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नमस्ते, मुझे लड़कियों और अजनबियों से आँख से आँख मिलाने में समस्या होती है, जब मैं घूमता हूँ तो मैं बस दूसरों को देखता रहता हूँ, जब वे मुझसे आँख से आँख मिलाते हैं तो मैं आँख से आँख मिलाना बंद कर देता हूँ, इसका क्या मतलब है?

Ans: इसे धीरे-धीरे करें। आप इसमें सहज हो जाएंगे। लोगों से नज़रें मिलाना एक ख़ास बात है

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आप नीचे ऐसेही प्रश्न और उत्तर देखना पसंद कर सकते हैं

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हाय मोहित, मुझे बहुत गुस्सा आता है जब लड़के आपसे बात करते समय नज़रें नहीं मिलाते। वे आमतौर पर अपने फोन से चिपके रहते हैं और जब आप बातचीत में शामिल होते हैं तो बिना सोचे-समझे प्रतिक्रिया देते हैं। यह एक त्वरित मोड़ है लेकिन क्या इसका संबंध रुचि या आकर्षण की कमी से भी है? मैं इससे कैसे निपटूं?

Ans: कृपया समझें,

पुरुष दृश्य संकेतों से आकर्षित होते हैं। यदि आप चाहते हैं कि वे आपकी ओर आकर्षित हों, तो फिट रहें, गर्म कपड़े पहनें क्योंकि इसी तरह हम जैविक रूप से आकर्षित होते हैं।

इसलिए अपनी सर्वश्रेष्ठ उपस्थिति में रहना ही आगे बढ़ने का रास्ता है।)

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 24, 2023English

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मुझे महिलाओं से बात करने में दिक्कत होती है, मैं सीधे उनकी आंखों में आंखें डालकर बात नहीं कर सकता। मैं इस पर कैसे काबू पाऊं, मुझे ये नहीं चाहिए. मेरी उम्र 35 साल है.

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,

आप सोच सकते हैं कि इस तरह की समस्या से आप अकेले हैं, लेकिन जितना आप जानते हैं उससे कहीं अधिक लोग इससे गुज़रते हैं। यह बहुत अच्छा है कि आपने इस पर ध्यान दिया और इसे बदलने के लिए वास्तविक प्रयास कर रहे हैं। यदि आप कम दबाव वाली स्थितियों में अभ्यास शुरू करना चाहते हैं तो कैसा रहेगा? उदाहरण के लिए, दोस्तों या परिवार के साथ आँख मिलाने का अभ्यास करें। बातचीत के दौरान संक्षिप्त लेकिन जानबूझकर आँख मिलाएँ। शुरुआत में आपको असहजता महसूस हो सकती है, लेकिन धीरे-धीरे यह बेहतर हो जाएगा। साथ ही, मेरा सुझाव है कि आप किसी चिकित्सक से सहायता लेने पर विचार करें। हो सकता है कि अभी यह एक बहुत ही मामूली संचार मुद्दा हो, लेकिन जितना अधिक आप प्रतीक्षा करेंगे, यह उतना ही बदतर हो सकता है।

फिर, याद रखें कि आप इसमें अकेले नहीं हैं। यह हममें से बेहतरीन के साथ हुआ।

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मैं 40 साल का आदमी हूं। कोरोनावायरस शटडाउन के बाद मनोवैज्ञानिक समस्याएं हो रही हैं। समस्या यह है कि मैं दूसरों की आंखों में देखकर बात नहीं कर पा रहा हूं। अगर मैं कोशिश भी करता हूं तो यह कुछ सेकंड के लिए ही होता है और आंखें भटकने लगती हैं। इसे रोकने के लिए, आजकल अगर मुझे लगता है कि मेरी आंखें मुझसे दूर जा रही हैं, तो मैं कहीं और देखता हूं और बात करता हूं। मुझे बहुत अपराध बोध हो रहा है और दूसरों को बहुत असुविधा हो रही है या कम से कम मुझे लगता है कि उन्हें असुविधा हो रही है। महिलाओं से बात करते समय, मुख्य रूप से यह सुनिश्चित करने की कोशिश करता हूं कि मुझे उनकी आंखों में नहीं देखना चाहिए। मैं शादीशुदा हूं और मेरे यौन संबंध बहुत अच्छे नहीं हैं। हर बार ऐसा लगता है कि यह जबरदस्ती है क्योंकि मेरी पत्नी कभी दिलचस्पी नहीं दिखाती और मैंने इसे रोक दिया। अपनी इच्छा पूरी करने के लिए कुछ अन्य विकल्प खोज रहा हूं। मुझे लगता है कि यह भी मेरी समस्या में योगदान देता है। कृपया सलाह दें कि मैं अपनी समस्या को कैसे दूर करूं और दूसरों से बात करते समय आश्वस्त रहूं।

