Dear Dr. Aartiji, My younger son just 5 years 8 months age his behavior totally different in two different places in house very energetic, always playing with his brother and talkative with huge stupid language, but whenever he goes to school do not talk to any one even teachers but quickly any education task does with good hand writing and question answers other than other children. just tell me what to do with his behavior?

Ans: Vijay Sir, With a COMEDK GM rank of 4946, your son is virtually certain to secure a CSE seat at these ten Karnataka institutions: Sri Jayachamarajendra College of Engineering, Mysuru (closing 5158); Dayananda Sagar College of Engineering, Bengaluru (5873); The National Institute of Engineering, Mysuru (10182); Bangalore Institute of Technology, Bengaluru (10896); Siddaganga Institute of Technology, Tumakuru (11173); BMS Institute of Technology and Management, Bengaluru (12938); R.V. Institute of Technology and Management, Bengaluru (14477); Nitte Meenakshi Institute of Technology, Bengaluru (15857); C.M.R. Institute of Technology, Bengaluru (22573); and KLE Technological University, Hubballi (28951). Dayananda Sagar College of Engineering (DSCE) is an autonomous, AICTE-approved institute affiliated to VTU, holding NAAC ‘A’ and NBA accreditations, with PhD-qualified faculty, modern computing and research labs, robust AI/ML and cybersecurity facilities, and active industry partnerships for internships and projects. Its CSE department placed over 81% of eligible students (91.9% eligible) in 2023–24 and maintains on-campus career support, hackathons, technical clubs, and regular industry interactions.

Recommendation:
Sri Jayachamarajendra College and DSCE Bangalore should top your list for their balanced blend of academic rigor, infrastructural excellence, PhD-level faculty, and consistent 80–95% CSE placement rates. Next, consider NIE Mysuru and BIT Bengaluru for their proven track records and extensive industry networks. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: With a 97.28 percentile in MHT-CET, an SEBC (OBC) girl stands below the 2024 CAP Round-III closing levels for both colleges: PICT’s SEBC computer-engineering seat shut at 99.56 percentile and IT at 99.40 plus, while Cummins College’s LSEBC cut-offs were 98.78 for Computer Engineering and 98.08 for IT. Academically, PICT (NAAC B+, NBA programmes) offers 90-plus PhD faculty, AI/ML and cybersecurity labs, and a 92.9% placement rate in 2024 with a ?10 L median package. Cummins (NAAC A, autonomous, women-only) blends industry-curated syllabi with Dell-EMC and Microsoft laboratories, records 98% placements and a ?11 L median salary in 2023-24, and nurtures strong peer mentoring for women engineers. Both run state-recognised SEBC tuition-waiver schemes and encourage funded internships, hackathons and higher-study guidance, but their admission bar remains far above 97 percentile.

Recommendation:
Because current percentile trails both institutes’ SEBC thresholds, apply in CAP Round II/III to colleges such as PCCOE, VIIT, RSCOE or DY Patil Akurdi, whose CSE/IT cut-offs lie between 96–98 percentile yet keep 80-95% placement records; simultaneously claim the SEBC fee-reimbursement scheme and TFWS to reduce tuition burden. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Banavath, JoSAA deems candidates eligible for NIT+IIIT+GFTI seats only if they both hold a valid JEE-Main rank and have passed Class XII with at least 65% aggregate in PCM plus two other subjects for SC/ST categories. Supplementary-exam results are acceptable, but the revised marksheet must reach the virtual reporting centre before the document-verification deadline; otherwise the verifying officer flags “not passed,” auto-generating a seat-cancellation letter. Because your corrected 65.8% marks arrived after the verification window, the system removed you from further JoSAA rounds. Immediately email the JoSAA help-desk: josaa(at)iitk.ac.in with the new marksheet and cancellation letter, requesting reopening of your file; if the authority declines, register for the CSAB-2025 special rounds, which honour the same 65% rule and accept fresh documents. Failing that, use state counselling in Telangana/AP or private-university quotas that recognise JEE-Main ranks, as supplementary passes satisfy their eligibility too.

Recommendation:
Upload the revised marksheet and lodge a written grievance with JoSAA’s help-desk today; if reinstatement is denied, enter CSAB special rounds with updated documents, then parallel-apply to state engineering and accredited private institutes to secure a 2025-26 seat while preserving your JEE-Main advantage. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Amrita School of Engineering, Coimbatore (NAAC A++, established 1994), offers a B.Tech CSE program with a 90% placement rate, top recruiters like Amazon, Cisco, and Microsoft, and a comprehensive curriculum focused on advanced computing and industry skills. The total fee is ?24 lakh, with robust hostel and campus facilities. MAHE Bengaluru (Manipal Academy of Higher Education) provides a B.Tech CSE program (?12.2 lakh fee), strong industry connections, 77% placement rate in 2025, and a curriculum designed for flexibility and global relevance. Both institutes have highly qualified faculty, modern labs, and extensive student support, including mental health services and career counseling. MAHE’s placement rates and fees are competitive, while Amrita’s placement outcomes and recruiter list are more impressive, but at a higher cost.

