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Dating Coach - Answered on Apr 15, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 15, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Am a female age 27 with stable job met a guy through online platform age 37,he is always trying to control me and humiliating me always but sometimes he is very caring but he is not interested to talk about future planning. Now I dont know whether to move forward with this relationship or should I leave it very much confused.?

Ans: There is so much going on in what you have written...you say he is caring but you have also written he is controlling, humiliating. Now for a minute keep yourself out of this situation and assume that you friend comes to you saying, I like this man who is caring but humiliates me. I think most likely your response to your friend would be requesting her to rethink of what she is entering into, because those who care do not humiliate.

Based on what you have shared that you wish to have a conversation around long term and he does not shows misalignment on expectations.

You are an adult, professionally qualified and know what sort of a relationship you want - if what you have works for then you have it, but if it does not then take a pause and have a rethink. It is possible when you take a pause, the possible partner will also get time to reflect - if it works for both you get back or else search for someone who you can be compatible with.

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 07, 2024Hindi

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Mam i am a 52 year ols women i have never had a secure relationship only who wanted to have s.Marriage in proposals too dint work for me. At late 40 age i met a guy it was all good till start 1 year but since 3 years we just fight my fault to as i have no family no friends and all i have to look after 2 aged parents and i am deep involved my life is just that. This relationship is good to talk on phone as all i do is talk my problems 24 by 7 365 days which i understands upsets him. But i see no effort too from him for meeting planning dates and if i do i pay for it all he never pays . I lost interest felt disappointed after going on saying he never tries to make plans talk future his family finance. I am not sure what i should do stay or live my life alone which i was always doing.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Start fresh and if you had a clean slate, what would you want to draw on it?
All your miseries or what you actually want from life?
When you meet someone new and you dump your set of issues on them, how exactly do you think they are going to be interested in taking you out on a date?
Your prospective life partner is not a dumping yard for your life's problems BUT a person that is going to marry you and support you and who you can trust. And will you start this relationship by actually talking only about your problems? Honestly, you need to ask yourself if you will be interested in a guy who keeps ranting about all things going wrong...
Establish a connection by being on a positive ground and showing the other person that you care and also are interested in knowing about them. This interest will let them lower their guard down and actually connect with you at an emotional level and then you can pursue this as a potential life partner association...somewhere down the line, they will be genuinely interested in being a part of your challenges and that's when you make them your strength to solve these challenges. Am I making sense to you?
Do you see how you have been sabotaging your own future? Dust yourself, become genuinely interested in people not to dump your problems on them but to make a genuine connection and watch how things change for you. Prioritize your life not your problems!

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 24, 2024Hindi

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I am studying CSE ist year. I want certificate course in AI/ machine language. Suggest some on line courses regarding this.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 17, 2024Hindi

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Namashkar.... My company (a reputed MNC) has moved all employee Provident Fund accounts from government to private (trust). I would like to know if this is safe especially in scenario where mergers and acquisitions happen. This is causing anxiety since PF is the main source of savings for retired life.

Ans: Hello;

If it is exempted pf trust(approved by EPFO and authorised by ITax Deptt.) then it is safe and much better for the employees in terms of cost and hence returns.

In the eventuality of merger or acquisition the pf accounts held by the exempted trust may be migrated to epfo seamlessly as per process.

Most big companies in India have exempted pf trusts.

But ensure to keep a record of your contributions, account details and returns you receive also the rating given to your pf trust by EPFO from time to time.

No need to worry.

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