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Child and Parenting Counsellor - Answered on Feb 21, 2024

Aruna Agarwal is a qualified child psychologist and behaviour therapist with over 20 years of experience.
She has a master’s degree in psychology with a specialisation in behaviour analysis. She focuses on children between the ages of 2-10 years who face challenges related to behaviour, language development or attention issues and providing them with the right life skills.
Agarwal is the owner of Kidzee, a pre-primary school, and Mount Litera Zee School that caters to primary students.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Sep 01, 2023Hindi
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My wife is very pushy towards my daughter who is 10 years. She believes in extreme discipline and even a small mistake means my daughter has to face lot of scolding and sometimes even beating. I have tried to counsel her but she is not ready to listen and says she has been brought up like that. My daughter looses her confidence and I am scared it hurting her mentally. Spoke to her family members but nothing is helping.

Ans: You can sit with your daughter and wife to setup clear rules according to your wife ,tell them to monitor this. You can ask her to token for right behaviours and take away if she any inappropriate behaviour. This is going to help both of them.
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Has you wife always been the way that you have described or has any incident given rise to this impatience and lack of reasoning?
A professional opinion may definitely be helpful in assessing what's going on and what can be done to streamline her thoughts into creating a family and a better life for herself and those around her.
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Maybe she is seeking you care and attention.
Remember even a child when he/she throws a tantrum, you go deep to find the reason for it. It's never without a strong reason...So, do not dismiss what you wife might be going through. It needs to be taken care of.
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Find your ME time and indulge in your hobbies to maintain your sanity. You need to be a good kind space to be able to support your wife and child, so do what it takes to feel simple joys. So, seek professional help and NOW! Sometimes a total stranger can work wonders up...

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Ans: Dear SN,

I can understand how challenging it must be to deal with your daughter's behavior. It's concerning that she's been displaying this attitude since she was young and that it's causing such turmoil within your family.

Consider seeking the help of a family therapist or counselor who specializes in dealing with family conflicts. A professional can provide an objective perspective and offer strategies for improving communication and resolving conflicts.It's important to establish clear boundaries with your daughter regarding her behavior. Let her know what behaviors are unacceptable and what consequences will follow if those boundaries are crossed.
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Can I invest Rs 40,000 per month in the National Pension Scheme? What kind of returns can I expect from the NPS in 10 years?
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Important to note about NPS returns:

• NPS returns are market-linked and depend on the chosen investment scheme. The NPS offers various investment options like Equity (E), Corporate Debt (C), Government Bonds (G), Alternative Investment Funds (A). Equity (E) scheme typically has higher returns than other schemes (C, G) but also comes with higher risk.
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Let’s assume you choose an equity scheme with an average annual return of 10%.

• Total investment over 10 years = Rs 40000 per month * 12 months/year * 10 years = Rs 48,00,000
• Estimated returns in 10 years = Rs 48,00,000 * 10% = Rs 4,80,000

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Hello My Daughter pursuing B.A Psychology Hons from Lady shri Ram college Delhi University and her keen interest to become clinical psychologist and targeting to pursuing M.phil from Nihmans Bangalore. Is it correct strategy? Every one targeting to go abroad and pursue higher degree in Psychology, how you rate india's top noch institute vs abroad?
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To begin with, thank you for contacting us. I am happy to hear that your daughter is currently pursuing her Bachelor of Arts (Hons.) Psychology after which she intends pursuing Master of Philosophy (M. Phil.). To answer your question first, I would like to tell you that your daughter’s plan of studying a B.A. in Psychology Honours from Lady Shri Ram College, Delhi University, and then subsequently pursuing an M.Phil from NIMHANS, Bangalore, appears to be a sound one, especially if she aspires to be a clinical psychologist. You would be glad to know that both, Lady Shri Ram College and NIMHANS are prominent institutions well-known for offering high-quality psychology education.

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Hi i am 27 and from last 2 years i am investing 9k per month in following funds 2k in quant Small cap 2k in Nippon large cap 1.5k in ICICI technology, 1.5k in HDFC midcap opportunity & 1.5k in franklin flexicap. My aim is to get 1 cr by the time i reach 40 Kindly Review my portfolio and suggest me.
Ans: It's excellent to see your commitment to investing at such a young age! Let's review your portfolio and make some suggestions to help you achieve your goal of reaching 1 crore by the time you turn 40:

