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niranjan Question by niranjan on Aug 02, 2023Hindi
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what is the remedy for fear of Job uncertainty

Ans: if you perform your job with utmost sincerity, knowledge and skill.
You are never going to loose your job.
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How to overcome fear in life
Ans: Overcoming fear is a personal and gradual process, but here are some strategies that can help:

Identify and acknowledge your fears: The first step in overcoming fear is to identify what you're afraid of and acknowledge its presence in your life. Take the time to reflect on the specific fears that hold you back and recognize that they are valid emotions.

Understand the root cause: Try to understand the underlying reasons behind your fears. Sometimes fears stem from past experiences, trauma, or limiting beliefs. By gaining insight into the root causes, you can begin to address them more effectively.

Educate yourself: Knowledge is power. Often, fear arises from a lack of understanding or unfamiliarity. Educate yourself about the things you fear. Whether it's a specific phobia or a fear of the unknown, gathering information and learning more about the subject can help dispel irrational fears.

Take small steps: Overcoming fear doesn't mean completely eliminating it overnight. Start by taking small steps towards facing your fears. Break down the fear-inducing situations into smaller, more manageable tasks. Gradually exposing yourself to these situations can help build confidence and reduce fear over time.

Practice relaxation techniques: Fear can trigger physical and emotional responses, such as increased heart rate, sweating, or anxiety. Practicing relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or mindfulness, can help you manage these symptoms and calm your mind.

Seek support: Don't hesitate to reach out for support. Share your fears with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist who can provide encouragement, guidance, and a fresh perspective. Connecting with others who have faced similar fears can also be beneficial.

Challenge negative thoughts: Fear often accompanies negative thoughts and self-doubt. Challenge these thoughts by examining their validity and replacing them with more positive and empowering ones. Affirmations and positive self-talk can help reframe your mindset and reduce fear.

Embrace failure as a learning opportunity: Fear of failure can hold you back from taking risks or pursuing your goals. Remember that failure is a natural part of life and often leads to growth and learning. Embrace failure as an opportunity to learn, adjust, and try again.

Celebrate your successes: Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. Each step you take in facing your fears and overcoming obstacles is progress worth recognizing. Celebrating your successes can boost your confidence and motivate you to continue moving forward.

Remember, overcoming fear takes time and patience. Be kind to yourself throughout the process, and don't hesitate to seek professional help if your fears are significantly impacting your daily life and well-being.

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Image Coach, Soft Skills Trainer - Answered on Feb 03, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jan 07, 2025Hindi
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I have been jobless since 2 years. During COVID, I was undergoing tremendous amount of stress due to the lockdowns & WFH. It had telling effect on me & I realized am going through depression when I joined a job which required me to work from office. I quit job a month after I joined the company where the toxic work culture had a big toll on me to the extent of instilling a fear of formal office environs in me, which continues to this day. I have become a recluse. Now I feel I should have sought professional intervention much earlier, rather than just 6 months back. I lost all confidence of turning up for interviews, leave alone joining some job. I fear & hate admitting that infront of my wife who is very temperamental & nags me consistently about job search, as much as she tries to figure out things in my life. Every day I apply to jobs but every time I fail an interview I console myself thinking that I am saved of botheration of the rigors of a job which I can't face. I don't admit to my wife so as not to infuriate her & don't trust her that she will empathise with my situation in life. Hence try to keep up with good facade. But the results never improve- I failed every interview (calls though are hard to come by) which I fully know that its because I could not give my 100 % energy. Now the reluctance is due to many factors- IT is very fast changing field; I have reached a senior level where there are many expectations on that role which I never got to nurture/grow on myself. So every interview gives me shivers: 1) About my performance 2) (provided am selected somehow) About whether I would be able to fulfill my role to my satisfaction (previous professional experience haunts me to this date). As a result of all this I very often mentally exhaust myself (worrying/ wishful)thinking of things rather than bringing myself to earn money for the family. I feel I am just doing things to fill up my day, languishing by doing things that do not bring any value- rather than positively, pro-actively doing something of my career. Due to the gap of 2 years I do not get favorable response from companies I apply to. That is a very big gap to fill & I can't talk my way into saying things like I was in depression or that I did nothing for those 2 years. That further increases my anxiety, I have grown aversion to this entire goings on. I feel direction-less & drained out all the time. Please help.
Ans: Hello!!

Let's only look at the forward path here pls.

Forget about all the failings so far... Be kind to yourself, whatever happened to you, whatever is happening now, the period of COVID did it to many.