Recommendation:
If affordability and a solid placement record are priorities, MAHE Bengaluru is a strong choice. For higher placement rates, a broader recruiter base, and an established national reputation, Amrita Coimbatore is preferable—especially if the higher fee is manageable. Both provide excellent academics and industry exposure. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Poorna, With an ST category rank of 2,855 in the IISER Aptitude Test, admission to any IISER is not possible. The 2024 ST category closing ranks for BS-MS programs at all IISER campuses ranged from 222 (Pune) to 464 (Berhampur), with the highest closing at 464 (Berhampur) and all others below 500. Your rank is significantly above these cutoffs, and recent trends confirm that ST admissions close well before 1,000 at every campus. IISERs maintain high standards, modern labs, and excellent faculty, but their reservation quotas are strictly adhered to.

Recommendation:
With an ST rank of 2,855, IISER admission is not possible. Explore integrated science programs at central universities, state universities, or NISER/CBS, where cutoffs may be more favorable for your category. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: All are good. As BMSCE has increased its student-intake especially for CSE since last year, you can prefer MSRIT, followed by PES. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Narayana, NITTE Meenakshi Institute of Technology offers both Information Science and Engineering (ISE) and Computer Science and Business Systems (CSBS) programs with distinct advantages. ISE, established in 2001, provides a comprehensive software-focused curriculum with NBA Tier-1 accreditation and extensive research opportunities in AI, machine learning, and cybersecurity. The department features experienced faculty including Dr. Mohan SG as Head, with strong industry connections through companies like Unisys and McAfee. CSBS, a newer program developed in collaboration with TCS, combines computer science fundamentals with business systems knowledge, preparing students for NextGen business engineering roles. The curriculum is industry-tailored by TCS experts who conduct periodic sessions on emerging technologies, with faculty trained through TCS's "Train the Trainer" program.

Five Critical Institutional Aspects:

1. Accreditation & Rankings: NMIT holds NBA Tier-1 accreditation for ISE (valid until 2026-27), NAAC A+ grade, and ranks 101-150 in NIRF 2024.

2. Infrastructure: The 23-acre campus features state-of-the-art laboratories, exclusive research facilities, AR/VR/MR labs, IoT centers, departmental libraries, and 11 Centers of Excellence including quantum computing and cybersecurity.

3. Faculty Quality: ISE department has highly qualified faculty with extensive research experience and industry collaboration, while CSBS faculty are TCS-trained with periodic expert visits.

4. Industry Collaboration: Strong partnerships with TCS for CSBS, Unisys, Dell, Amazon, and Microsoft for placements and internships.

5. Placement Performance: 2024 statistics show ISE achieving 88.37% placement rate with average package Rs 7.2 LPA, while overall institutional placement rate reached 94.3% with highest package Rs 47 LPA.

Pros and Cons Comparison:

CSBS Advantages: Direct TCS collaboration ensures industry relevance, business-oriented curriculum bridges technology-business gap, emerging field with high demand, specialized training in analytics and machine learning, strong placement prospects in consulting roles.

ISE Advantages: Established department with proven track record, extensive research opportunities, broader technical scope, higher current placement rates, NBA accreditation, diverse career paths in software development and cybersecurity.

CSBS Disadvantages: Newer program with limited track record, fewer research opportunities compared to ISE, curriculum heavily dependent on TCS partnership, limited higher education options specifically in CSBS.

ISE Disadvantages: More traditional approach, potentially less business-oriented curriculum, higher competition due to established nature, may require additional business skills development for consulting roles.

Industry acceptance for software developer roles is strong for both branches. Companies recruiting CSE students typically allow ISE students to participate in the same placement drives, with minimal differentiation in software development positions. CSBS graduates are specifically designed for business engineering roles and are increasingly accepted by major IT companies including Amazon, Deloitte, Microsoft, and TCS for software development, business analyst, and data scientist positions.

Recommendation: Choose CSBS if you're interested in combining technical skills with business acumen and prefer industry-tailored curriculum with direct corporate mentorship. Select ISE if you prioritize established academic reputation, extensive research opportunities, and broader technical foundation with proven placement success. Both programs offer excellent software developer career prospects, with CSBS providing additional business system expertise and ISE offering deeper technical specialization. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Guru Tegh Bahadur Institute of Technology (GTBIT) offers a B.Tech in CSE-AI & ML, with a strong placement record: 80% of students secure jobs, and top recruiters include Amazon, TCS, HCL, Infosys, and Microsoft. The college’s active placement cell facilitates internships in the third and fourth years, often converting to full-time roles based on performance. The 2024 placement cycle saw the highest package at ?52 LPA, an average of ?6.5–7.5 LPA, and over 200 students placed in reputed companies. Faculty are well-qualified, with several IIT graduates, and the curriculum is industry-relevant, covering the latest in AI and ML. Infrastructure includes modern labs, digital libraries, and a supportive campus environment, though there is no in-campus hostel. Students benefit from active coding societies, mentorship, and career guidance.

Recommendation:
GTBIT CSE-AI & ML is a solid choice for strong industry connections, high placement rates, and relevant curriculum. Your daughter can expect good job opportunities in her final year, especially with active participation in internships and coding clubs. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: I am going with the assumption you both are adults who are thinking individuals. I am also assuming you are both financially independent.

Families, parents are important and it should be so. I understand parents apprehension, having said this, I do not get it why caste and relationship status as previously married takes precedence over compatibility. One should also realise that every relationship needs working upon by 2 people- there is no certainty if someone gets married within their caste or choice of parents/ family.

Coming to your issue there are 2 options

- she is open to take the step upsetting her parents and getting married to you

or

- she and you need to move on and move on in the true sense. which means no connection whatsoever, move out of each other's social media, block contact details and move on, heal yourself and find someone else.

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