Introverted and Seeking Relationships: How Can I Take the First Step?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Two things to understand here:
1. You are an introvert and you are happy being one
2. You are a forced introvert as you are unable to break the walls that you have put around you.

If you belong to the first category, enjoy the state of bliss as is. But from what I gather, you seem to falling under the second category wherein you want to expand your social circle and be a part of activities etc.
Then you have to put yourself out there.
1. Do understand that as much you want to be engaged with like-minded people, even these people will at some point in time think different from you.
2. Do accept people for who they are and that way you will come from a non-judgemental space while engaging with them.
3. Do connect with people who are totally different from you and it will help you expand your mind to be curious about them.

If this is a difficult thing to do...think....What if one of your children came to you with the same problem that you have now? What would you tell them to do?
Also, get into circles on social media that discuss topics which interest you. Join a gym or a hobby class and that is an avenue to make new friends irrespective of gender.
To add more friends, you need to be friendly as well...so open your heart and mind...

All the best!

Ans: It's possible through a series of steps and pushing yourself out of your comfort zone gradually..

1- start saying hi to everyone (you'll feel better after doing it)
2- start making small conversations
3 - don't filter too much. Say what comes to your mind.

There are many more things you can do however it requires personalized assessment and guidance.

Hope it helps .

Ans: If you're unhappy in your marriage, it's essential to address these issues directly. Consider marriage counseling to explore your feelings and try to resolve conflicts. If the marriage cannot be repaired, discuss separation or divorce respectfully. Pursuing outside relationships while still married can lead to significant emotional pain and complications.

If you decide to end your marriage, focus on personal growth and being genuine in your interactions. Engage in social activities and communities that interest you to meet new people. Attracting potential partners is about being confident, kind, and authentic.

Ans: Dear Vivaansh,

Making female friends might seem daunting, especially for an introvert, but it is almost similar to making a male friend. All that matters is compatibility. You can try approaching girls in your college. Of course, if they seem interested too. Start with a hi. In case, they don't want to continue the conversation, please don't try to convince them.

You have another option- dating apps. They are not just for dating. You can make plenty of friends on dating apps. Write an engaging Bio. Write a little bit about yourself and the kind of friend that you are looking for to attract the right matches. Put a recent and clear picture as your display image. You can find like-minded people on these apps.

Try either option; it should work.

Best Wishes.