Portfolio Review:
Quant Small Cap, Nippon Large Cap, ICICI Technology, HDFC Midcap Opportunity, and Franklin Flexicap are diversified funds covering various market segments.
Your portfolio reflects a good mix of small-cap, large-cap, mid-cap, and flexi-cap funds, which can help spread risk across different sectors and market capitalizations.
Investment Strategy:
Continue with your systematic investment plan (SIP) approach, as it allows you to invest regularly and take advantage of rupee cost averaging.
Consider increasing your SIP amount gradually as your income grows to accelerate wealth accumulation.
Risk Management:
Keep an eye on the performance of individual funds and review them periodically to ensure they align with your investment goals and risk tolerance.
Monitor the sectoral exposure of your portfolio and ensure it remains well-diversified to mitigate concentration risk.
Goal Setting:
Revisit your financial goals periodically and adjust your investment strategy as needed to stay on track.
Consider incorporating other investment avenues, such as debt funds or index funds, to further diversify your portfolio and manage risk.
Professional Advice:
Consider consulting with a financial advisor or Certified Financial Planner to assess your risk profile, review your investment strategy, and tailor a plan that aligns with your goals.
A professional can provide personalized guidance and help you make informed investment decisions as you work towards achieving your financial objectives.
Overall, your investment portfolio appears well-structured and diversified, which is essential for long-term wealth creation. Stay disciplined in your approach, continue to invest regularly, and seek professional advice when needed to maximize your chances of reaching your goal of 1 crore by the age of 40. Keep up the good work!

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Hello sir, my age is 48 years working professional and wants good corpus after 8 years for retirement . I am having SIP in direct plan as follows Parag Parikh flexi cap fund 15000 pm Quant Active Fund. 5000 Mirae asset Large and Mid cap. 5000 Kotak emerging equity fund 5000 Quant Mid cap Fund. 5000 Nippon India small cap fund. 5000 Addinationally, lumsum inventment as below DSP Nifty 50 Equal Weight Index Fund - Direct Plan - Growth 200000 Quant Large Cap Fund - Direct Plan - Growth -300000 ICICI Prudential Short term Fund Direct- 200000 NPS 50000 per year from year 2017 Kindly please review my portfolio and advise and guide I can add 10000 per month in SIP in this thank you
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SIPs:
Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund, Mirae Asset Large and Mid Cap Fund, and Kotak Emerging Equity Fund offer diversification across different market segments.
Quant Active Fund, Quant Mid Cap Fund, and Nippon India Small Cap Fund provide exposure to growth-oriented stocks.
Consider reviewing the performance of each fund periodically and ensure they align with your risk tolerance and investment goals.
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DSP Nifty 50 Equal Weight Index Fund provides exposure to a diversified portfolio of Nifty 50 stocks.
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Additional SIP Contribution:
Increasing your SIP contribution by 10,000 per month can accelerate wealth accumulation and help achieve your retirement corpus goal.
Consider allocating the additional SIP amount across existing funds or exploring new funds to enhance diversification.
Review and Rebalance:
Regularly review your portfolio's performance and rebalance if needed to maintain optimal asset allocation.
Assess your risk tolerance and adjust your investment strategy accordingly to ensure it remains aligned with your financial objectives.
Seek Professional Advice:
As a Certified Financial Planner, I recommend consulting with a financial advisor to conduct a comprehensive review of your portfolio.
A professional can provide personalized guidance based on your individual circumstances and help optimize your investment strategy.
By staying disciplined in your savings and investment approach and periodically reviewing your portfolio, you can work towards building a substantial corpus for your retirement. Keep up the good work, and remember to stay focused on your long-term financial goals.

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Hello sir I am doctor with 41 yrs age . I have about 1cr investment in mf and I am doing 1.30 lakhs sip per month . Plus I have 40 lakhs in ppf and 25 lakhs invested in icici pru and emergency funds of 7 lakhs in Fd. I have real estate investment of 3 cr in land and flats which gives me 40 thousand rent per month I don’t have any loans on me.my monthly income is 4 lakhs .i have also investing 50,000 per year in nps with 10 lakh present value in nps . I have two kids with 12 yrs and 8 yrs old . My goal is to accumulate 2cr for kids education in next 10 yrs and monthly pension of 2 lakhs per month on retirement on age of 60 .is it possible
Ans: It's great to see your disciplined approach to investing and planning for your future. Let's assess your goals and see if they are achievable:

