I love my boyfriend.He is 7 yrs older than me.He wants to get married soon to me,but I don't want to get married at least for 4 yrs due to my education and job.Thats why I don't see a future with him.How do I tell him and make him understand that I don't want to marry him.Also I don't want to hurt him.

Dear Love Guru, I'm 30 and my parents want me to get married. I have a boyfriend but I am not interested in getting married at the moment. Neither is he. I tried talking to my parents, but they are very adamant. Sometimes, my boyfriend and I feel we should pretend that we got married; the pressure is so much. What can I do? I want to travel, enjoy my life and then settle down. How do I handle this?

Hello I have a boyfriend, he wants to marry but im not ready yet What should i do?

Hi Mam, Actually I am self independent girl. I am not financially dependent on anyone. I am good in my career. I have a boyfriend the relationship is been 10 years. lastyear when i told my parents i wanted to get married to him, my parents opposed it . now they have fixed my marriage with someone else , i tried to tell the person who is going to get married to me that i am in relationship and i am not able to overcome with that. i am not interested in this marriage. The boy who is going to get married to me told all the details what i have informed to him regrading my relationship to my parents . and also he is saying me that he is going to give me a good life he wanted to marry me only. what should i do now even my parents wanted me to get married to the person who they have arranged wedding .But i am really not interested.

Hi I am a 27f. My parents are looking for arrange marriage alliances. I am not looking to get married right now. However, my parents feel pressured and because of that I’m feeling pressured. I kept on saying no to all the rishtas that have come by taking out one or the other problem in family or guy. But now this rishta has come where the family is nice and the guy is super nice too. I’m not able to find any reason to say no to this guy and he seems really interested in me yet I don’t want to get married, not at least this year I feel. I need this year for myself. Moreover I am in love with someone whom I know I won’t be able to get married too. I want this year with him. I feel I cannot betray my bf and be selfish and say yes to this man just because he feels fine to me to get married to. Next year I have decided to give in to my parents demands. Also the man I am dating is wonderful. It’s just we cannot get married because of our age gap. He is 10 years older to me and he never wants to get married. He knows what he wants. I am in such a dilemma what should I do? I feel trapped.