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Relationships Expert - Answered on Sep 14, 2022
You have a child together and it sounds like you both still want the marriage to work. So here's what you should do, at least for now -- compromise.
She absolutely must commit to seeing a marital counsellor with you and, in exchange, she can live in her hometown for the moment and you undertake the commute to see her and your child regularly.
There's no other man in the picture anymore and she's obviously been through a lot; you've been oblivious to her misery living with your mother all those years.
This seems to be a problem with most Indian men today; your wife doesn't need to live with your mother any more than you need to live with hers!
And, as a result, she went and had an emotional, if not physical, affair.
I understand your frustration but making that information public made everything worse. That's probably the main reason why she doesn't want to live there anymore and you need to understand that.
Your marriage needs a lot of work; make the effort, both of you, to save it.
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