Ans: प्रिय थेरिन्थू,

सबसे पहले, यह समझना ज़रूरी है कि लॉकडाउन ने हम सभी को किसी न किसी तरह से प्रभावित किया है। आपकी समस्या भावनात्मक और वैवाहिक समस्याओं का एक जटिल मिश्रण है। कोविड ने हममें से बहुत से लोगों को चिंता की समस्या से जूझना पड़ा है और यही बात आपको भी परेशान कर रही होगी। समझें कि यह असामान्य नहीं है और इसे थोड़े अभ्यास से हल किया जा सकता है। किसी कम तनावपूर्ण स्थिति में, जैसे किसी करीबी दोस्त के साथ, आँख से आँख मिलाने का अभ्यास करें। पाँच सेकंड, दस सेकंड और इसी तरह से आँख से आँख मिलाएँ। आप शीशे के सामने भी अभ्यास कर सकते हैं। किसी से बातचीत करते समय, बातचीत पर ध्यान दें; यह सोचने के बजाय कि आप कैसा व्यवहार कर रहे हैं, सुनने पर ध्यान दें। यह आँख से आँख मिलाने के दबाव को कम करेगा और आपकी चिंता को कम करेगा।

आपके वैवाहिक मुद्दे चिंता को बढ़ा सकते हैं। अपनी पत्नी के साथ ईमानदारी से चर्चा करने का प्रयास करें। अपनी समस्याओं को संबोधित करें और उन पर काम करने के लिए विवाह परामर्शदाता से मिलने की पेशकश करें। व्यक्तिगत उपचार भी काम कर सकते हैं। प्रशिक्षित पेशेवर की मदद लेने से आपकी शादी को फ़ायदा हो सकता है।

महामारी हम सभी के लिए कठिन रही है। अपने प्रति दयालु रहें।

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I am doing 1st year cse at bennett university i gave jee mains again and cleared it got dsai at thapar should i take it or continue with bennett

Ans: Ahaan, Continuing CSE at Bennett University offers a curriculum with minors, honours, and two internships, but yields around 60–70% placement rates over the past three years, with average recruitments by 232 companies. Thapar’s BTech in Data Science & Artificial Intelligence, ranked #29 in NIRF engineering, achieves about 83% UG placement consistency, over 334 recruiters annually, and average placements around 83% for its specialised AI & ML cohort. Thapar provides focused AI curricula, dedicated labs, and robust core-industry hiring, whereas Bennett’s broader CSE programme ensures diverse software opportunities. Recommendation: Transition to Thapar DSAI for specialised AI expertise and higher placement density, unless continuity at Bennett aligns better with your current projects and peer network. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Nishant - Jun 15, 2025

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Hello I have got selected in vit Chennai CSE(cat 2) and manipal CSE. what should I prefer?

