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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 03, 2023English

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नमस्ते, मेरी शादी को 10 साल हो गए हैं और मेरे 2 बच्चे भी हैं। अचानक मुझे पता चला कि मेरी पत्नी का किसी दूसरे आदमी के साथ संबंध है। मैं टूट गया था, लेकिन मुझे पता है कि इसका खुलासा करने के बजाय मैंने उन सभी अच्छे पलों को याद किया जो हमने बिताए थे। उसने किसी दूसरे आदमी से अलग होने का फैसला किया, फिर भी मैं जानना चाहता था कि किस बात ने उसे प्रेरित किया, इसलिए यह जानते हुए कि वह पहले ही अलग हो चुकी है, मेरी पत्नी के साथ खुली चर्चा में गया। वह यह जानकर हैरान रह गई कि मुझे पता है लेकिन फिर उसने बताया कि वह पिछले 6 महीने से भावनात्मक रूप से उदास थी और मैं काम में व्यस्त था। चूँकि मैं अपने बच्चों और पत्नी के साथ भावनात्मक रूप से जुड़ा हुआ हूँ इसलिए मैंने आगे बढ़ने का फैसला किया और घटना के बाद से हमारा प्यार और अधिक गहरा हो गया। कभी-कभार मुझे अभी भी संदेह होता है और मैं विश्वास का वही स्तर बनाए रखने में असफल हो जाता हूं जो मुझे करना चाहिए। कृपया मार्गदर्शन करें कि मैं कैसे अधिक मजबूत विश्वास बनाए रख सकता हूं।

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
हां, इस तरह की घटनाएं आपका भरोसा खो सकती हैं, खासकर तब जब आप उसकी हर हरकत, हर हरकत या निष्क्रियता पर संदेह करने लगेंगे।
आप एक ऐसे व्यक्ति प्रतीत होते हैं जिसने आपके रिश्ते में अच्छाई (यह आश्चर्यजनक है) देखना चुना है और शादी को जारी रखना चाहता है। लेकिन इसे प्रभावी ढंग से करने के लिए, विश्वास को फिर से बनाना होगा। एक जोड़े के रूप में, इस बारे में बात करें... जब आपको संदेह हो तो अपनी पत्नी के साथ साझा करें लेकिन कभी भी उस मोड में न आएं जहां उसे हर दिन खुद को समझाने या साबित करने की ज़रूरत हो।

अगर उसे इस बात का एहसास हो गया है कि शादी में क्या कमी रह गई है जिसके कारण उसने इससे बाहर कदम रखा है, तो आप दोनों शादी में दोबारा जान डालने के लिए समय बिता सकते हैं।
उससे पूछें: जहां आप सुरक्षित महसूस करते हैं, वहां मैं आपसे भावनात्मक रूप से कैसे जुड़ सकता हूं?
एक साथ बहुत सारी गतिविधियाँ करें जिससे आप दोनों को फिर से जुड़ने में मदद मिलेगी!

या तो आप भरोसा करते हैं या नहीं... बीच में कुछ भी नहीं है... इसलिए यदि आप दोनों ने अपने रिश्ते को एक और मौका देने का फैसला किया है, तो इस बात पर ध्यान केंद्रित करें कि संबंध को फिर से कैसे बनाया जाए और एक-दूसरे की पहले से भी अधिक देखभाल कैसे की जाए। !

