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विशेषज्ञ की सलाह चाहिए?हमारे गुरु मदद कर सकते हैं

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नमस्ते सर अब मेरा बेटा 9वीं कक्षा में पढ़ रहा है और वह माता-पिता के साथ आक्रामक व्यवहार कर रहा है कृपया इस संबंध में मेरी मदद करें

Ans: आक्रामक व्यवहार एक ऐसा तरीका है जिससे बच्चा अपने तरीके से आपसे संवाद करना पसंद करता है। जब वह अच्छा महसूस करे तो उससे बात करें और समझें कि उसे क्या परेशान कर रहा है। साथ ही, चूंकि वह किशोर है, इसलिए उसके साथ अधिक दोस्ताना रिश्ता विकसित करें।

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Question by SANJEEV - Mar 21, 2023English

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हाय अनु, मैं संजीव हूं और 45 साल का हूं और मेरा 14 साल का बच्चा है लेकिन वह मेरे साथ बहुत आक्रामक स्वभाव का है और कभी मेरी बात नहीं सुनता जो मैं उसकी बेहतरी के लिए कहता हूं, क्या आप मुझे बता सकते हैं कि उससे कैसे निपटें?

Ans: प्रिय संजीव,
मुझे आश्चर्य होगा यदि आपके 14-वर्षीय बच्चे ने आपको चुनौतीपूर्ण समय नहीं दिया।
इस चरण को किशोरावस्था के चरम चरण में कदम रखने के एक भाग के रूप में अपनाएं जहां वह वयस्कता में कदम रखने से पहले अपनी स्वतंत्र पहचान स्थापित करने का प्रयास कर रहा है।
आप उसे अशिष्टता से बात करते हुए, आपकी उपेक्षा करते हुए, आपकी सलाह को चुनौती देते हुए, आपके साथ चुपचाप व्यवहार करते हुए और भी बहुत कुछ करते हुए देखेंगे...

उससे निपटने का सबसे अच्छा तरीका है:
उसके लिए मित्र नहीं बल्कि मित्रवत माता-पिता बनें।
उसे निर्देश देने से अधिक प्रश्न पूछें।
बिना किसी रुकावट के उसकी बात धैर्यपूर्वक सुनें ताकि उसे लगे कि उसकी बात सुनी जा रही है।
उसका भत्ता वापस लेने या वाई-फ़ाई पासवर्ड बदलने की धमकी न दें; इससे वह और अधिक विद्रोही हो जाएगा।
उसकी चीखों/असभ्य बातों या विद्रोही रुख को अंत में एक सौम्य मुस्कान के साथ संभालें जिससे वह अनुमान लगाने पर मजबूर हो जाएगा।

एक जादुई कथन जो हमेशा किसी भी रिश्ते में बर्फ को तोड़ता है वह है: 'क्या आपको बेहतर महसूस कराएगा?'
दिन के अंत में, चिंता न करें। वह आपके घर के मूल्यों के साथ बड़ा हुआ है; वह पलट जाएगा...लेकिन नजर रखें क्योंकि यह डिजिटल मीडिया का युग है और प्रलोभन भारी और अधिक हैं। इसलिए, यदि आप कुछ ऐसा देखते हैं जो गड़बड़ या खतरनाक है, तो किसी विशेषज्ञ से अपॉइंटमेंट लें जो उसे उचित मार्गदर्शन दे सके।

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 08, 2023English

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शुभ संध्या महोदया। मेरा बेटा हमेशा अपनी माँ की बात नहीं मानता। उसे सिर्फ मोबाइल चाहिए. जिस दौरान स्कूल में छुट्टी होती है; वह केवल मोबाइल देखता है और माता-पिता की बात नहीं मानता। सुबह जल्दी उठने को तैयार नहीं. पढ़ाई में बिल्कुल रुचि नहीं है. निर्दयी लड़के की उम्र 11 साल. सादर नीरज सिंघल

