Hi,......... again met my girl after22 years, on social platform last 7 years back (not physically) and met physically last year, talked, smooched, but after all this she's being bit cold, cold in the sense she does not call and msg quite less now, what could be the reason behind all these changes. TILL NOW AM SURE YOU WOULD GOT TO KNOW THAT IT IS A LONG DISTANCE RELATION. (OUT OF THE COUNTRY TO BE MORE PRECISE).

Hello ..I was in a relationship for 4 years and our relationship was very much strong enough. Suddenly she started talking less and ignoring me a lot. She stopped calling me. It's been 6 months today. Did she come back? And what would be the reason for it?

Hii i am 40 years married man and last 2 years i am in relationship with a married women , we also like each other she also confessed me she love me, in starting we talk long time by phone , she give more effort to meet with me she call me to came his home when she alone but from 3-4 month she not giving that effort to meet with me and not come near me we just talk on mobile we meet some time but not closser like earlier , i am not understanding where is going wrong pls suggest

Hi Anu, Im a returning NRI post 20 years having lived abroad. Wasnt sure if I would ever have come on this platform but yes I have . I have been involved with a girl in India for the past 6 years , we both are in our end 40's shes 47 and i will be turning 50 next year. On my bi annual visits we have been meeting, getting physical and share almost everything. There was nothing hidden between us, frank discussions about life, menopause, family issues, support for each other and a lot of love flowing, gifts exhanged both ways , always there for each other and so on. For the past 5 years she was out of a job but now has started working again since the past 7 months or so. Happy for her. I made a decision to take early retirement and head back home , a purely personal choice and spend more time with her. Its just that now when im back and expressed my desire to visit her , i feel shes a bit hesitant, we stay in different cities. I was pretty stunned when I initially planned to see her around the christmas week but she cited follow up prayers for a close family member who had passed away a couple of years back and her unavailabilty. Moreso the dates I had proposed she was unsure of committing time during that period and I let it pass. I was pleasantly surprised and also hurt that during those specific days , shes taking off for a short vacation citing she needs to recharge. Not sure what I should make out of this. Our conversations since my return have been short, messaging not that frequent but overall i feel the thrill that used to be there earlier is missing from her end. I cant understand -:), all was good till a month back. Simply put I dont wanna confront her, its her life after all but just need some advise : is this normal hormonal changes or do u feel its something more and I shud let go. Yeah I know its gonna be difficult for me but some closure I need.

Hi ,I'm a male and am in long distance relationships, we use to communicate with each other very well and unless up to Wednesday when my girlfriend number certainly gone offline, call is not available, and also on WhatsApp is last seen on Wednesday. On that Wednesday we talked and chat she was going to registered an account on the bank then after the phone is off upto now what could be the problem.

Long story short: we are 8 month old long distance couples, i use to listen to her, she told me if she loves me she'll be open to me 100% and whenever she feels to call me she will and tell me exactly how she feels, i respected that. I thought if i want to be a good partner i need to listen i need to support her emotions, but sometimes i do not want to be on calls and tell her lets finish for the day but i dont want to loose her i kept that from her and pretended to be interested everytime, she sensed that vibe from me, telling me that u seem off over calls, like u r performing a task. Suddenly we had a fight and i told her that sometimes i just predented to be listening but i am not. From then she has adusted she does not msg or call me frequently, i feel guilty about not telling her sooner. Will this ever repair or will it be like this forever? Is this change good for both of us or only for me ?