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Pursottam Question by Pursottam on Mar 18, 2025Hindi
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My mother and my sister are totally conflicting with my girl best friend. i dont have any problem and i am going to introduce her as a friend. can it make things in my favour.

Ans: Dear Pursottam,
Are you are the same person who is in love with the girl who is behind the curtains? If yes, how and when did this girl become your girlfriend? Opening (drawing) the curtains can also mean that she's letting the sunlight in. You don't even know if this girl is interested in you and you are already thinking of what your mother and sister will say!

All the best!
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Dear Love Guru, I’m in my early twenties. I’ve had some nice relationships over the years that had their own timespan. But this girl I am seeing now is something else. We’ve been seeing each other for over a year and it’s the longest I’ve been in a relationship. She’s really special. She is crazy, unconventional, smart. People think she is rude; I think she says it as it is. She’s not a great believer in family relationships. In my family, that is very important. We are not talking marriage or anything like that, we are too young for that. But I want to introduce her to my family. And I want to be introduced to hers. I want each other to part of family events. She’s not in favour of the idea. What do you think? And what if we go ahead and she really brushes my family the wrong way -- ie they misunderstand her? What if her family thinks I am not the right guy? Aarav
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Dear Aarav,

Your girlfriend may well be a good match for you and I’m happy you’re so taken with her, but I do think there are a few red flags here that you shouldn’t be so quick to dismiss.

First off -- whatever must be said to someone can be said nicely. There’s no need to rub people the wrong way with what you have to say.

Telling it like it is may be one thing but if most folks find her rude, then yes, she probably is rude.

It’s not nice to hurt someone’s feelings. You can be smart and unconventional and still polite.

Second, about the family angle. Maybe she doesn’t want to get overfamiliar with your relatives before things are official between the two of you.

You said yourself that you’re too young for marriage, and she probably doesn’t want pressure from all quarters, which can well be the norm in our society.

But why doesn’t she believe in family relationships?

If you’re more a family-oriented person and she’s more a loner who prefers things remaining between the two of you, that is another potential problem in future.

Work this out with her and do it sooner rather than later.

As the sheen wears off new romances, the seemingly smaller issues can take on magnified proportions.

 

