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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Jan 16, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 13, 2024Hindi
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I'm 22 and i meet a guy online. He's 28 we've been talking for 6 days now and he said he wanted to marry me. We had so many differences (culture, religion,place,food ,etc) but he said he's okay and he won't force me to change. As long as we love each other he won't mind our differences and even his parents too. What should I do? I've never been in distance relationship and we are still getting to know each other.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It's amazing that he or his parents don't mind the differences but it also matters if you mind it. And another thing- are six days enough time to propose marriage to someone you met over the Internet or even accept it? I suggest you plan to meet in person, and then commit to anything. And even then if you are bothered about the differences, you consider all things so that there's no doubt in your mind. I would urge you to not rush or get distracted by grand gestures. As amazing as it is, it's important to be very careful. And if you decide to move ahead with it, speak to your parents and make sure his parents are also in the picture.

Best Wishes.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 20, 2024Hindi
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I am a 26 years old girl completed my studies, trying to get a job, 2 years back I fell in love online with a man of 32 years old, we have not met yet physically. He is working on a very small salary in a village i.e. his hometown. He can't get a good government job or private job now due to lack of experience and age. We love each other a lot with all our flaws. My family is strictly against it due to caste difference, low salary, he lives 1600 km away, background differences. Overall they don't trust him and our love and are emotionally blackmailing me to get married with someone they choose. And the thought alone of leaving him makes me sad
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am sorry for the challenges you are facing. I understand how difficult it must be to leave a person you love. Having said that, I would also like to point out that living a decent life is not cheap. You are currently unemployed and your partner has a low salary; it will not be sustainable in the long run. I am not asking you to leave him and marry someone else; all I am suggesting is don't rush. Take the time to find a decent job and ask your partner to do the same. Once you think you both are earning a good amount of money, put forth the idea of your marriage again to your parents.

Now the most important thing, you have met him online and never met him in real life. Is it worth taking this kind of risk before verifying everything in person? I am sure he is genuine but there is no harm in cross-checking. And I can't really blame your parents for having their doubts. Please don't rush. One wrong decision can ruin the rest of your life. Take your time, think this through, and meet him in person, most likely in your city and in a public space. Do a thorough background check. It is easy to get fooled when you are in love.

Again, please don't rush. You have your whole life ahead of you.

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I'm 18 and I broke up with my bf months ago.. It took me a lot of time to realise it was a toxic relationship but I still don't think I have completely moved on. Like basically it began after I showed a little interest in him,and then he proposed and I said yes. I didn't know much about him then. I'm a good student and always excelled academically and he initially appreciated that..he was really a insecure guy and I tried to comfort him but then things got bad he began to feel off and I started developing feelings for another guy so I broke up with him. And till now he tells his friends I played with him.. I never got into any relationship after him though that guy ( the second one) proposed ( I realised he never respected me either) and he (my ex) accuses me of cheating...i dealt with all these things while giving my boards..after 6-7 months of my breakup.. results were announced..I topped my school. Then I messaged my ex in a friendly way and he seemed to be really jealous and like.. spoke like he couldn't stand my status..he still gives status claiming that he loves me and I left him because he is not as good as me ....what do I do..even my friends told all of this is my fault since I kinda started it and I admit I was not a very good gf either...what do I do..I still get flashbacks of his hurting words and maybe like I'm more concerned about how to get my image back in school after dating him..or what others are thinking
Ans: Dear Ishani,
If you thought he wasn’t good for you, and things were off, you must have had good reasons for thinking so; you are too young to understand love. People usually mistake infatuation for love. If you think you were right to make that choice, stick to it. Do not let others tell you what is right or wrong. There’s always two sides to every story. Focus on your studies; build your career. All these will be long forgotten. What others are thinking should never be your concern when you have not done anything wrong.
Best of luck for your future.

