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Self-improvement Expert - Answered on Jan 30, 2023

Virender Kapoor is the former director of Pune's Symbiosis Institute of Management and the founder of the Management Institute for Leadership and Excellence in Pune.He has authored more than 36 books on self-improvement designed for school students, senior managers and CEOs.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jan 17, 2023Hindi
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If you’re serious about getting better at something, then one of the first steps is to know—in black-and-white terms—where you stand. Do we need self-awareness before you can achieve self-improvement.

Ans: Of course this is the most important- Self awareness, your SWOT ANALYSIS. Do this before you work on self improvement.
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Hello Archana mam, I’ve always been fascinated by fashion, styling, and personal transformation, and back in 2022, I dreamed of joining the ICBI. Unfortunately, life had other plans, and I couldn’t pursue it at the time. But now, I’m finally on this journey to becoming an image consultant and soft skills trainer, and I’m loving every step of it! One thing I’ve realised is how much this process is helping me grow—not just professionally but personally too. My mentors have emphasised the importance of transforming yourself first before guiding others. My question is: As someone stepping into this field, how do I ensure that my own journey of self-improvement stays consistent while also balancing the responsibility of helping others? How can I make sure that my growth inspires others authentically?
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Dear Sir/Madam, I am currently a 1st year UG student studying engineering in Sairam Engineering College, But there the lack of exposure and strict academics feels so rigid and I don't like it that. It's like they don't gaf about skills but just wants us to memorize things and score a good CGPA, the only skill they want is you to memorize things and pass, there's even special class for students who don't perform well in academics and it is compulsory for them to attend or else the student and his/her parents needs to face authorities who lashes out. My question is when did engineering became something that requires good academics instead of actual learning and skill set. In sairam they provides us a coding platform in which we need to gain the required points for each semester which is ridiculous cuz most of the students here just look at the solution to code instead of actual debugging. I am passionate about engineering so I want to learn and experiment things instead of just memorizing, so I actually consider dropping out and I want to give jee a try and maybe viteee , srmjeee But i heard some people say SRM may provide exposure but not that good in placements. I may not be excellent at studies but my marks are decent. So gimme some insights about SRM and recommend me other colleges/universities which are good at exposure
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What you are experiencing at Sairam is not engineering, it is rote-based credential production.

“When did engineering become memorizing instead of learning?”

Sadly, this shift happened decades ago in most Tier-3 private colleges in India.

About “coding platforms & points” – your observation is sharp

You are absolutely right:

Mandatory coding points → students copy solutions

Copying ≠ learning

Debugging & thinking are missing

This is pseudo-skill education — it looks modern but produces shallow engineers.

The fact that you noticed this in 1st year already puts you ahead of 80% students.

Should you DROP OUT and prepare for JEE / VITEEE / SRMJEEE?

Although VIT/SRM is better than Sairam Engineering College, but you may face the same problem. You will not face this type of problem only in some top IITs, but getting seat in those IITs will be difficult.
Instead of dropping immediately, consider:

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Stay enrolled (degree security)

Reduce emotional investment in college rules

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GitHub

Open-source projects

Hackathons

Internships (remote)

Hardware / software self-projects

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College = formality

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