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 28, 2023

Asked by Anonymous - Feb 18, 2023Hindi
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Hello Anu, I hope you are doing well. I am going through a very strange problem in my life. Anu, I am 39 years old male and unmarried. I lost my father in Jan 2021 and currently live with my mother. Since I was always skeptical about marriage, I never married till this age and this got my parents worried. However, after my dad passed away and upon a constant pressure from my mother as well, I realized I should give up my stubbornness and should get married and settle down in life. I am a proud straight guy but surprisingly I never had the courage to talk to girl and make a girlfriend as well. Infact, I never ever had a physical relation as well with any female so far in my life. Because of these things, I refrained from getting married. In April 2022, a girl from jeevansathi (Miss J) approached me and we had a family meeting. In those days, I was in discussion with one more girl(Miss H). But this girl from jeevansathi really caught my eye. When I had a discussion with my mother as to which one to finally go for, Miss J or Miss H, she insisted on Miss H as she was working and wanted to work after marriage as well. Miss H, who I met earlier was more career-oriented, practical towards life and wanted to work after marriage as well. Miss J, on the other hand was pursuing a course in astrology, was more conservative, and was in fact physically also more appealing than Miss H. Miss J only had 2 conditions, she wanted no pressure in terms of asking her to work after marriage and wanted to have a low-budget marriage in a temple. I agreed to these. My Mom said that since Miss H is working and will bring in money, you should keep her as your first preference. We met Miss H in March 2022. However, we were yet to hear from them in terms of proceeding further with the matrimony. This is where it all went wrong. Miss J's parents approached us very soon after the family meeting and wanted to come to our home. But since we had Miss H as our first preference, we made an excuse that we need some time to think and decide. But believe me Anu, I gradually developed a special liking for Miss J as our tastes and habits matched quite a lot and her physical appearance also appealed to me. Since we were not hearing from Miss H, my mother called her family and asked when they would like to visit us, but they told that Miss H thinks that your boy needs a homemaker which will not suite her. We then discussed to finally approach Miss J, inspite of her asking for becoming a homemaker, as I got interested in her. On 24 April 2022, my mother called Miss J and asked her family to visit our home. She told that she would convey this message to her mother. But till evening, we did not received any call back. We tried back her number but it was not connecting. I suspected she blocked us. Curiously, I also checked her jeevansathi ID, and shockingly, she blocked my ID as well. Since I was deeply interested in marrying her, I went to meet her brother in his office but I didn't told him that his sister has blocked my Jeevansathi ID and phone number. He talked very humbly to me and told him that I agree to all the conditions and would like to go ahead. He said that he will discuss the same when he will go home today. In evening, I got the message that they will connect with us after June 2022 once her exams get over. It sounded strange to me as a family meeting can still happen as exams are still good 2 months away. But I acknowledged his response positively, wished Miss J all the best in preparation and started waiting patiently for the 2 months to get over. These developments happened on 27th april 2022. 28th april 2022 passed nicely. Now, the bomb explodes. On 29th April 2022, Miss J called my mom and started talking very furiously and rudely, complaining about my visit to his brother despite of her blocking us and also told my mom that we are liars and we are actually looking for a working girl. The whole episode came to a very bitter and abrupt end and I was really shocked with her behavior. I then tried contacting her brother too but he didn't replied. But I did send a whatsapp message making him aware about his sister's unruly behaviour towards my mom. But no response was received. But Anu, It's been 9 months and I can't really forget her. I checked her jeevansathi account but it is now coming as deleted from the site, which most probably means that she must have got married by now. Anu, you will not believe, I surrendered myself completely to her both mentally and physically (it is hard for a male to surrender physically to one women Anu) and vowed that she will be the first and the last women of my life. I believe I loved her soul more than her body and she could have been the perfect life partner for me. This was the first time Anu, you will not believe, I developed a very positive attitude towards the institution of marriage and wanted to really give everything into the relationship for a prosperous life ahead. Anu, I feel pretty depressed with this foolish act of mine and my mother of not inviting her parents else the story could have been very different. I am just finding it hard to live with this lifelong regret of not marrying her. Also, since I am 39 now, I am hardly getting any offers for marriage and whatever girls I have met after Miss J, are genuinely no where near her. My mom loves me a lot and can't see me in this situation. Although I am trying hard to live with this regret, somewhere I still feel very much attached with Miss J. Anu, sometimes, I cry silently and pray to Krishna and Radhey maa to help me live atleast till my mother is alive. Anu, this regret is gradually deteriorating me and I am now deciding to remain single through out my life. I feel even if I marry someone, It will be my body which will marry but my soul will not. That's why I don't want to destroy someone's else life as I have no right to do so. Awaiting your valuable thoughts. Hare Krishna !!
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Let's split the issue at hand here distinctively into two areas.
1. Confusion as to what you want in a partner in marriage
2. Misplaced emotions stemming from a decision not made by you

First, make sure you know what you are looking for in a partner. Your post/email suggests to me that you haven't been able to figure out Miss J and Miss H, working or not-working...Both the ladies has mentioned this to you separately which means they have spotted the confusion as well.

This is bound to push a woman away as she would want her life partner to be sure of what he wants in a marriage. Being on a marriage portal, make sure your profile reflects what you want and that is indeed what you want. You cannot go back and confuse yourself and the person who shows interest in you.
So, first take time off to go back to the drawing board and list down what you want in your life partner.
Next, in arranged marriages, the families involvement is going to be heavier right from the first go. So make sure that the core value systems of both families are similar before choosing to proceed with an alliance. Social media matches are not the truth; there is no fairy tale stories of 'happily ever after'. So clarity first and if you need to rework the profile on the matrimonial site, then please do so.

Now, how on earth did you place so much on time and emotion on a woman that you possibly met once? Did she promise to marry you? Isn't it your own doing of actually letting your heart loose and having feelings for someone who under no circumstances made any commitment to you? So, now letting yourself believe that it's not possible to find anyone else, is something that you are fooling yourself with. Pick yourself up NOW. There's a world out there and am sure there's someone out there for you as well.

