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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 09, 2024Hindi

Relationship

I love my boyfriend.He is 7 yrs older than me.He wants to get married soon to me,but I don't want to get married at least for 4 yrs due to my education and job.Thats why I don't see a future with him.How do I tell him and make him understand that I don't want to marry him.Also I don't want to hurt him.

Ans: Well if he wants to marry now and you after a few years, declining his proposal will hurt him - there is nothing you can do about it. However if you have the clarity to pursue your education and a job, then you need to let him know. It is his job to decide to move on or to wait. All the best.

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