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Shalini Singh  |149 Answers  |Ask -

Dating Coach - Answered on Oct 07, 2024

Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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What to do if someone after 10 years of relationship let you alon and your still begging to him

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Hello, I m 21 female I m in a long distance relationship with 32 year male.this person was behind me and always asked me to give him a chance to prove his love for me. At that period i was afaird of relationships as I didn't have courage to go against wish of my parents as i know they wolud never agree for love marriage,so that is fir sure i'll do arrange Marriage. All these things have been explained by my side to this person.He gad feelings for me thats what he showed to me even I felt a connection towards him, so we decided let's not commit anything anout marraige as we both wee not sure about these thing. After some time i realised these person has already made his mind ki he'll date me and he wanted to have everything that an relationship has but he will not marry me.But i m completely in love with.Even i told him about it ki I can't share him n won't be able to see him.with someone else.i just can't imagine myself without him. I fought with him even begged and cried but he always defend his self sayi g i told already ki he loves me and will keep loving me but will not marry me . He vists me after 6-9 months interval every time he visuts me he needs to have physical relationship. I don't know whether I m right or wrong but i feel like I m being used by him. I tried several time to end this relationship but i end up chasing him.Plz help me,guide me
Ans: Dear Rutuja,
If you have the slightest feeling that he doesn't share the same feelings for you as you do for him, or that he has wrong intentions, you have every right to end the relationship. In fact, that would be the right thing to do. I understand that it is difficult to break up with someone you love, but does he love you? Don't you think you deserve someone who loves you and does not make you feel as if you are being used?

Have a clear conversation with him- address all your concerns. If he still maintains his stand of not getting married to you, then let him know that you are not on the same page as him. Remember, for a relationship to work, your future goals need to align.

Best Wishes.

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Hello Dr., My wife aged 40 years have anemic problem continuously from past 2 years during this period she diagnosed with 2 times blood transfusion about 2 units 1st time and 3 units 2nd time and three times with iron drips. I have done all the tests but nothing comes out. about 5 doctors changes but nobody finds the reason of down Hb. Please suggest I am worried about her, her weight also loss now she is very week.
Ans: 40-year-old woman with anemia who has had multiple blood transfusions, is taking iron supplements, and has undergone tests with normal results, may have an underlying medical condition causing her anemia. The weight loss observed could be related to the anemia itself, or it could be a separate issue unrelated to the anemia. Further investigation to identify the cause of the persistent anemia and the weight loss is needed.
Possible reasons for persistent anemia:
Iron Absorption Issues:
Despite taking iron supplements, the woman may not be able to absorb iron properly due to conditions like celiac disease, inflammatory bowel disease, or prior surgery.
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A hidden source of bleeding, such as a polyp, ulcer, or other gastrointestinal issue, could be causing the blood loss that needs to be addressed.
Chronic Disease:
Anemia of chronic disease can occur due to conditions like kidney disease, heart failure, or inflammatory conditions, and the treatment focuses on managing the underlying disease.
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Conditions like aplastic anemia (where the bone marrow doesn't produce enough red blood cells) or hemolytic anemia (where red blood cells are destroyed prematurely) may also need different approaches.
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The iron supplement being taken may not be the most effective type, or the dosage may be too low, preventing the anemia from being fully resolved.
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The woman's weight loss may be related to an underlying medical condition not related to the anemia, such as hyperthyroidism, cancer, or an eating disorder.
Iron Supplement Side Effects:
Some iron supplements can cause digestive issues like constipation or stomach cramps, potentially leading to changes in appetite and weight.

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