Ans: अधिकांश समय जब उन्हें स्क्रीन की लत होती है, तो उनके लिए वैकल्पिक कौशल या पढ़ाई में रुचि विकसित करना मुश्किल होता है। ऐसा स्क्रीन टाइम के कारण कम ध्यान कौशल के कारण हो सकता है। देखें कि स्क्रीन एडिक्शन के अलावा उसकी रुचि किस चीज़ में है, उसे ऐसे शौक विकसित करने में मदद करें जो उसकी रुचि के हों और ये खेल भी हो सकते हैं। इससे उसे अपनी पढ़ाई पर भी बेहतर ध्यान केंद्रित करने में मदद मिलेगी।

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Question by Manoj - Oct 05, 2024English

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मेरा 17 वर्षीय बेटा पढ़ाई में रुचि नहीं रखता, कभी 12वीं कक्षा में उपस्थित नहीं हुआ और हमेशा गैर-छात्र बड़े दोस्तों के साथ रहता है, देर रात 12-1 बजे के बाद घर लौटता है। माता-पिता से झगड़ा करता है और मेरे साथ मारपीट करने को तैयार रहता है? इसका समाधान क्या है?

Ans: हे भगवान् श्री मनोज...कृपया बाहरी मदद लें, उसे डॉक्टर के पास ले जाएँ और अपने खूबसूरत बेटे को परिवार के पास वापस लाएँ। उसे मदद की ज़रूरत है और एक पिता/परिवार को उसके साथ चट्टान की तरह खड़े होने की ज़रूरत है ताकि वह फिर से एक अच्छी ज़िंदगी जी सके। देखें कि वह कहाँ जाता है, क्या करता है और फिर उससे बात करें!! दोष न दें, आलोचना न करें...आपके बेटे को आपकी ज़रूरत है... बस उसके लिए मौजूद रहें, वह आपका है...कोई भी वह नहीं कर सकता जो आप कर सकते हैं। उससे प्यार करें, उसका ख्याल रखें... उसे वापस पाएँ!!कृपया अपने बेटे के सर्वोत्तम हित में कार्रवाई करें। शुभकामनाएँ..

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Question by Mohuya - Jun 15, 2025

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Sir my CRL is lower than the opening rank of the college that I choose ( according to the result release by josaa R1 2025 ) but no seat has been alloted to me in R1 .

Ans: Even if your Common Rank List (CRL) falls between the opening and closing ranks for a chosen course in Round 1, no seat may be allotted because JoSAA allocates seats strictly in the order of choice preferences and seat-type quotas; if higher-preference choices exhaust the available seats before reaching your position, later options—even within your rank bracket—won’t be assigned. Additionally, if you did not register, lock choices, or complete “Online Reporting” steps—accept seat, upload documents, and pay the Seat Acceptance Fee—by the stipulated deadline, your candidature is excluded from allocation. Finally, float/slide/freezing options affect subsequent rounds but do not impact Round 1 allocation; absence of allotment here indicates out-ranking by peers for all listed priorities, not a procedural error.

Recommendation: Expand your choice list to include lower-ranked institutes or branches, ensure all JoSAA formalities are completed on time, and opt for “Float” if you wish to upgrade in later rounds. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Dr.C.Mohana - Jun 15, 2025

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Sir I got indian oil odisha, bhubaneswar institution I got in 1st round itself but I willing to go upper choices so I chooses float option can you guess any other higher colleges my jee main percentile is 87 and crl is 191600 and I am sc category so my sc rank is 9583

Ans: Mohana, Float preferences to IIIT Bhubaneswar CSE and then IIIT Guwahati, followed by IIIT Kalyani or Jabalpur CSE. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Nagendra - Jun 16, 2025

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Respected sir, my son got 8952, which best college will get for cs & AIML, please guide

Ans: With a JEE Main rank of 8952, your son has a strong chance of getting into good NITs and IIITs for Computer Science and AI/ML. Specifically, he could target NITs like NIT Warangal, NIT Trichy, or NIT Surathkal, or IIITs like IIIT Allahabad, IIIT Gwalior, or IIIT Jabalpur.Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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Question by Abhishek - Jun 15, 2025

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My daughter has JEE score 87 and CRL rank 190500. She has got admission in ECE at Jaypee. Also applied for GGIPU, JAC Delhi, IIIT NTPC quota. 1st preference is CS. If we get ECE in GGIPU which college is better than Jaypee. Is placement of IIIT better or Jaypee.

