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General Physician - Answered on Jan 09, 2023

Dr Karthiyayini Mahadevan has been practising for 30 years.
She specialises in general medicine, child development and senior citizen care.
A graduate from Madurai Medical College, she has DNB training in paediatrics and a postgraduate degree in developmental neurology.
She has trained in Tai chi, eurythmy, Bothmer gymnastics, spacial dynamics and yoga.
She works with children with development difficulties at Sparrc Institute and is the head of wellness for senior citizens at Columbia Pacific Communities.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jan 09, 2023Hindi
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Hi Dr Karthiyayini My son is 5 and extremely restless at school. He is academically bright and gets an A always but he is impatient, extremely naughty and very messy in his work. Nowadays he gets reprimanded too often because of his behaviour. What can I do to help him?

Ans: We need to look in to his source of the energy of which your son is, restless.Balanced diet to the body and age appropriate sensory diet for the mind are important. High glycemic index food, through fast food and sugars bring in restlessness Also unwanted sensory impressions through the media is another area which needs to be looked at
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How is it possible for a 5-year old to understand logic when he is throwing an emotional fit (tantrum)?
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