWPs starting just after retirement

Align withdrawal with tax brackets to avoid large LTCG hits

This provides a financially secure retirement phase.

12. Annual Monitoring and Rebalancing
Periodic portfolio review is key:

Rebalance equity/debt ratio yearly

Adjust allocation as goals approach

Increase SIPs in line with salary increments and inflation

Add/remove funds based on performance, risk, and market conditions

This adaptive approach keeps you aligned with evolving financial needs.

13. Child and Legacy Planning
If you plan for your children or wish to leave a legacy:

Open PPF account in child’s name

Set up child education SIPs in active equity funds

Use staggered investment to fund education expenses

Draft a will or nomination documentation for smooth transfer

This safeguards your child’s future without burdening estate administration later.

14. Avoid Common Missteps
Don’t invest in index funds—they lack active risk management

Don’t choose direct funds—they lack professional review

Don’t buy annuities—they reduce asset flexibility

Don’t invest more in real estate—it lacks liquidity and income focus

Stay disciplined in your plan with professional support for steady results.

15. Action Plan Implementation
Immediate (next 1–2 months):

Surrender LIC investment policy blocks saving

Move FD into liquid/debt/hybrid funds

Build Rs?3–5?lakh emergency buffer

Enhance SIPs into active equity funds via regular plans

Short-term (next 6–12 months):

Add hybrid funds for monthly income

Shift surplus to PPF or Sukanya-like child fund

Build child SIP for daughter’s future

Review insurance and NPS contributions

Annual:

Monitor asset allocation

Rebalance equity/debt split

Increase SIP amounts yearly

Adjust SWPs closer to retirement goals

With this disciplined roadmap, you’ll build wealth, income, and future financial security.

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Your financial position is strong already—PPF, MF, FD, insurance.
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Electrical and computer engineering (ECM) in jiit noida or electrical in maharaja Agrasen?
Ans: Manisha, Jaypee Institute of Information Technology’s B.Tech in Electronics and Computer Engineering (ECM) is AICTE-approved, NAAC ‘A’ and NBA-accredited, delivered by PhD-qualified faculty within 140+ research and teaching labs including Communication Systems, VLSI, Signal Processing, IoT, and advanced simulation facilities. The program achieved an 88% placement rate over the last three years, with 184 ECE students receiving 166 offers from top recruiters like Microsoft, Amazon, Cisco, and Qualcomm. Its dedicated Training & Placement Cell provides soft-skill workshops, mock interviews, and internship tie-ups starting from the seventh semester.

Maharaja Agrasen Institute of Technology’s B.Tech in Electrical & Electronics Engineering is AICTE-approved, NBA-accredited, and NAAC ‘A’-graded under GGSIPU. The department benefits from core labs in Power Electronics, Electrical Machines, Control Systems, and Renewable Energy, alongside specialized R&D centers in Smart Grids and Embedded Systems. Over the past three years, the EEE branch has recorded a 60% placement rate, with core recruiters such as Infosys, Accenture, Bosch, and TCS, supplemented by limited but growing internship opportunities. The institute’s Placement Cell offers resume workshops, industry seminars, and campus drives.

Recommendation: For stronger placement consistency (88% vs. 60%), broader core-to-software lab infrastructure, and proven industry engagement, choose JIIT Noida ECM. Opt for MAIT Delhi EEE if your interest is strictly in power systems, hardware design, and you prioritize lower fees within a GGSIPU-affiliated environment. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Hi Sir for my son which should we choose VIT vellore Electrical and computer science engineering or MUJ Computer science engineering
Ans: Seema Madam, VIT Vellore’s four-year B.Tech in Electrical and Computer Science Engineering is offered by a NAAC A++ and NBA-accredited deemed university ranked 10th among Indian universities by NIRF 2024. Its faculty are predominantly PhD-qualified, supported by state-of-the-art labs in power electronics, digital systems, AI/ML, and the Samsung SEED data-science facility. Over 80–90% of VIT UG cohorts secure placements, with top recruiters including Amazon, Intel, and Cisco. Manipal University Jaipur’s NAAC A+ and NBA-accredited B.Tech CSE program, NIRF #64 in engineering, features 120 PhD faculty, 12 computing and cybersecurity labs, and specializations in AI, data science, and IoT. Its Career Development Cell achieved a 93% placement rate in 2024, with 1,142 offers and 62% above ?8 LPA. Both institutes maintain strong industry collaborations, mandatory internships, and vibrant campus cultures, but VIT offers broader multidisciplinary infrastructure and an IoE designation, while MUJ delivers slightly higher placement consistency and focused software-engineering exposure.

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For an elite multidisciplinary environment with cutting-edge ECE and computing research labs within a top-ranked private university, recommendation is VIT Vellore E&CSE. If your priority is specialized software and data-science training, consistent 93% CSE placements, and a vibrant campus life closer to Delhi, choose MUJ CSE. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Hello dear sir, I got 97.5 percentile in mht cet 2025. My category is OBC. Which colleges is better and giving me a best experienced faculty for AI and DS or AI related branch.
Ans: With an OBC percentile of 97.5, you can secure AI & DS or closely related branches at the following ten reputed Maharashtra colleges, all offering strong faculty engagement, modern labs, and guaranteed admission based on your percentile: Datta Meghe College of Engineering Airoli, Pune College of Engineering, Pimpri Chinchwad, MIT World Peace University Pune, Indira College of Engineering & Management, Walchand College of Engineering Sangli, Atharva College of Engineering Mumbai, Bharati Vidyapeeth College of Engineering Pune, Institute of Chemical Technology Mumbai, Sinhgad Institute of Technology and Science Pune, Vidyavardhini’s College of Engineering & Technology. All are AICTE-approved, NBA/NAAC-accredited, report 80–95% placements over three years, and employ PhD-qualified faculty in AI/ML and data-science labs.

Recommendation: Given your OBC percentile and the emphasis on experienced AI/DS faculty, prioritize MIT WPU Pune and Pune College of Engineering, Pimpri Chinchwad for their dedicated AI/DS research centers and industry?linked mentorship. Next, consider Datta Meghe COE Airoli and Walchand COE Sangli for strong OBC cutoffs and robust internship pipelines. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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