The only way to get out of this is -
1. your willingness to see a beautiful future ahead of you
2. you have already taken the first step by seeking counselling
3. leave the habit of revisiting the past again, like you just said that I should have gone to the counselor earlier, don't do this, be happy you are seeing him/her now
4. you have come so far in life, give yourself some credit, you have not reached the senior position just like that, right? You have reached here with your efforts, you have done it before, you'll do it again, have faith in yourself
5. your wife is your life partner, sit across and talk to her, take her to the counselor make her understand that this a phase where you need her on your side. A facade with your wife is a NO NO, it will come out some day, it is extra strain on you and your relationship, come clean , be truthful and honest with her.
6. make self care a priority ..get your routine in order, it's your life, just don't fill your day with mindless activities, like I said one step in the future, start taking actions now.....get up early, expose yourself to the sun and nature( they are great healers), exercise, have good meals throughout the day, learn something new , join a course which will be job oriented, how about adding an MBA or any other course which will help you in your career or job search?
7. make being joyful a habit... spend time volunteering, go teach underprivileged children or where ever you feel like lending a helping hand
8. value yourself....you were not put here to suffer, take action now.

Forget the past, jo beet gayi so baat gayi( meaningless to talk about the past)... stop blaming, complaining....look into the future with energy and enthusiasm, it's your life man , take one step towards it every day.

Bless you to life your life well..

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 21, 2025Hindi
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Hello Sir, I had requested for your advice & guidance to my query on 19th June. Probably it hasn't reached you or got missed. So sending again Sir... "My son scored 99.176 percentile in MHTCET. He wants to study BTech CSE core. We are from General open category & stay in Mumbai. He has currently got confirmed seat for CSE core in Chennai VIT campus-Category 2. We would prefer if he gets a good college in Maharashtra. However, my concern is he should get a college which is either better or equal to the current VIT seat in terms of college brand, value & its acceptance in the industry, placement, package & quality of education. As per my undesrtanding the colleges which come in my mind are only VJTI, COEP, SPIT & probably DJ Sanghvi (not very sure of DJS). Hope my thinking is right. Please correct me if I am wrong. Also, in above %tile, whether my son can get admission in VJTI or COEP or others. Also, pls suggest, my son does not have domicile certificate but I have my own domicile. So hopefully this should not be an issue Sir as my daughter had also git admission in BArch based on my domicile in 2019".
Ans: VJTI holds NIRF ranking #101-150 in Engineering category, while COEP maintains superior rankings among government institutions . SPIT ranks #4 in Mumbai for BTech programs, demonstrating strong industry recognition . VIT Chennai, despite being a private institution, maintains NAAC A++ accreditation and established industry partnerships .

Recommendation: Accept VIT Chennai CSE Category 2 as your primary choice (however, check the REFUND policy to ensure you do not incur heavy financial losses if you withdraw the seat)) given your son's 99.176 percentile falls short of VJTI (99.83), COEP (99.96), and SPIT (99.64) cutoffs, while DJ Sanghvi (99.40) remains marginally possible but uncertain. VIT Chennai offers comparable placement opportunities with 90%+ industry acceptance, extensive recruiter participation, and established CSE program quality, making it a superior guaranteed option over uncertain Maharashtra admissions. Simultaneously participate in all MHT CET counseling rounds targeting DJ Sanghvi as the most viable Maharashtra alternative, leveraging your domicile certificate for home state quota benefits. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jun 21, 2025

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Hello sir ,i am 35 yrs old and I don't have any current running loans.. i want to invest 30k per month for 10-15yrs.. Few articles or videos says index funds are best but in meantime I'm getting info saying don't go with index funds they never beat benchmark from few other articles.. so please suggest one diversified portfolio..
Ans: You are 35 and debt-free. That is a very good start.
You want to invest Rs. 30,000 monthly for 10–15 years.
That long duration gives you good power of compounding.

You have also asked about index funds vs active funds.
Let’s address that too.
We will build a full 360-degree plan for you.

Your Time Horizon is Long-Term
You are planning for 10–15 years.
This is ideal for wealth creation.
It also reduces market risk over time.

You can stay invested through multiple market cycles.
This means you can take equity exposure confidently.

A disciplined SIP of Rs. 30,000 monthly is powerful.
It can build a large corpus in 15 years.

But the portfolio must be well-structured.

Why Index Funds are Not Recommended
You said you saw many articles about index funds.
Some say they are best.
Some say they don’t beat the benchmark.

Here is the reality about index funds:

Index funds just copy a market index.

They have no active strategy.

They cannot exit poor stocks.