Pursue this time with clarity and with that you will understand when the matters of the heart can come to knock. So, you are not destroying anyone else's life but you are certainly destroying your peace of mind over this. Time to dust it off...

All the best!

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Arrange marriage:Last week I visited the girl's home for the first time with my family. She spoke with me in a friendly manner, but she mentioned twice that it's difficult to understand someone in the first meeting. Three days later, they informed the middleman that they like me, and my father will communicate our decision to them. They will plan to visit my home in two weeks, after which the marriage will be fixed. In the meantime, should I send her a friend request and ask to meet at a coffee shop, or should I wait to talk to her until after the marriage is fixed in two weeks?
Ans: If you feel comfortable and the environment is open enough, sending a friend request could be a way to gently open up a line of communication without overstepping any boundaries. It allows her to accept at her own pace. After the friend request, you could start with light, respectful conversation to get to know her better, keeping it casual and non-intrusive. Asking to meet at a coffee shop is a good idea, but only if she seems comfortable engaging in that kind of interaction before things are officially finalized.

It’s essential to be patient and read the situation carefully. If you sense that she might prefer waiting for the official approval of the families, it might be wise to hold off on asking for a meetup until after the marriage is fixed. This would allow both families to feel more at ease and give you two more space to connect after the formalities.

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Hi Sir, I am 32 years old, married and have a 4 month old daughter. I am working in a defense based private company. I earn 53K in hand. My monthly expenses come to around 20K. I have just started investing in mutual funds and doing a SIP of Rs.8000 per month. I have invested around 1.5 lakhs across multiple funds by now. I also have around 1.2lakhs in my EPFO account. I have saved 20K per month for my daughter for the past year which totals around 2 lakhs right now which I want to invest in her name for the long term. Besides these, I do not own any assets or have any liabilities as of now. Please suggest where to invest the amount I have saved for my daughter for best returns. And also please suggest how to plan for my retirement considering similar monthly expenditure with addition of daughters education and marriage.
Ans: You are in a very important phase of life. At 32, with a young child and a steady income, you have made a solid beginning. Your habit of saving and investing early will give you a big edge. Your family is depending on you, and your discipline will secure their future.

Let’s look at everything in a structured and simple way.

? Understanding Your Current Financial Situation

– Your income is Rs.53000 in hand.
– You spend Rs.20000 monthly.
– You save and invest the rest, which is very good.
– You already do SIP of Rs.8000 per month.
– You have Rs.1.5 lakhs in mutual funds.
– You have Rs.1.2 lakhs in EPFO.
– You have Rs.2 lakhs saved for your daughter.
– You have no loans.
– You have no assets like house or gold.

This is a healthy start. You are already spending only 40% of your income. That gives room to build wealth. Now, let us look at what to do next.

? Investing Your Daughter’s Rs.2 Lakhs: Long-Term View

This is for your daughter’s future. Likely uses could be higher education or marriage. Both are long-term goals.

– She is only 4 months now.
– You have 15 to 20 years time.
– This gives scope for growth-based investing.

Here’s what you can do:

– Invest this Rs.2 lakhs in 2 or 3 equity mutual funds.
– Choose actively managed funds for better long-term returns.
– Avoid index funds. They only copy the market and don’t beat inflation.
– Actively managed funds have expert fund managers.
– They adjust based on market opportunities.
– Over 15 years, they usually outperform index funds.

Also,

– Use Regular Plans through a CFP-backed Mutual Fund Distributor.
– Avoid Direct Plans unless you can manage and review investments on your own.
– Direct plans don’t provide support, review, or portfolio balancing.
– Regular Plans through a Certified Financial Planner help you stay disciplined.
– A qualified planner monitors the market and guides rebalancing.
– You avoid costly emotional mistakes.

Strategy for daughter’s funds:

– Divide Rs.2 lakhs across 2 or 3 good equity mutual funds.
– Stay invested for 15 years minimum.
– Do not withdraw in between.
– Review yearly with help of Certified Financial Planner.
– This can grow into a good education or marriage corpus.