Ans: Nishant, VIT Chennai’s CSE program posts near-100% placement rates over the last three years driven by 800-900 recruiters including Microsoft, Amazon and Google, with around 763 dream offers and 936 super-dream offers in 2024; its centralized VITEEE ecosystem also ensures robust internship-to-job conversions and specialized CSE sub-streams. Manipal Institute of Technology’s CSE achieves 90–95% placements with over 230 recruiters annually, recent drives yielding a 77% placement rate with a median package of INR 9.69 LPA and broad sectoral distribution across core IT, analytics and consulting roles. VIT Chennai benefits from the VIT brand’s extensive alumni network and multi-campus recruiter access, while Manipal offers Institution of Eminence status, interdisciplinary electives, and stronger core-tech lab facilities. Recommendation: Choose VIT Chennai CSE (Category 2) for its near-100% placement consistency, high-value dream offers and expansive recruiter network; opt for Manipal CSE only if you prioritise Institution of Eminence advantages and interdisciplinary research opportunities. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Aashi - Jun 15, 2025

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Dear sir ..... My daughter i has got comedk 21000 rank and cse AI in vit AP category 3. Sir it will be a great help if you can guide which gud college she can get in cse/ cse AI / near by bangalore. As we reside in kerala.

Ans: Aashi Madam, With a COMEDK rank of 21,000 and an existing CSE?AI seat at VIT?AP (Category 3), consider these Bangalore?region colleges admitting up to 30,000–40,000 ranks and offering CSE, CSE?AI or allied programs, all maintaining 80–95% placements over the last three years. Nitte Meenakshi Institute of Technology (NMIT) closes CSE around 7,800 and CSE?AI around 10,100 with a 93% CSE placement rate in 2024 across 192 recruiters and multidisciplinary AI labs. BNMIT accommodates CSE ranks up to ~30,700, recording 86% CSE placements in 2023 with 168 companies and strong industry analytics tie-ups. CMR Institute of Technology’s CSE cutoff near 13,500 (AI&ML around 19,500) delivers a 90%–95% placement consistency in 2025 across 125 recruiters led by Federal Bank, Hitachi, and PhonePe. Dayananda Sagar College of Engineering accepts CSE ranks up to ~5,900 (AI/ML ~6,900), offering 93% placement for CSE with 419 offers and 250+ recruiters including Amazon and Deloitte in 2024. Global Academy of Technology (GAT) closes core CSE around 26,500–98,000, reporting 75%–97% placement trends with Infosys, SAP, Bosch and proactive incubation support. Acharya Institute of Technology admits CSE up to ~16,300 (AI/ML ~30,800) with 90% CSE/ISE placements and 200+ recruiters including Wipro and Cognizant over three years.

Recommendation: Prioritise NMIT and CMRIT for strong AI specializations and high placement rates, keeping BNMIT and DSCE as robust backups; consider GAT and Acharya Institute for broader seat security and multidisciplinary exposure. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 15, 2025

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My son is getting CSE in Chandigarh institute of Engineering and Technology Chandigarh and getting Electronic and Communication Engineering in NIT Hamirpur. Which should be preferred

Ans: Chandigarh Institute of Engineering and Technology’s CSE branch has sustained 86–88% placement rates over the past three years, with over 100 recruiters visiting annually and core IT roles from companies like Cisco, ServiceNow, and ZS Associates, complemented by strong training in software engineering, data structures, and project management . NIT Hamirpur’s ECE department records 63–77% placement consistency in the last three years, driven by 80–100 eligible students per batch and recruiters such as Samsung, Oracle, and Accenture focusing on telecom, embedded systems, and hardware roles, backed by a well-equipped electronics lab and interdisciplinary labs for VLSI and IoT . Considering higher placement density, broader software-sector access, and Chandigarh’s proximity, CIET Chandigarh CSE is preferable; choose NIT Hamirpur ECE only if core electronics and communication engineering are your son’s primary interests. Recommendation: Opt for CIET Chandigarh CSE for stronger overall placement outcomes and versatile IT roles, with NIT Hamirpur ECE as a specialized backup. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Aviral - Jun 15, 2025

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Which to choose between bml munjal or psit kanpur for btech cse