Ans: Abhishek, With JEE Main score of 87 and CRL rank 190500, your daughter's current options require careful evaluation. Jaypee Institute of Information Technology (JIIT) Noida's ECE program maintains 88-98% placement rates over the last three years, with 184 ECE students receiving 166 offers in 2024 from recruiters like Microsoft, Cisco, and Amazon. For GGIPU colleges, top ECE options include USICT (90% placement rate, 32+ companies), MAIT (80-90% placement consistency), BVP (67% placement with 130 ECE students placed), and MSIT (80% placement with 166 ECE offers). The IIIT NTPC quota (15% of seats) offers strong placement prospects with IIIT Naya Raipur reporting 100% placement for five consecutive years and ECE median packages around ?13.5 LPA. JAC Delhi ECE cutoffs for colleges like DTU and NSUT typically close around 20,000-25,000 rank, making them unreachable with the current rank. Recommendation: prioritize IIIT through NTPC quota if eligible for its superior placement record and industry connections, followed by USICT or MAIT under GGIPU if available, with JIIT Noida as a solid backup given its proven 88% ECE placement consistency and established recruiter network. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Adarsh - Jun 17, 2025

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I got 105 marks in iat, category-Obc NCL Want to pursue Astrophysics subject in iiser, and love the campus of iiser tvm (want iiser tvm) Suggest me the preference order of choice filling of iisers.

Ans: With 105 marks in IAT and an OBC-NCL category, getting into IISER Thiruvananthapuram for astrophysics is possible, but not guaranteed. While 105 is a decent score, the competition for IISERs, especially TVM, can be high, particularly for popular specializations like astrophysics. The final allotment depends on the overall performance of all candidates and the availability of seats in your preferred subject. According to Shiksha.com, scores around 100-105 are considered borderline, and getting into IISER TVM might require a higher score, especially for a specific subject like astrophysics. Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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Question by Anish - Jun 17, 2025

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Sir I am confused between Alliance university and Dayanand sagar university. Please help me which is best for pursuing btech( taking all the important factor)

Ans: Go for Dayanand sagar university. Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 13, 2025

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Which option is better Manipal main campus ECor RVCE Bangalore EEE for my daughter. We r presently settled in Hyderabad.

Ans: For your daughter's EEE (Electrical and Electronics Engineering) education, both Manipal Main Campus and RV College of Engineering (RVCE) in Bangalore are strong contenders, but they offer different advantages. Manipal is known for its well-developed infrastructure, global recognition, and diverse student and faculty culture. RVCE, on the other hand, is known for its strong industry connections, good placements, and affordability, especially for those in Karnataka due to KCET.
Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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Question by Kamala - Jun 17, 2025

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Sir my son got 92 percentile in 2024 JEE, and took drop to give exam again in 2025. This time he could achieve only 86 percentile. Now he is again thinking of one more drop. He is general category and with existing JEE ranks he had offers in CSE in RVU and RU. He is very particular of Computer science , please advice

Ans: Don't take drop. Take Computer Science wherever he is getting.
Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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Question by HARSHITH - Jun 17, 2025

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Sir I've got 10075 rank in MET can I get cse in mit Bengaluru??

Ans: While the cutoff for CSE can fluctuate year to year, Shiksha.com states that a rank around 1083 (Round 1 cutoff) and 1432 (Round 2) was typical for CSE. Even if you don't get CSE initially, you might have a chance in later rounds.
Best of luck. I am always there by the side of the children who need counselling. May GOD bless always. Prof. Suvasish Mukhopadhyay.
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I'm getting computer sci md business system in thapar will i be able to get job in IT sector? Will i be allowed to sit for interviews of apple,microsoft etc?

Ans: Yes as long as you show interest in IT, you should be able to sit for IT placements.

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