Also, since you are already saving Rs.20000 every month for her, keep it up.
Even Rs.5000 or Rs.10000 monthly in SIP for her will make a big difference over time.

? Planning Your Retirement: Long-Term but Needs Focus

Retirement planning should start now. You have time, but the earlier, the better.

– You are 32 now.
– You can aim to retire at 60.
– That gives you 28 years to save.
– But inflation reduces the value of money.
– So Rs.20000 expenses today will grow a lot by retirement.

You need to plan for:

– Your own expenses after retirement
– Your wife’s needs
– Medical costs in old age
– Travel and emergencies
– No income after retirement

What you should do:

– Increase your SIP gradually as income rises.
– Right now, you invest Rs.8000 in mutual funds.
– Increase it by Rs.1000 every year.
– Also start a new SIP only for retirement.
– Separate from daughter’s goal.

Why equity mutual funds help:

– Equity mutual funds beat inflation over long term.
– They build wealth over 20+ years.
– Don’t choose debt mutual funds for retirement goals.
– Debt funds give stable returns but low growth.
– They are good for short-term goals.

Continue EPFO contribution:

– EPFO is a good long-term tool.
– It gives safe and tax-free corpus at retirement.
– Don’t withdraw EPF for other uses.
– Let it grow till retirement.

? Tracking Your Monthly Budget and Investing Discipline

Your expenses are only Rs.20000.
You save nearly Rs.30000 each month.
This gives you enough to grow wealth for all goals.

– Continue SIP of Rs.8000 or increase it.
– Start SIP of Rs.5000 for daughter.
– Start SIP of Rs.5000 for retirement.
– Keep Rs.5000 to Rs.7000 for emergency savings.
– Maintain Rs.1 lakh as emergency fund.
– Park it in liquid fund or FD for easy access.

This way:

– You cover child’s needs.
– You build retirement wealth.
– You stay ready for emergencies.

? Life Insurance and Health Insurance: Non-Investment but Vital

These are not investments. But they are must-haves.
They protect your family and finances from sudden shocks.

– Buy a term insurance of Rs.50 lakhs to Rs.1 crore.
– Choose only pure term insurance.
– Do not take ULIPs or endowment policies.
– They give low returns and high costs.
– If you already have such products, you may consider surrendering.
– Reinvest that amount in mutual funds.

– Also buy family floater health insurance.
– You, your wife and daughter should be covered.
– Minimum Rs.5 lakhs coverage.
– Health costs rise every year.

? Education and Marriage Planning for Daughter

These are big goals. But they are long-term, so time is your friend.

Education Planning:

– Higher education needs large funds.
– Start a separate SIP of Rs.5000 per month.
– Use equity mutual funds.
– Review every year and increase SIP.
– Don’t touch this investment for any other need.

Marriage Planning:

– This is 20+ years away.
– You can use lumpsum investments here.
– The Rs.2 lakhs you saved can be for this.
– Also, build this goal slowly after education fund is stable.

Do not mix marriage and education planning.
Treat them as two different goals.

? Building Assets for Financial Stability

You currently do not have any physical assets. That’s not a problem.

Focus on building financial assets.

– Mutual funds are liquid and can grow well.
– EPFO adds stability and long-term safety.
– Emergency fund ensures peace of mind.
– Term insurance covers family needs.
– Health insurance protects savings.

Stick to these. Do not get distracted by gold or real estate.

Real estate has low liquidity and high maintenance.
Also, resale or rental is not easy and returns are uncertain.

? Why You Should Avoid Index Funds

Index funds may look cheap. But they have limitations.

– They only copy the market index like Nifty.
– They don’t outperform the market.
– In falling markets, they fall fully.
– No active fund manager to manage risk.
– Inflation can beat index fund returns.

On the other hand:

– Actively managed funds have experienced managers.
– They reduce exposure to weak sectors.
– They increase exposure to strong sectors.
– Over long term, they create better value.

Always go with active mutual funds through a CFP-led advisor.
They help you rebalance and stay on track.

