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Yoga, Naturopathy Expert - Answered on Mar 22, 2022

Roopashree Sharma, a qualified yoga trainer and naturopathy enthusiast, is the founder of Atharvanlife.
She has completed her diploma in naturopathic medicine/naturopathy from DY Patil University and her advanced diploma in yoga teacher training/yoga therapy from the university of Mumbai.... more
Gayatri Question by Gayatri on Mar 22, 2022Hindi
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Dear Roopashree,
I am a young working professional.
I have two problems. One is that I cry easily. Second is that I cry when angry.
This is very unprofessional in a professional set-up.
Are there any yogic exercises or any other method to control tears?
Please help.
Best wishes,
Gayatri

Ans:

It is good thing to express your emotions.

However, if you are not able to control them, you should dwell on the triggers and address any suppressed emotions.

Simple yogic meditation is the best way to deal with emotions.

You can start with chanting Om for 10-15 minutes a day; gradually increase the time. Also start Anulom Vilom pranayama to balance the mind.

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