My name is Akshat Kumar. My age is 19. When I will find my first relationship.

Ans: Namaste,
Welcome to the land of respect & getting opportunity to nurture budding future of our Country.
You are pursuing Advanced diploma in pre primary and primary teacher's training.
This certification opens diverse career paths in early childhood education, preschool teachers, primary teachers, curriculum developers.
Now there are some other certifications an institutes in India which offers more knowledge and keep you updated in your choosen field. Like Symbiosis, NCTA.
The salary offered once you will complete certifications: Fresher(entry level) 1.6Lakh to 3.5Lakh

Ans: You and your wife have managed many responsibilities at a young age. Owning assets, maintaining EMIs, and still thinking about planning shows strong intent. The stress you feel is mainly due to too many loans at the same time, not low income.

» Current Situation – High EMI Pressure

Combined take-home + rent is healthy
But EMIs are spread across multiple loans
This creates mental stress and cash flow pressure

Your problem is not income. It is loan structure complexity.

» Gold Loan Idea – Not Advisable
Your idea:

Take gold loan at ~8.9%
Close two top-up loans (~8.25%)

Issue:

You are replacing similar or slightly lower interest loans with another loan
No real benefit
Adds another obligation

Better:

Avoid taking new loan to close old loans

» Loan Strategy – Simplify and Attack
You have:

3 top-up loans (8.25%–8.75%)
Commercial loan (8.75%)
Home loan (7.25%)

Action plan:

Focus on closing one loan at a time
Start with:
Top-up loans (smaller size, higher interest)

Method:

Use surplus income + rent
Close smallest loan first → psychological relief
Then move to next

This is called debt snowball approach

» EMI vs Rent from Commercial Property

Expected rent: Rs 13k
EMI: Rs 27k

Gap exists

So:

Use that rent fully to support EMI
Do not divert this income elsewhere

» Baby Planning – Very Important
With baby coming:

Expenses will increase (medical + lifestyle)
Cash flow flexibility becomes critical

So next 2 years priority:

Reduce EMI burden
Build stability
Avoid new loans

» Emergency Fund – Good but Improve

Current: Rs 2 lakh
With EMIs and future baby, this is low

Target:

At least Rs 4–5 lakh

» LIC Policies – Review

You and your wife both paying Rs 2,500 monthly

Check:

If these are traditional plans with low returns

Suggested approach:

Make them paid-up after understanding terms
Redirect future premiums into mutual funds

» Investment Strategy – Start Strong Now

SIP of Rs 100 is just symbolic

You have capacity to do more

Start with:

At least Rs 5k–10k SIP combined
Increase gradually every year

Focus:

Diversified, actively managed mutual funds

» Expense Control – Minor Tweaks

Your expenses are reasonable
No major cuts needed

Just ensure:

No lifestyle inflation
Track spending monthly

» Term Insurance – Must Check

With loans + upcoming child

You should have:

Adequate term insurance (at least Rs 1 Cr each)

» Practical 3-Year Roadmap

Year 1:
Build emergency fund
Start SIP properly
Close 1 top-up loan
Year 2:
Close next top-up loan
Increase SIP
Year 3:
Reduce major EMI pressure
Strengthen investments

» Finally

Do not take new loan (gold loan is not useful)
Simplify loans and close one by one
Prepare for baby by improving cash flow
Increase SIP meaningfully
Keep patience – you are already on the right track

Once 1–2 loans are closed, your stress will reduce sharply and wealth creation will accelerate.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

Ans: This is a very common situation. The fact that you are noticing it means you are ready to fix it. Income is not the problem. System is missing.

» Why Money Comes but Does Not Stay

No fixed structure for saving
Spending happens first, saving later
Small leakages (daily expenses, lifestyle upgrades)
No clear goal-based allocation

Result:

Money flows out without control

» First Rule – Pay Yourself First

Do not wait to save what is left
Save first, then spend

Action:

As soon as salary comes, move 20% to 30% into investments
Treat this like a non-negotiable expense

» Create 3 Simple Buckets
Keep it very simple:

Survival (needs)
Rent, food, EMI, bills
Lifestyle (wants)
Eating out, shopping, travel
Future (wealth)
SIP, savings, emergency fund

Fix limits:

Needs: ~50%
Wants: ~20–30%
Future: at least 20–30%

» Automate Everything

Start SIPs immediately after salary date
Set auto-transfer to savings/investment

This removes:

Laziness
Emotional spending

» Control Leakages
You don’t need big cuts, just control small ones:

Frequent online orders
Impulse buying
Subscriptions not used

Track for 30 days:

You will clearly see where money is leaking

» Emergency Fund – Build Stability

Keep at least 3–6 months expenses aside
This avoids breaking investments

» Give Purpose to Money
Money stays only when it has a job

Create goals:

Short term (1–3 years)
Long term (retirement, child, etc.)

When money has purpose:

You will not spend it casually

» Behaviour Change – Real Key

Do not aim for perfection
Aim for consistency

Even if you save small amount regularly:

It builds discipline
Discipline builds wealth

» Finally

Your issue is not earning, it is flow control
Save first, spend later
Automate savings
Track expenses for awareness

Once system is set, money will start staying without struggle.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

Ans: Prefer ECE @ Jadhavpur if possible. The final choice will be yours.

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Ans: Admission to IIITs/GFTIs seems to be challenging. You do have realistic chances for ECE in lower/mid IPU colleges (especially in later/spot rounds), while top IPU colleges may be borderline/unlikely.

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Ans: Yes. Strong chances are there.

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Ans: Target lower/mid NIT branches (Civil/Mechanical/Chemical/Production/Metallurgy in newer/lower-cutoff NITs), some ECE-type branches in select lower NITs if lucky, and several IIIT/GFTI options for non-top branches. Fill choices broadly and keep CSAB active because many such seats are open there.

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Ans: CSE in several Tier-2/lower-mid NITs is achievable (especially newer/lower-cutoff NITs, and some mid NITs depending on round/HS advantage), though top Tier-2 options may remain competitive or challenging.

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Ans: Chances are almost slim/dim.

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