? Why Direct Mutual Funds Are Not Ideal

Direct funds have low expense ratio. But they lack guidance.

– No help with fund selection.
– No review or rebalancing support.
– No risk profiling.
– No hand-holding during market falls.

Investors often panic or stay emotional.
This hurts long-term returns.

On the other hand:

– Regular plans give guidance.
– Through Certified Financial Planner, you get yearly reviews.
– You get portfolio alignment based on goals.
– Mistakes are avoided.

The slightly higher cost is worth the value it brings.
Long-term discipline beats small cost difference.

? What To Review Every Year

Every year, review these points:

– SIP amount and growth
– Fund performance
– Daughter’s goal progress
– Retirement corpus projection
– Changes in income or expenses
– New responsibilities or medical needs
– Emergency fund adequacy

Your planner can guide this review well.
This ensures all your goals stay on track.

? Finally

You are doing very well for your stage in life.

– You have no loans.
– You are disciplined in savings.
– You are planning for your daughter.
– You are thinking of retirement.

This mindset will help you build wealth peacefully.

Follow these steps:

– Stay invested for long term.
– Don’t chase returns.
– Review yearly.
– Invest goal-wise.
– Increase SIPs as income grows.
– Avoid distractions like gold and real estate.
– Avoid mixing insurance and investment.
– Take professional help where needed.

With this, you can confidently build your financial future.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Sirji I had claimed 54 F last financial year ie 2023-24 of Rs. 74,58,474 shares sold on 10/08/2023 flat purchased on 25/08/2023 I purchased another flat in FY 2024-25 on 18/11/2024 . since i have purchased another flat ( on 18/11/2024 ) within TWO years of sale of original asset ( sold on 10/08/2023) Undertsand that the LTCG caimed in last fy 23-24 of rs 74.58 lacs will be disallowed and added back to fy 24-25 income QUERRY - Since the sale of shares transaction took place before 23 july 2024 ( on 10/08/2023) will I be taxed at 10 % LTCG tax ?? Or at 12.50 % since the condition was broken on 18/11/2024( after 23 rd July 2024) Regards Narayanan
Ans: ? Your Transaction in Brief

– You sold listed shares on 10th August 2023.
– You claimed exemption under capital gains against purchase of a flat on 25th August 2023.
– You have now bought another flat on 18th November 2024.
– You are aware this may disallow the earlier exemption of Rs. 74.58 lakhs.
– You are rightly asking if tax will be 10% or 12.5%.

This is a very thoughtful and forward-looking question. Let’s decode it point by point.

? When is the Exemption Reversed?

– Capital gains exemption is condition-based.
– One such condition is – you should not buy another residential flat within 2 years.
– You violated this condition on 18th November 2024.
– So, the exemption taken earlier gets reversed.
– The amount of Rs. 74.58 lakhs becomes taxable again.
– This reversal happens in the financial year when condition is broken.
– So, this income will be added back in FY 2024-25.

? Which Tax Rate Will Apply on this Reversed LTCG?

– You sold shares in August 2023, that is before 23rd July 2024.
– This date is very important for taxation rules.
– The new LTCG rate of 12.5% is applicable only for transactions on or after 23rd July 2024.
– Your original transaction happened before this cut-off.
– Hence, the older LTCG tax rule of 10% applies in your case.

So, even though the exemption is reversed now, tax rate remains at 10%.
This is because the transaction date is the deciding factor.
Not the date of exemption being withdrawn.
So your understanding is correct, and that’s appreciated.

? Should You Worry About Indexation or STCG?

– No. Since shares were held for more than 1 year, it is clearly LTCG.
– Short-term capital gain rules will not apply here.
– Also, no indexation benefit is available for equity shares.
– But 10% rate on LTCG above Rs. 1 lakh is fair and reasonable.

? How Will This Affect FY 2024-25 Tax Filing?

– The Rs. 74.58 lakhs will now show as LTCG income in FY 2024-25.
– You should report this under capital gains section in ITR.
– Pay advance tax on this if not yet paid.
– Otherwise, you may end up paying interest under sections 234B and 234C.
– Please coordinate with your Chartered Accountant for the tax filing part.