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 22, 2024English

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नमस्ते, मैं 38 साल का हूँ और 10 साल से ज़्यादा समय से शादीशुदा हूँ। एक साल पहले मुझे पता चला कि मेरी पत्नी किसी दूसरे आदमी के साथ संबंध बना रही है। मैं टूट गया क्योंकि हमारे दो बच्चे हैं। मैंने शुरू में तलाक लेने के बारे में सोचा लेकिन हमारे दो बच्चे हमेशा मेरे लिए प्राथमिकता रहे और मैंने अपनी पत्नी से इस बारे में बात की कि उसे यह कदम उठाने के लिए किस बात ने मजबूर किया। वह हैरान थी कि मैं उसकी स्थिति से वाकिफ़ हूँ। फिर उसने बताया कि जब मैं अपने दफ़्तर में बहुत व्यस्त रहता था तो उसे कई बार अकेलापन महसूस होता था और कई बार उसे भावनात्मक सहारे की ज़रूरत होती थी जिसके लिए मैं उसके साथ नहीं था। मैंने उसे समझाया कि दुनिया में कोई भी कारण उसके इस कृत्य को नहीं समझा सकता। उसे खेद हुआ और मैंने अपने बच्चों के भविष्य को ध्यान में रखते हुए अपने रिश्ते को एक और मौका देने का फैसला किया। अब एक साल से ज़्यादा हो गया है और इस घटना के बाद से हमारा शारीरिक/भावनात्मक रिश्ता और भी गहरा हो गया है। जब मैं दूर होता हूँ तो हम एक-दूसरे को याद करते हैं और जब हम दूर होते हैं तो हम एक-दूसरे से प्यार भरी बातें करते हैं। इसके बावजूद मैं अभी भी अपने दिमाग से अतीत को नहीं निकाल पाता हूँ और कई बार यह मुझे परेशान करता है। मुझे बहुत बुरा लगता है कि हमारे जीवन में आगे बढ़ने के बावजूद मैं अभी भी अपने रिश्ते के बीच अतीत को क्यों लाता रहता हूँ। हालाँकि मैं अपनी पत्नी के साथ घटना के बारे में अब और चर्चा नहीं करता, लेकिन जब मैं परेशान महसूस करता हूँ तो वह इसका कारण अच्छी तरह समझ जाती है। मैं आपकी मदद चाहता हूँ कि इस तरह की घटनाओं से भावनात्मक रूप से कैसे उबरा जाए और अपने साथी के साथ खोए हुए विश्वास को फिर से कैसे बनाया जाए।

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
ठीक है, यह आपके दिमाग के सोचने के तरीके पर आपका नियंत्रण है...
यदि आप जो हुआ है उस पर खेलना चाहते हैं, तो शादी को फिर से शुरू करना और उसमें बने रहने की कोशिश करना एक मुश्किल काम होगा। तो, तय करें कि आप इसे कैसे खेलना चाहते हैं? क्या आप अपने दिमाग को आगे देखने और शादी को फिर से बनाने के लिए प्रशिक्षित करेंगे या आप जो हुआ है उस पर बने रहना चाहते हैं और अतीत में जीना चाहते हैं? यह आपको चुनना है...बेशक, आप जो हुआ है उसे मिटा नहीं सकते हैं लेकिन आप इसके बारे में अपनी भावनाओं को बदल सकते हैं...
तो, पहले वह चुनाव करें। यदि आप अतीत पर ध्यान केंद्रित करना चाहते हैं, तो जान लें कि आपका रिश्ता जल्द ही खराब हो जाएगा। अगर आप आगे बढ़ना चाहते हैं, तो:
- साथ में ज़्यादा समय बिताकर खोए हुए भरोसे को फिर से बनाएँ
- जब भी आप अतीत में खो जाएँ, तो खुद को याद दिलाएँ कि आपने आगे बढ़ने का फ़ैसला किया है
- अपनी शादीशुदा ज़िंदगी को लेकर एक स्पष्ट और सकारात्मक छवि बनाएँ और दिन में कई बार अपने दिमाग में इस बारे में सोचें

ये कुछ तरीके हैं जिनसे आप किसी घटना के बारे में अपनी सोच बदल सकते हैं और आपको ज़्यादा ध्यान केंद्रित करके आगे बढ़ना सिखाते हैं। कोई फ़ैसला करें और उस पर कायम रहें।

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Question by Trade - Aug 16, 2024English

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मेरी शादी पिछले 20 सालों से हुई है। यह अरेंज मैरिज है और शादी से पहले उसने मुझे बताया था कि उसका एक कॉलेज के दोस्त के साथ अफेयर था देना है, उसने पूछा कि क्या कोई शारीरिक संबंध रहा है, तो उसने कहा नहीं, मैंने उस पर भरोसा किया और उससे शादी की, लेकिन शादी के 4 साल बाद मैंने देखा कि उसने कोई ध्यान नहीं दिया या मुझे प्यार नहीं करती, मुझे हमेशा लगता था कि मेरी तरफ से कुछ गलतियाँ हैं, इसलिए वह इस तरह का व्यवहार करती है। पिछले 16 सालों से मैं इस स्थिति से पीड़ित था। हाल ही में मुझे पता चला जब मैंने गलती से उसका मोबाइल देखा और मुझे पता चला कि उसका पिछले 16 सालों से उसी लड़के के साथ एक ही अफेयर है, जब मैंने इसके बारे में पूछा तो उसने मुझे बताया कि यह गलती से हुआ था, मुझे खेद है मैं ऐसा दोबारा नहीं करूंगी, कुछ दबाव के बाद उसने मुझे यह भी बताया कि उसने शादी से पहले और शादी के बाद भी उस अब उसने मुझे सारी बातें कबूल कर ली हैं और मुझसे वादा किया है कि वह आगे से कोई गलती नहीं करेगी। लेकिन कोई समस्या नहीं है, जब भी मैं उसके साथ शारीरिक या भावनात्मक संबंध बनाने की कोशिश करता हूं तो मेरे दिमाग में कुछ विचार आते हैं कि उसने किसी दूसरे लड़के के साथ सारी चीजें की हैं और मुझे धोखा दिया है, इसलिए मैं उसके साथ कोई रिश्ता नहीं बना सकता। मैं उस पर फिर से कैसे भरोसा कर सकता हूं, हमारे 10-10 साल के बच्चे हैं। कृपया मुझे बताएं कि मैं क्या करूं, मैं निराश हूं।

