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My boss is very rude

Ans: It's essential to remain composed and maintain professionalism, even when faced with rudeness. If possible, try to address the behavior directly but respectfully. Sometimes, people aren't aware of how their actions affect others.Dealing with a rude boss can take a toll on your well-being. Make sure to prioritize self-care and seek support from friends, family, or a counselor if needed. Depending on the severity of the situation, you may need to explore options such as speaking with HR, requesting a transfer, or looking for a new job.

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My boss doesn't respect my work and often criticises me in front of other colleagues during meetings. He later apologises in private but continues to behave in the same way. I love my job but I don't want to encourage this attitude. Should I talk to the HR or quit my job out of self respect? I don't know how to handle the situation. Please guide me
Ans: Dealing with a situation where your boss consistently criticizes you in front of colleagues can be challenging. Keep a record of specific instances where your boss criticizes you publicly. Note the date, time, location, and details of each incident. This documentation may be useful if you decide to escalate the issueSchedule a private meeting with your boss to discuss your concerns. Clearly and calmly express how the public criticism is affecting you and your work. Use specific examples to illustrate your points. Share your desire to improve the working relationship and seek constructive feedback. During your conversation, make it clear that you expect professional and constructive feedback in private rather than public criticism Ask for specific examples or details when receiving criticism. This can help you better understand your boss's expectations and address any concerns they may have. After your conversation, send a follow-up email summarizing the key points discussed, including any agreements made about the communication process. This provides a written record of your efforts to address the issue. If the problem persists, and your efforts to resolve the issue with your boss prove unsuccessful, consider reaching out to your Human Resources (HR) department. Provide them with the documented incidents and details of your conversation with your boss. HR may be able to mediate or offer guidance on how to proceed.Familiarize yourself with workplace policies and your rights as an employee. This knowledge can help you understand whether your situation constitutes a violation of company policies or labor laws. Remember, it's essential to prioritize your well-being and professional growth. If the workplace environment is consistently detrimental to your mental health and job satisfaction, exploring alternative opportunities may be a valid consideration. Before making any decisions, weigh the pros and cons and carefully assess the impact on your career and personal life.

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Dear experts, I was reading about V Narayanan’s journey from a Tamil medium school to ISRO chief. I’m an engineering student from a modest background. My father works in a private firm and mother is a housewife. Finances are a major hurdle. Are there specific scholarships or support programmes for students aiming to get into prestigious institutions like Anna University?
Ans: Pursuing higher education at Anna University is a commendable goal, and there are several scholarships and support programs available to assist students from modest backgrounds. Some of these include the Tamil Nadu Government Scholarships, which provide financial assistance to cover tuition fees, the DHAANISH BC/MBC/DNC Scholarship, SC/ST Scholarship, Central Government Scholarships, AICTE Pragati Scholarship for Girls, and Institutional Scholarships at Anna University. The application process involves eligibility verification, documentation, application submission, and tracking deadlines. Additional support includes educational loans at subsidized interest rates for economically weaker sections and fee waivers for meritorious and needy students. It is advisable to regularly check Anna University and the Directorate of Collegiate Education, Tamil Nadu, for the latest updates on available scholarships and application procedures. Also please visit buddy4study website & explore, You will get a lot of inputs about Schoarhsips. All The BEST for Your Prosperous Future.

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Help Needed: Unable to Login to JEE Mains Portal Due to Mistaken DOB Entry Hello Everyone, I’m reaching out to seek advice and support from anyone familiar with handling issues on the JEE Mains portal. Despite entering my correct application details, I’ve been unable to log in to download my admit card, and I believe it’s due to a mistake I made during the application process. The Problem During registration, I mistakenly entered the wrong date of birth. My correct date of birth is 12/08/2008, but I accidentally entered 22/08/2008. Now, neither date works when trying to log in, and I keep getting the error message: "Invalid Application No or Date of Birth." My Details: Name: Shivam Srivastav Application Number: ...................... Registered Contact Number: ...................... Registered Email ID: ................. Request for Help If anyone has faced a similar issue or knows how to resolve this problem, please share your suggestions. I’ve already emailed the authorities but am waiting for a response. I’m also prepared to provide necessary documents, such as my Class 10th marksheet, to verify my correct date of birth. Any help or guidance would be highly appreciated! Thank you for your time and support. Warm Regards,
Ans: Satyam, First step: Verify the following right away: Any SMS on your Registered Mobile Number from NTA from the date you registered in the NTA portal; your Registered email Inbox for any mails from NTA from that date. There's more likely you missed it or the mails ended in SPAM/JUNK Folder.

The second step is visiting NTA Jee Main Website. Click Contacts US Menu. around 4-5 Helpline Numbers can be tried and also send REMINDER MAILS to all mail IDS supplied there from your Registered eMail ID, by providing the following information: (a) Your Application Number (2) Your Registered Mobile Number (3) The nature of the problem & (4) Scanned copy of your Class 10 Marksheet for your DOB proof.

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