Kids' Education Fund:
With a monthly SIP of 1.30 lakhs and existing investments, you have a strong foundation to accumulate the desired 2 crore corpus for your kids' education in the next 10 years.
Ensure that you review your investment strategy periodically to optimize returns and align with your target timeframe.
Monthly Pension:
To achieve a monthly pension of 2 lakhs at the age of 60, you'll need to estimate the corpus required using the concept of retirement planning.
Consider factors such as inflation, expected rate of return on investments, and life expectancy to determine the corpus needed to generate the desired pension amount.
Retirement Planning:
Review your current retirement savings, including investments in MFs, PPF, ICICI Pru, NPS, and real estate.
Calculate the gap between your current retirement corpus and the required corpus to generate a monthly pension of 2 lakhs.
Adjust your savings and investment strategy accordingly to bridge the gap and achieve your retirement goal.
Regular Review and Adjustment:
Regularly monitor your investments and track your progress towards your financial goals.
Make adjustments to your investment strategy as needed based on changes in your income, expenses, market conditions, and life circumstances.
Professional Advice:
Consider consulting with a financial advisor or Certified Financial Planner to develop a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your specific needs and goals.
A professional can help you assess your current financial situation, set realistic goals, and create a roadmap to achieve them.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 02, 2024Hindi
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Hi Sir, I am 37 years old and currently have about 1.1 C as investments across various instruments such as MF, Shares, PF, SSY, Gold and ESOPs. My current yearly expenses work out to be 22 lacs. How much do I need to accumulate as a corpus by the age of 45 to sustain my current lifestyle as well as to fund my kid's higher education (around same time) and marriage (another 10 years from then)?
Ans: To determine the corpus you need to accumulate by the age of 45 to sustain your current lifestyle, fund your kid's higher education, and marriage, we'll need to consider several factors:

Current Expenses:
Your current yearly expenses amount to 22 lakhs. We'll use this figure as a baseline to estimate your future expenses.
Inflation:
Consider the impact of inflation on your expenses over time. Typically, education and marriage costs tend to rise at a higher rate than general inflation.
Higher Education Costs:
Estimate the future cost of your kid's higher education by factoring in the current cost, inflation rate, and the number of years until they start college.
Marriage Expenses:
Similarly, estimate the future cost of your kid's marriage by considering the current average marriage expenses, inflation rate, and the number of years until the event.
Investment Growth:
Assess the growth potential of your current investments across various instruments, including mutual funds, shares, PF, SSY, gold, and ESOPs. Consider historical returns and future growth projections.
Corpus Calculation:
Use a financial planning tool or consult with a financial advisor to calculate the required corpus based on your current expenses, future expenses, inflation, and investment growth assumptions.
Ensure that the corpus is sufficient to cover both your retirement needs and your kid's education and marriage expenses.
Regular Review:
Regularly review your financial plan to track your progress towards your goals and make necessary adjustments based on changes in your income, expenses, investment performance, and life circumstances.
Given your age and financial situation, it's essential to start planning and saving for your future goals as early as possible. By investing wisely and regularly reviewing your financial plan, you can work towards achieving your financial objectives and securing a comfortable future for yourself and your family.

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on May 07, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - May 02, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I'm 35 yrs I can invest 25000-50000 per month, where should i invest. I can take moderate risk, 10yrs time horizon, I invested 10lakhs in direct shares already. Investing in Mirae ELSS monthly 4000rupees Not invested in any other mutual funds. I earn monthly 1 lakh, no emi, i can save 80k per month, let me know where i can invest 25-50k monthly
Ans: It's great to see your proactive approach to investing and your willingness to explore additional investment avenues. Given your risk tolerance, time horizon, and monthly saving capacity, mutual funds can be an excellent option to diversify your portfolio and potentially enhance returns over the long term. Here's a suggested approach for your monthly investments of 25,000 to 50,000 rupees:

Increase SIP Investment:
Since you're already investing in Mirae ELSS with a monthly SIP of 4,000 rupees, consider increasing your SIP amount in this fund or adding SIPs in other mutual funds.
Diversify Across Fund Categories:
Allocate your monthly investment across different categories of mutual funds to diversify your portfolio and manage risk effectively.
Consider investing in large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds to gain exposure to different segments of the market.
Consider Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs):
SIPs offer the advantage of rupee cost averaging and disciplined investing, making them suitable for long-term wealth creation.
You can start SIPs with varying amounts in different funds based on your risk appetite and investment objectives.
Fund Selection:
Choose mutual funds with a proven track record of consistent performance, experienced fund managers, and a robust investment process.
Look for funds with low expense ratios and high-quality portfolios that align with your investment goals and risk profile.
Regular Monitoring and Review:
Keep a close eye on the performance of your mutual fund investments and regularly review your portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your financial objectives.
Make adjustments to your investment strategy as needed based on changes in market conditions, your risk tolerance, and investment goals.
Seek Professional Advice:
Consider consulting with a financial advisor or Certified Financial Planner to develop a customized investment plan tailored to your specific needs and goals.
A professional can provide valuable insights and guidance to help you make informed investment decisions and navigate the complexities of the financial markets.
By diversifying your investments across mutual funds and adopting a disciplined approach to investing, you can potentially achieve your financial goals and build wealth over the long term. Remember to stay patient, stay focused on your long-term objectives, and avoid making impulsive investment decisions.

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