Ans: प्रिय ट्रेड,
आपको यह तय करना होगा कि आप उस पर भरोसा करना चाहते हैं या नहीं। जाहिर है, आपने जो पाया है, उसके साथ यह मुश्किल है। लेकिन अगर आपने शादी के भीतर ही आगे बढ़ना चुना है, तो मन को नियंत्रित करने का एकमात्र तरीका यह है कि जो हुआ है उसे स्वीकार करें और आज जैसी स्थिति है, उसके साथ काम करें।
अपनी शादी को एक और मौका दें और तभी आप अपना काम पूरा कर सकते हैं, अन्यथा आप केवल उसके धोखे और दूसरे व्यक्ति के साथ उसने जो किया, उसके बारे में सोचने में समय बिताएंगे, जो आपके लिए अच्छा नहीं है।
तो, क्या आप माफ़ करने और आगे बढ़ने के लिए तैयार हैं या अतीत को थामे रहने के लिए? कोई भी निर्णय सही या गलत नहीं होता; यह सिर्फ़ आपकी इच्छा पर निर्भर करता है और फिर जब आप वह निर्णय लेते हैं, तो बाकी सब चीज़ों को उस निर्णय के पक्ष में काम करने दें।

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Greetings Sir! I have passed class 12th with science stream, can I opt for B. Com in graduation Will the transition be okay since I will be new to field of commerce. I have a lot of interest in finance sector that's why I am willing to take B. Com in graduation

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Jee main 2025,my son got 95.2%tile,71104 rank ,ews rank 10111,home state punjab ,can he get cse,ece,data science,it, branch in any nit,iiit,gftis or which branches he will get in these institutes .

Ans: Varinder Sir, Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Here is, How to Predict Your Chances of Admission into NIT or IIIT or GFTI After JEE Main Results – A Step-by-Step Guide.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories both Home State (HS) i.e. State you belong to & also Other State (OS).
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in, separately for HS & OS Categories for a quick reference.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.

Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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Question by Sharmistha - Apr 27, 2025

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My son got 93.4 percentile jee main . He got eee bit mesra and cse in srm ktr which prospect is better?

Ans: Sharmistha Madam, prefer BIT-M-EEE. Explore more options for your daughter as back-ups by knowing the JoSAA Counselling Opening & Closing Ranks of last year. Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories both Home State (HS) i.e. State you belong to & also Other State (OS).
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in, separately for HS & OS Categories for a quick reference.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.

Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

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Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories both Home State (HS) i.e. State you belong to & also Other State (OS).
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in, separately for HS & OS Categories for a quick reference.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.

Follow this approach for Other State candidates and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

Can This Method Be Used for JEE April & JEE Advanced?
Yes! You can repeat the same steps after your April JEE Main results to refine your admission possibilities.
You can also follow a similar process for JEE Advanced cutoffs when applying for IITs.

Want to Learn More About JoSAA Counseling?
If you want detailed insights on JoSAA counseling, engineering entrance exams, preparation strategies, and engineering career options, check out EduJob360’s 180+ YouTube videos on this topic!

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know more on 'Careers | Health | Money | Relationships'.