They do not protect capital in falling markets.

They give average performance only.

If market falls 30%, index also falls 30%.
You cannot expect smart management here.

They only work when markets go one direction – up.
But over 15 years, there will be ups and downs.
In those times, index funds do nothing.

They don’t suit goals like child education, retirement, or financial independence.

Benefits of Actively Managed Mutual Funds
You should choose actively managed funds.

These funds have full-time expert fund managers.
They adjust the portfolio based on market trends.
They avoid weak sectors.
They add strong companies early.

Benefits include:

Better downside protection

Flexible stock selection

Better return consistency

Human intelligence behind the portfolio

For long-term goals, active funds are better.
Not just for returns, but for peace of mind.

Problems with Direct Mutual Funds
If you are using direct mutual fund plans, please stop and rethink.
Many investors believe they are saving cost.
But they lose more due to lack of guidance.

Problems with direct investing:

You get no fund selection help

No yearly portfolio review

No rebalancing suggestions

No emotional support in market crash

You may over-diversify or under-diversify

A wrong asset mix is worse than paying small commission.

Invest through regular plans with a Certified Financial Planner – MFD.
You get:

Personalised investment map

Goal-linked investing

Proper risk alignment

Exit and entry strategy

Long-term hand-holding

This is more useful than saving 0.5% in expense ratio.

Suggested Diversified SIP Portfolio – Rs. 30,000 Per Month
Split your SIP across 3 to 4 high-quality fund categories.
Here is a suggested structure:

Flexi Cap Fund – Rs. 10,000

Multicap Fund – Rs. 8,000

Mid Cap Fund – Rs. 6,000

Small Cap Fund – Rs. 3,000

Balanced Advantage or Dynamic Asset Fund – Rs. 3,000

Why this works:

Flexi cap provides flexibility across market caps

Multicap gives broader diversification

Mid cap and small cap provide higher long-term growth

Balanced advantage reduces volatility

Keep the number of funds to 4 or 5 maximum.
Too many funds will not give extra returns.
They will only cause confusion.

Always Tag SIPs to Life Goals
Don’t just invest for returns.
Invest for a purpose.

Define your goals like:

Retirement fund

Child’s education

Marriage corpus

Wealth freedom

Assign SIPs to these goals.
This gives motivation to stay invested.

Also, this helps in portfolio review every year.

Rebalance Your Portfolio Every Year
After starting SIPs, don’t forget them.
Review your funds every 12 months.

Look for:

Fund performance vs peers

Consistency of returns

Changes in your life goals

Market valuation risk

Make changes if needed.
Use your MFD with CFP certification for review.
Don’t change based on news or social media.

Do Not Add Real Estate or Gold Now
You are starting with Rs. 30,000 SIP.
Focus only on mutual funds now.

Avoid real estate.
It locks your money.
It gives poor rental yield.
It has low liquidity.

Avoid gold also.
It does not generate income.
It performs well only during crisis.

Stick to mutual funds for growth.
They are transparent, liquid and well-regulated.

Don’t Forget Emergency Fund and Insurance
Before you start investing, check protection side.

Keep Rs. 3 to 6 lakhs in FD or liquid fund

This is your emergency cushion

Also ensure:

You have Rs. 50 lakh or more term insurance

You have Rs. 10–25 lakh health insurance

Without protection, your investments are at risk.
One emergency can derail your plans.

Taxation Awareness for Long-Term Investing
You are investing in equity mutual funds.

Please note the new capital gains tax rules:

Long-Term Capital Gains (LTCG) above Rs. 1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%

Short-Term Capital Gains (STCG) taxed at 20%

Don’t redeem funds often.
Let compounding continue.
Exit only for your actual goal or rebalancing.

Increase SIP as Income Grows
You will earn more in the next 15 years.
So increase your SIP by 10–15% every year.

Even small yearly hikes can boost your final corpus.

This is called SIP top-up strategy.
Very useful for long-term wealth building.

Keep These Habits Always
Be patient with SIP

Don’t stop during market fall

Avoid new NFOs or sector funds

Do not switch funds often

Don’t compare with friend’s portfolio

Stick with your own goals

Focus on your own journey.
You will reach your destination.

Final Insights
You are starting at the right age.
You have enough time to build wealth.

Avoid index funds.
Use actively managed mutual funds.
Avoid direct plans.
Invest through a CFP-qualified MFD.

Start with Rs. 30,000 SIP monthly.
Review once a year.
Increase SIP every year.
Tag every SIP to a goal.

Stay disciplined.
Stay committed.
And you will achieve financial freedom.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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