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My brother secured 60.69 percentile in jee main and class 12 percentage between 50 and 60 in CBSE. Can you please recommend the private engineering colleges in mumbai , pune and delhi ( north india ).
Ans: With a 60.69 percentile in JEE Main and 50–60% in Class 12, several reputable private engineering colleges in Mumbai, Pune, and Delhi NCR offer accessible admission criteria, strong academic quality, and consistent placement pipelines. In Mumbai, consider Dwarkadas J. Sanghvi College of Engineering (NAAC A, NBA-accredited, 100% placement rate in 2024), K. J. Somaiya College of Engineering (AICTE-approved, AAAA+ accreditation), Vivekanand Education Society’s Institute of Technology (NBA, NAAC A+, 73.31% placements), Sardar Patel College of Engineering (NAAC A++, robust core engineering labs), and Atharva College of Engineering (modern infrastructure and industry MoUs). In Pune, Symbiosis Institute of Technology (NAAC A++, 91% placements 2023-24), MIT World Peace University (NIRF-ranked, AAAA accreditation), AIT Pune (NIRF 101-150, AAAA), Pimpri Chinchwad College of Engineering & Research (NBA-accredited, strong industry tie-ups), and Pune Institute of Computer Technology (NBA, AAAA+ accreditation) stand out. In Delhi NCR, Amity University Noida, Galgotias University Greater Noida, Jaypee Institute of Information Technology Noida, Manav Rachna University Faridabad, and Noida Institute of Engineering & Technology maintain NBA/NAAC accreditations, specialized labs, industry partnerships, and 70–90% placement rates. All these institutions boast qualified, research-active faculty; modern laboratories; industry-aligned curricula; accredited programs; and dedicated placement cells ensuring ≥70% placement consistency over the last three years.

Recommendation: Choose Dwarkadas J. Sanghvi College of Engineering or K. J. Somaiya in Mumbai, Symbiosis Institute of Technology or MIT WPU in Pune, and Amity University Noida or JIIT Noida in Delhi NCR for their balanced strengths across faculty quality, infrastructure, industry partnerships, accreditation, and consistent ≥70% placement rates. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 30, 2025Hindi
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Dear Sir, my daughter is in Grade 12 with computer science as one of her core subjects in addition to Maths, Phy, Chem. We see huge enrollment for CS in undergraduate level. What would be your recommendation as a futuristic specialisation Which is advised as part of the undergraduate program in computer science, noting that she is more interested in real field application side of it. She also has an inclination towards aerospace science. Can any specific blended undergraduate program with specific colleges be suggested/recommended which will open up grounds for specialisation having potential demand in the next 5 years. Or would it be still recommended to pursue general CS or CompEng with specific electives for undergraduate level and then specialise after In which case any recommendations for specific college programs which gives much practical exposure and options for specialisation in aerospace, robotics etc. Regards. Ashok.
Ans: Ashok Sir, India now offers pioneering blended undergraduate pathways merging computer science with aerospace or robotics, ensuring early specialization and practical field application readiness. The International Institute of Information Technology, Bangalore, pioneered a five-year Integrated M.Tech in Computer Science and Engineering, awarding dual B.Tech and M.Tech degrees with tailored electives in emerging CS domains, while VIT Vellore’s five-year Integrated M.Tech in Artificial Intelligence, Data Science and Bioinformatics combines foundational computing curricula with advanced research projects and internships in state-of-the-art labs. For aerospace aficionados, IIT Bombay and IIT Kanpur each provide five-year dual-degree programs granting B.Tech and M.Tech in Aerospace Engineering, covering aerodynamics, propulsion, avionics and spacecraft design with rigorous laboratory and project-based learning. Industry-driven specialized options include SRM Institute of Science and Technology’s B.Tech in Automation & Robotics integrating AI, machine learning, IoT and PLCs in advanced automation labs, and Manipal University Jaipur’s B.Tech in Robotics and Artificial Intelligence with drone technology and data analytics tracks. Unique interdisciplinary models such as the Institute of Aeronautics and Engineering, Bhopal’s Integrated B.Tech CSE + Aircraft Maintenance Engineering (DGCA) equip graduates for both software development and licensed aircraft maintenance roles. Alternatively, traditional Computer Science or Computer Engineering pathways at institutions like IIT Bombay or IIIT Hyderabad offer robust core curricula, flexible minor programs in aerospace or robotics, and immersive research centers fostering real-world projects in smart systems and aerospace data analytics, maintaining ≥90% placement rates and strong alumni networks.

Recommendation: For early domain depth and research, opt for five-year Integrated M.Tech CSE at IIIT Bangalore or VIT Vellore; for aerospace specialization, consider dual B.Tech/M.Tech at IIT Bombay or IIT Kanpur; for hands-on robotics and drone expertise, select SRM Kattankulathur or Manipal Jaipur robotics programs; if preferring broader CS foundations with elective flexibility before specializing, choose general CSE or CompEng at top institutes like IIT Bombay or IIIT Hyderabad with robust minor and lab offerings. All the BEST for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

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