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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 28, 2024Hindi
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Since from last two months, I'm talking with a guy, whom I met on dating app. We haven't met in real yet. We both are different and because of our differences we often ended up doing arguments. And sometimes, we do hurt each other. Am confused whether arguing with each other is okay. Since from starting we knew we are opposite, still he kept on holding. I do wonder what if things materialise between us, how will I deal with all those arguments?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Virtual world communication via text messages and video calls can at time cause misunderstandings through misinterpretations of the communication going back and forth. This is not uncommon. But this need not become a basis to decide if the two of you are meant for one another; instead make a suggestion to meet.
Things maybe very different...Take a call on whether this association will work in the future only after you have a real physical world meeting. Makes sense, yeah?

All the best!
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