This is important to keep your records clean and avoid scrutiny.

? Will This Impact Your Overall Financial Goals?

– A one-time tax outgo of 10% on Rs. 74.58 lakhs = approx. Rs. 7.45 lakhs.
– If you had planned this well, it can be absorbed easily.
– But if not planned, it could dent liquidity.
– You should relook at your emergency corpus and contingency planning.
– A Certified Financial Planner can help rebalance your goals accordingly.

? Why This Tax Rule Exists – An Insight

– The law allows you to reinvest LTCG into one residential flat.
– This benefit is to encourage home buying, not to speculate.
– That’s why, buying another home within 2 years is seen as a misuse.
– So exemption is withdrawn and LTCG is added back.
– This keeps the rule balanced and fair for all taxpayers.

? Should You Surrender Insurance Policies if Any?

– If you have ULIPs or traditional LIC policies with investment tag, please review.
– These give very low return and poor flexibility.
– If they are more than 5 years old, you may surrender them.
– Reinvest those amounts in mutual funds through a MFD-CFP route.
– That can give you better return, liquidity and transparency.

? Why Not to Go for Direct Mutual Funds?

– Direct funds look cheap, but they come with risks.
– No guidance, no risk-mapping, no goal alignment.
– They expose you to poor fund selection and wrong SIP allocation.
– MFD with CFP gives handholding and better fund filtration.
– Also, regular plans have built-in advisory value.
– This cost is worth paying for financial peace.

? Why Index Funds Are Not the Best Route

– Index funds are passive. They just follow market trend.
– They don’t outperform or give alpha returns.
– In volatile or falling markets, they give poor protection.
– They don’t adapt to sectoral changes or economic cycles.
– Actively managed funds adjust portfolio as per market moves.
– They have research backing, fund manager intelligence, and alpha generation.

In your case, where capital gains are involved, risk-managed returns are key.
So actively managed funds through regular route is more suitable.

? How to Absorb This LTCG Tax Impact

– Start an SIP-based STP to gradually invest surplus in balanced mutual funds.
– Create a buffer fund equal to 6 months’ living expenses.
– Maintain a separate fund for LTCG tax impact of Rs. 7.45 lakhs.
– Don't keep it in equity or risky instruments.
– Use ultra-short or low duration fund for this.

? Tax Planning Insight for You Going Ahead

– Before taking exemption, always review lock-in and restriction period.
– Never buy second property within 2 years unless you're ready to pay tax.
– Document all property purchases and sales in a simple Excel sheet.
– Keep timelines and lock-in periods marked.
– This avoids surprises and ensures smooth tax planning.

Also, keep your CA and Certified Financial Planner in sync.
They must work as a team for your financial health.

? What Could Have Been Done Differently

– You could have waited beyond 2 years to buy second property.
– Or, you could have avoided claiming exemption initially.
– Then invested gains in active mutual funds and booked 10% tax.
– This could have kept your financial strategy more flexible.
– But yes, past cannot be changed. Let’s focus ahead.

You still have ample time to plan FY 2024-25 tax outflow.
You’ve also gained clarity from this experience. That itself is an asset.

? What Should Be Your Next Steps

– Set aside Rs. 7.45 lakhs for LTCG tax.
– Inform your CA in advance for FY 2024-25 tax projection.
– Avoid buying another residential property again for next few years.
– Reassess your long-term asset allocation.
– Avoid ULIPs, traditional LICs, direct funds and index funds.
– Stay focused on goal-based MF portfolio managed via MFD with CFP.

? Finally

You are thinking ahead and keeping track of taxation. That is highly appreciated.
You have acted with good intent. The tax law has its own constraints.
But this clarity now gives you the power to act wisely.
Take a few right steps today, and you can still stay fully on track.
Please don’t panic. The 10% rate is a relief in this scenario.
Keep your documents clean and your CA informed.

For your long-term wealth journey, stay with a Certified Financial Planner.
They will help you stay aligned to your goals, taxes and peace of mind.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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