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Question by Jatan - Apr 27, 2025

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I am seeking clarification regarding the application process for admission to the B.Tech-M.Tech Cyber Security program. As per the information provided, there are two options for applying: through the JEE Main result and the NFAT test. I have already appeared for the JEE Main and secured a 95.15 percentile, which is close to the previous year's cut-off. My query is whether it is possible to select both options JEE and NFAT.so that if I do not qualify through my JEE score, my application can be considered based on my NFAT score instead. If selecting both options is permissible, could you please guide me on how to do so while filling out the application form? Your assistance on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

Ans: Hello Jatan.
Yes, you can apply through both JEE Main and NFAT to maximize your chances. While filling the application form, select both options if available, or submit two separate applications if required. But it would be better to carefully read the instructions on the application portal or contact the admission office for exact steps.
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Asked on - Apr 27, 2025 | Answered on Apr 27, 2025

Thank you for guiding

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Question by Vipin - Apr 25, 2025

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sir i had filled my jee mains form with general category my exams are done and I have an ews certificate with me may i apply ews certificate at the time of counselling and may I eligible for jee advance because my cutoff get clear if I apply my ews certificate

Ans: Yes, a candidate can produce an EWS certificate after JEE Mains and before JEE Advanced application, but it's crucial to ensure the certificate is valid for the JEE Advanced year. For JEE Advanced 2025, the EWS certificate needs to be issued on or after April 1, 2025.

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Question by D - Apr 26, 2025

Career

Is computer science good or electronics, electric good for btech for future in NIT

Ans: Go for Electronics. From Electronics you can go to Computer Engg, but from Computer Engg it is difficult to switch over to Electronics.

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Question by Jatan - Apr 27, 2025

Career

I have already appeared for the JEE Main and secured a 95.15 percentile, which is close to the previous year's cut-off. My query is whether it is possible to select both options JEE and NFATso that if I do not qualify through my JEE score, my application can be considered based on my NFAT score instead. If selecting both options is permissible, could you please guide me on how to do so while filling out the application form? Your assistance on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

Ans: No, candidates cannot apply using both JEE Main and NAFT scores for the same admissions. JEE Main scores are used for admissions to engineering programs at NITs, IIITs, and other participating institutions, while NAFT scores are used for admissions to NAFT-affiliated universities. These are distinct admission processes, and only one set of scores can be used.

Asked on - Apr 27, 2025 | Answered on Apr 27, 2025

I am seeking above clarification regarding the application process for admission to the B.Tech-M.Tech Cyber Security program. Request to guide

Ans: To gain admission to B.Tech and M.Tech programs in Cyber Security in India, you'll generally need to submit an application, qualify for relevant entrance exams, participate in counseling, and meet specific eligibility criteria. For B.Tech, you'll typically need a 10+2 degree with Physics, Chemistry, and Math, while for M.Tech, a B.E./B.Tech in a relevant field is usually required, along with a good score in entrance exams like GATE.

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Question by Divyanshi - Apr 26, 2025

Career

hello sir, so i was a neet aspirant gave neet 2 times but did not get qualified...i was doing bsc in biology simultaneously..but the problem is i am not a regular student...all i did was give exams for bsc....now i don't know what to do....i have a thought of going for ssc cgl and then preparing for upsc if i land a job through ssc....but it would be tough to make a transition from neet ssc cgl...but im adamant to do it...please share your thoughts regarding my situation?

Ans: Hello Divyanshi.
Here is a pointwise reply to your current situation: (1) If possible, consider dropping the idea of NEET as you have tried twice but didn't succeed, (2) Focus on your B.Sc. and aim to become a regular student to achieve a high percentile in the exam. B.Sc. Biology has wide applications in both industries and academia. (3) There is no point in joining a job based on SSC as it would likely create further frustration for you. (4) Along with your B.Sc., consider learning some industry-based and computer courses if you are interested. (5) If you have a computer and a Wi-Fi connection at home, you can access many free online courses on the Coursera website. (6) You can also try for public service commission examinations while preparing for your B.Sc. (7) Recognize your strengths and the knowledge you possess, and focus your job search in that sector/area for a successful career. In this modern era, it is not difficult to find a job if someone is an expert in their field.
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Radheshyam

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Question by shibani - Apr 26, 2025

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siR I got 86 percentile sc catagory, I only chose govt college cse . Any college here?

Ans: Here means where?

Asked on - Apr 27, 2025 | Answered on Apr 27, 2025

Any nit , govt good college can get in cs branch?

Ans: Newer NITs (Sikkim, Mizoram, Nagaland) CSE
Newer IIITs (Una, Ranchi, Bhagalpur) CSE/IT

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Question by D - Apr 26, 2025

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My son scored 90%le with CRL.93%le in JEE MAINS can he get seat in CS or AI & ML in NIT Trichy or Suratkal under ST category

Ans: which one is correct? 90 or 93 percentile?

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