Dear Love Guru 
I am 25. I was head over heels in love with a boy from my colony and he broke up with me. We were in a relationship for 5 years. I couldn't get over the break up and at times I still wake up in the night and cry. My parents don't know about him and my breakup. They plan to get me married and have created a profile for me in matrimonial sites. I am not ready to get married. My trust is completely shattered and I don't think I will ever trust my future partner. I feel cheated. What should I do?

Dear sir, I am a widow of 44 yrs reputed officer and I am also working at a reputed post. I have a daughter also. 2 yrs back I gave a matrimoni adv on a online site for remarriage. I received a call from an Sr. Scientist. I was serious about this because he was a nice educated fellow and working as scientist, his case of divorce was in process, which he told that it is going to over soon. After around two months talk over the phone I liked the person and I met him. I liked him, later I invited him at my place as well as I also visited his place we came close to each other physically. Every thing was going fine he shared so many things about his family and wife as well as I also shared. Everything was going on fine suddenly he changed his nature and started avoiding and ignoring me. He told me that I will bring you my home nicely. Now we have fought. I am telling home to meet face to face. he is threatening me and me that if you will meet me and co e toy place will ruin you. Now he is running from me and telling go away and blocked me from all social media. He has used me and left me after wasting my two years. I am at a juncture of life that after my daughter I will be alone. Now after this cheating i have got so scared that not able to belive on any one. What should I do? Should I meet him once at his place? Should I tell all story to his father? I feel depression and anxiety. What should I do pl suggest.

Hi mam I loved a man who i thought a good guy for 5 yrs later i came to know he is cheating me only for physical not to marry where he told we wil have future together but i made problem and asked him to marry me but his family and he influenced with his moms decision What shal I do i don't know what to do i thought he is my life now his mom plan him to marry someone else.. What should i do

hi i have been into relationship with my bf for as long as 15 yrs.. we shared a beautiful relationship but he was never fulfilling his commitment towards marriage almost for 15 years he is just saying he will marry in the coming months but never in any month we got married everytime we use to book n dan he is to cancel the dates saying that he is scared want to wait for sometime... once he told me that due to age difference of 9 yrs (M older to him by 9 yrs) his family will not accept me...but still he is ready to get married to me n i was on his false promises ...But suddenly 4 months back he got married to someone else..and i was not aware of anything because he used to meet me everyday n suddenly one day i saw him as a bride groom getting married to someone.. i dont know now how to cope with this trauma.. i see myself dying everyday..i dont understand to what extent he has committed this crime..& y did he did this.. i used to give choice also to say yes or no but not to cheat in this way...

I'm 22 years old now, i had a relationship last long 5yrs but my parent's didn't like the boy just because of he is a dancer by profession so they forced me to broke up with him and harassing me so badly my uncle beat me i got heart and forcefully asked me to marry some other guy im very depressed