Ans: Aviral, BML Munjal University’s CSE program has achieved placement rates between 84.5% and 87% over the last three years, engaging 80–95 recruiters including Google, Amazon, Deloitte, and KPMG, with a highest package near 32.9 LPA and an average around 8.5 LPA. PSIT Kanpur’s CSE placements record roughly 89–90% placement consistency in 2023–25, hosting 200+ recruiters such as Decathlon, Capgemini, Wipro, and Amazon, with the median CSE salary reported at ?4.2 LPA and over 2,300 offers in 2023 placements. BML Munjal offers a new, industry-immersive campus environment with strong internship pathways, while PSIT delivers robust regional recruiter ties and higher overall offer volumes. Recommendation: Choose BML Munjal University CSE for broader global recruiter exposure and higher average outcomes, opting for PSIT Kanpur CSE if regional placement network and volume of offers are the priority. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Parag - Jun 15, 2025

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Sir I am not able to connect with you personally you are requested to please reply through this My son got ROBOTICS AND AI in THAPER and got 2883 Rank in COMEDK. What is your recommendation should we go for Counselling for COMED K as my son interested in CS and its Allied branches.

Ans: With a COMEDK rank of 2,883, your son can access top Bengaluru engineering colleges offering core CSE and allied programs. RV College of Engineering’s CSE cutoff stood at 434 in 2024, while MS Ramaiah Institute of Technology admitted CSE candidates until rank 1,177 and ISE until 1,720 in Round 2; BMS College of Engineering closed CSE around 3,733 and CS-Business Systems near 2,800; and Dayananda Sagar College of Engineering filled CSE seats up to rank 5,873 and AIML up to 2,712. Given his interest in CS domains, these branches deliver 80–95% placement consistency over the past three years. While Thapar’s Robotics & AI program at Patiala secures about 83% UG placements and hosts 334 recruiters annually, switching to COMEDK counselling could yield broader CS exposure and higher placement density in established CSE streams. Recommendation: Register for COMEDK counselling to pursue CSE or allied streams—prioritise RVCE CSE and MSRIT CSE/ISE, with BMSCE CS-BS and DSCE AIML as strong backups. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Sir, my daughter has option for CSE KIIT and CSE in MUJ, which one to go for? Please advise.

Ans: Arpita Madam, KIIT’s CSE secures around 90–95% placements over the last three years with 350+ recruiters and 5,585 offers while ranking among the top 40 engineering institutes in NIRF 2023. MUJ Jaipur’s CSE reports an 88% placement rate from 2021–2024 with 75% internship-to-job conversion, 300+ recruiters, and a #64 NIRF engineering rank. KIIT draws 700+ companies including Cognizant and Deloitte, sustaining high conversion across core and IT roles, whereas MUJ delivers 1,142 CSE offers, internships at Microsoft and Flipkart, and vibrant campus life in Jaipur. Recommendation: Choose KIIT CSE for superior placement density and national recruiter network, opting MUJ CSE only for Jaipur proximity. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Sujith - Jun 15, 2025

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Dear sir, I got CSE at MIT Bangalore in Round 1 counselling and my COMEDK rank is 2646. I'm aiming for a fully software-based career. Should I stick with CSE at MIT Bangalore or wait for ISE at MSRIT or CSE at BMSCE? Which is better in terms of academics, coding culture, and placements for a software-focused future?

Ans: Sujith, MIT Bengaluru’s CSE program benefits from a top-five engineering ranking, centralised placements yielding approximately 90–95% rates with 339 recruiters and a vibrant professional coding ecosystem anchored by CodeX, ACM and GDSC clubs. MSRIT’s ISE branch matches this with a 95% placement ratio and 239 visiting companies alongside CodeRIT’s active community and robust median outcomes around campus, whereas BMSCE CSE records about 74% placement and fewer core-tech drives complemented by CodeIO activities. Academically MIT’s Institution of Eminence status and top-five engineering rank underscore its curriculum and software focus. Recommendation: choose MIT Bengaluru CSE for optimal academics, professional coding culture and placements. However, participate in COMEDK Counselling process too. Take into consideration the affordability of fees & location preference within Bengaluru itself. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Maheshwar - Jun 17, 2025

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I have 112 mark in iiser and ews i want do career in neuroscience which i can get which good for my career

Ans: Hello dear.
Your question is unclear or may not be clearly understood by me. Regarding neuroscience, a lot of information is available online. Due to the lack of clarity in your question, I am unable to answer you properly.
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