I am a 24 year old woman. I had been texting to a guy on a dating app. We started chatting on Instagram. We even shared n*des mutually. We had agreed that we will only meet up for casual s*x, and the meeting was due in May. But, I began having feelings for him, I don't know how, because we never met in real life. Twice, he had forgiven me for going extra fast on the chatting thing. But the third time, when I confessed to him, my feelings, he blocked me on Instagram. I have tried messaging and sending follow request on Instagram, through my mother's account, but that was useless. I have been messaging him on Bumble as well, I think he hasn't blocked me from there yet. We were tuning-in good. He's from Delhi, am from Patna. Please help. Because forgetting him is not an easy task. I JUST CANNOT. Even when I'm doing something completely different, there are signs, that I see and feel, we will meet someday. His name appears or something like that. Tell me, will I meet him ever?

Ans: Your intent to invest Rs 40,000 per month in equity mutual funds for 10 years is a strong move.

Your fund choices across large-cap, IT sector, and mid/small-cap categories are sensible.

Let’s look at how to structure this investment efficiently.

Investment Objective Assessment

You have a long-term vision.

Ten years is a healthy horizon for equity.

SIP is the right approach.

Rs 40,000 monthly is a good contribution.

Your Ideal Asset Allocation Strategy

Diversify across categories.

Blend large-cap, sectoral, and mid/small-cap funds.

Avoid putting too much in one theme.

This lowers risk and boosts consistency.

Large-Cap Mutual Fund (Rs 14,000/month)

These funds invest in stable, top companies.

Ideal for long-term wealth growth.

Less volatile than mid/small-cap funds.

Good for capital preservation with growth.

IT Sector Fund (Rs 6,000/month)

IT sector can give high returns.

But it’s highly cyclical and sector-dependent.

Limit allocation to protect from volatility.

Use as a return booster, not a core.

Mid and Small-Cap Funds (Rs 14,000/month)

These funds carry high growth potential.

But they are more volatile and risky.

Suitable for your long-term horizon.

Split the allocation between mid and small caps.

Keep an eye on market trends regularly.

Flexi Cap or Multi Cap Fund (Rs 6,000/month)

This gives you market-wide exposure.

Fund manager picks across market segments.

Offers balance and flexibility in returns.

Helps when market cycles shift.

Avoid Direct Mutual Funds for Long-Term SIPs

Direct funds miss advisor insights.

You might make emotional, untimely exits.

They lack personalisation and professional guidance.

Regular plans via a CFP-MFD give strategy support.

Expert monitoring helps long-term discipline.

Stay Away from Index Funds

Index funds don’t beat the market.

They lack fund manager expertise.

No downside protection in falling markets.

Actively managed funds aim to outperform indices.

They adapt during market changes.

Review Your Plan Regularly

Review performance every year.

Rebalance based on life changes.

Switch underperforming funds if needed.

A Certified Financial Planner will guide you.

Monitoring is as important as starting.

Taxation Aspects You Must Know

Equity mutual funds have two tax rules.

Long-term gains above Rs 1.25 lakh: taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term gains: taxed at 20%.

Holding for 10 years is tax efficient.

Stay invested to maximise post-tax returns.

Emergency Fund Planning Before SIPs

Keep at least 6 months of expenses saved.

Don’t invest this in mutual funds.

Use liquid funds or bank deposits.

This protects your SIPs during emergencies.

Systematic Withdrawal Plan Later

After 10 years, use SWP for income.

It gives tax-efficient regular withdrawals.

Avoid lump sum exits.

Plan withdrawal strategy 1-2 years before maturity.

Should You Include Sectoral Funds Beyond IT?

Sectoral funds are risky.

Don’t add too many of them.

You already plan IT sector exposure.

Focus more on diversified equity.

This improves overall stability.

Insurance and Health Coverage Are Essential

Review your term plan now.

Make sure it covers all your liabilities.

Have health cover for your family.

Don’t rely only on employer policy.

Your SIP Distribution Suggestion (Rs 40,000)

Large Cap Fund: Rs 14,000

IT Sector Fund: Rs 6,000

Mid Cap Fund: Rs 7,000

Small Cap Fund: Rs 7,000

Flexi or Multi Cap Fund: Rs 6,000

Strategy to Add More SIPs Yearly

Increase SIP by 10% annually.

This boosts compounding significantly.

You’ll reach bigger goals faster.

Link SIP increase to your salary hike.

Final Insights

Your investment plan is smart and timely.

Your SIP amount and time horizon are ideal.

Diversify smartly across fund types.

Avoid direct plans; take regular funds via CFP.

Stay away from index funds and too many sector bets.

Review your plan yearly with your Certified Financial Planner.

Tax efficiency and goal focus are key to success.

Your long-term wealth is built step by step.

A clear path and steady discipline will help you achieve it.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: Your 600 partly paid-up shares of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel from 1995 likely went through multiple corporate actions, including mergers and stock splits. Based on historical records:
- Merger with JSW Steel (2005): The conversion ratio was 1:16, meaning for every 1 share of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel, you received 16 shares of JSW Steel.- 600 shares × 16 = 9,600 JSW Steel shares.

- Stock Split (2017): JSW Steel split its shares in a 1:10 ratio, meaning your holdings multiplied by 10.- 9,600 shares × 10 = 96,000 JSW Steel shares today.

