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Ahmed Question by Ahmed on Sep 24, 2023Hindi
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Hello ..I was in a relationship for 4 years and our relationship was very much strong enough. Suddenly she started talking less and ignoring me a lot. She stopped calling me. It's been 6 months today. Did she come back? And what would be the reason for it?

Ans: Dear Ahmed,

I am sorry to hear that. I don't think she is coming back. It is unfair, but this happens to more people than you can think of; people just stop feeling the same emotions slowly, and they drift away. The best course of action is to accept that your relationship is over and work on moving on. You have to understand that it is not your fault; it was her decision to end things without even discussing it as a mature adult. You deserve more than that. I understand that you did not even get closure but sometimes things end abruptly and without reason and all we can do is heal one day at a time. Focus on yourself. Stay busy, explore your passions, surround yourself with people who love you and are there for you, talk to a friend or family member because talking about pain can help in the healing process and please don't contact her because you deserve real love, not the kind that leaves without any explanation.

Best Wishes!

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I was in a relationship for 3 months but the girl never reciprocated in the same way as i did.There was no initiative from her side but when I used to ask her why is this happening only i m trying to build but you aren't, she used to say that i was unable to see anything she is doing for me.To be very honest and being impartial if i was at level 10 she was at 1.One day on this very topic some arguments happened and she walked away.After that no message no call and she used to tell me that she loved me but she never ever tried to reach out to me.Now its been one month.I literally am feeling really gloomy.Now she is putting status and showing that to me that i was not ready to build with her i uttered wrong words to her.But honestly i am telling you that I loved her very much and tried all the ways to build with her but she never reciprocated.I still miss her a lot but she seems to moved on so easily that's hurting me too much simultaneously she is putting these statuses too What to do?
Ans: Dear Sid,

If you, even for one moment, felt that you have been putting more work into the relationship than your partner, there must have been reason to believe so. Do not doubt your concerns just because your ex tried to pin the blame on you by minimizing your worries. It's a clear sign of gaslighting. As for the statuses, some people take pleasure in making others feel unnecessarily guilty, even if the fault lies on their part. My advice would be to not pay attention to any of it. If necessary, delete her contact; a clean break might help you move on. Don't do it to show her that you have moved on, but try to move on in reality. You deserve more than half-hearted efforts.

Best Wishes!

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Hi I was alloted EE in rru . I am very confused about whether I should take the seat or not beacause they are calling for in person documents verification how is the hostel? Placements? Mess? Campus life ? Etc and I live in assam and wanted to know if its worth it Please guys reply as it is urgent since they are calling for admission within these 7 days
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