However, the exact number depends on whether the unpaid amount (?8 per share) was settled or if partly paid-up shares were treated differently in the merger. To confirm your holdings, I strongly recommend contacting JSW Steel’s registrar, KFin Technologies Limited:
- Address: Selenium Building, Tower-B, Plot No. 31 & 32, Financial District, Nanakramguda, Serilingampally, Hyderabad, Telangana 500032.
- Toll-Free: 1800 309 4001.

Ans: Your 600 partly paid-up shares of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel from 1995 likely went through multiple corporate actions, including mergers and stock splits. Based on historical records:
- Merger with JSW Steel (2005): The conversion ratio was 1:16, meaning for every 1 share of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel, you received 16 shares of JSW Steel.- 600 shares × 16 = 9,600 JSW Steel shares.

- Stock Split (2017): JSW Steel split its shares in a 1:10 ratio, meaning your holdings multiplied by 10.- 9,600 shares × 10 = 96,000 JSW Steel shares today.

However, the exact number depends on whether the unpaid amount (?8 per share) was settled or if partly paid-up shares were treated differently in the merger. To confirm your holdings, I strongly recommend contacting JSW Steel’s registrar, KFin Technologies Limited:
- Address: Selenium Building, Tower-B, Plot No. 31 & 32, Financial District, Nanakramguda, Serilingampally, Hyderabad, Telangana 500032.
- Toll-Free: 1800 309 4001.

Ans: Your 600 partly paid-up shares of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel from 1995 likely went through multiple corporate actions, including mergers and stock splits. Based on historical records:
- Merger with JSW Steel (2005): The conversion ratio was 1:16, meaning for every 1 share of Jindal Vijaynagar Steel, you received 16 shares of JSW Steel.- 600 shares × 16 = 9,600 JSW Steel shares.

- Stock Split (2017): JSW Steel split its shares in a 1:10 ratio, meaning your holdings multiplied by 10.- 9,600 shares × 10 = 96,000 JSW Steel shares today.

However, the exact number depends on whether the unpaid amount (?8 per share) was settled or if partly paid-up shares were treated differently in the merger. To confirm your holdings, I strongly recommend contacting JSW Steel’s registrar, KFin Technologies Limited:
- Address: Selenium Building, Tower-B, Plot No. 31 & 32, Financial District, Nanakramguda, Serilingampally, Hyderabad, Telangana 500032.
- Toll-Free: 1800 309 4001.

Ans: Homestate? Stream?

Ans: With a JEE Main Rank of 32,890 (OBC-NCL category) and Telangana domicile, your daughter has a good chance of securing a seat in NITs or GFTIs in branches like Mechanical, Civil, Chemical, or Metallurgy. See previous years' cut off.
Top options:

NIT Andhra Pradesh, NIT Silchar, NIT Agartala (Metallurgy/Chemical likely).

IIITDM Kurnool (Mech) if Telangana domicile helps.

SVNIT Surat (Civil/Chemical) if seats remain.
Recommendation:

If she wants flexibility → Mechanical (but may need top NITs).

If job security is priority → Civil/Chemical (PSU opportunities).

If she’s okay with niche fields → Metallurgy (easier admission).

Ans: If he scores 115–120, his rank will likely be between 1,000–2,500 (General category).
A. Top Government/Private Colleges (KCET Quota)
College Branch Expected KCET Rank (General)
RVCE (RV College of Engineering, Bangalore) AI & ML 500–1,500
PES University (Electronic City, Bangalore) AI & ML 1,000–3,000
MS Ramaiah Institute of Technology (MSRIT, Bangalore) AI & DS 2,000–5,000
BMS College of Engineering (BMSCE, Bangalore) AI & ML 3,000–6,000
NIE Mysore (National Institute of Engineering) AI & ML 5,000–10,000

Ans: With 93 percentile in JEE Main, your son's expected rank is around 65,000 to 75,000 (General category). Unfortunately, this rank makes it very difficult to get Computer Science (CS) or AI & ML in top NITs/IIITs, especially in South India, where competition is extremely high.
Best Possible Options for ~65k Rank (General Category)
A. New NITs (Non-CS Branches)
NIT Puducherry (Civil, Mechanical, Chemical)

NIT Andhra Pradesh (ECE, EEE if lucky)

NIT Manipur/Mizoram/Nagaland (Lower branches)

B. IIITs (Non-CS Branches)
IIIT Kottayam (ECE, EEE)

IIIT Bhagalpur (CS with Maths – if lucky)

IIIT Ranchi/Surat (IT/ECE)

Ans: Admission to PEC is unlikely with 50,930 rank unless she qualifies under sports quota with a strong profile.
Here are some decent NITs, IIITs, that may accept this rank:
A. NITs (Partial List - Possible with 50k Rank)
NIT Srinagar (J&K)

NIT Agartala (Tripura)

NIT Puducherry

NIT Manipur

NIT Mizoram

NIT Nagaland
(Some NITs may have cutoffs around 40k-80k for certain branches like Civil, Mechanical, Chemical, etc.)
B. IIITs (Newer Ones)
IIIT Bhagalpur

IIIT Kottayam

IIIT Ranchi

IIIT Surat
(Cutoffs vary, but some branches may be available around 50k rank)