hi , I am a 40 year old man with 2 kids and wife , aged parents .Financially and health wise i am doing good and working in a reputed mnc. My relationship with parents , wife ,kids and siblings is in good spirits . however i am an introvert and don't have many friends .while i had friends in childhood and youth however they have moved in there life .i want to have an improved social life and also have joined a course to improve social skills and more strong relationship socially and at work . As course suggest to approach people , however i still don't approach/talk to people when opportunity is there .i also tried to have more positive attitude towards other people ..however still sometimes i start criticizing them in my mind...and sometimes i feel that approaching /talking may belittle me in front of them,,,, and talking /approaching opposite sex is even more difficult ... any suggestion to improve on this part and how i can improve my social life and get/find company of like minded people .

Hello sir i am form rajasthan i had scored 93 percetile in jee mains my CRl rank is107924 and obc caterogry rank is 34808 but i have scored only 70 percent in board so sir please suggest some collage in which i can get civill branch

VIT vellore, MIT manipal, MIT bengaluru, Thapar patiala, LNMIIT jaipur, JIIT noida, NMIMS mumbai, PES bengaluru & KIIT bhubhneshwar, Amrita Engineering college, Shiv Nadar University for b-tech CSE. Kindly guide. Thanks

hello sir i got 60 percentile in jee main 2025 , can i take a drop? my parents are saying that they would allocate a management seat in CIT(chennai).which options of the both could i opt,also getting a mangement seat would result in a great dread for a middle class family like us. kindly share your opinions

does JAC Delhi counselling accept 2 marksheets if its from the same cbse board? (like one has PCB and another is of Maths additional subject)

Hi Shalini ji I was in a serious relationship for 6 years with a boy whom I met on the 1st day of my college. He was from a different caste. Hence when my parents got to know they disapproved of it very strictly so I knew it wasnt going to work that easily. After sometime they started asking to get married. It was an ultimate pressure while we both were preparing for some government exams. I went through utter confusion and I got stuck between trying to study and at the same time thinking about my future with him. I was pressurised by my family including my brother and parents to leave him. Meanwhile I decided to not to carry it forward because I couldn't leave my parents for whole life to be with him because it was either him or my family. I lost all the focus towards my studies due to this decision and also started talking to some other boy (he was from my own caste accidently) whom I met accidentally at an exam centre for comfort. I got a brief moments of happiness with him. I confide my pain in him. Suddenly something happened in my family ,between my parents. And my mother started acting like you can choose your own partner for life because somehow she lost trust on my father. She even was comfortable with my brother's marriage with the one whom he loves. Now I feel completely betrayed because for them I left love of my life and got into another relationship with the boy I met at an exam center ( which now I feel was a hasty decision as I felt alone and depressed). Now no one talks about my real love and what i think about it for the future. I am in a complete state of repentance. I feel like I betrayed him. Now when i think of getting back to him I hesitate a lot because I think that I took a wrong decision due to the pressure and under stress. The person I am with now, I feel is not what I wanted as a partner and I feel that he is not mentally supportive. I wnat to leave him as well. What should I do now to be happy?

Hi I am a govt employee with a gross salary 1.25 lakhs per month, I have a 2 home loans 26000EMI with 137 month tenure @8.65 interest rate and 27800EMI with 214 months tenure @8.2 interest rate. And two top-up loans 13LK with 154months tenure @9.7intrest rate and 17LK with 144months @8.5intrest rate and a personal loan of 6LK with 32months tenure @10.25 interest. Have Term insurance policy for 1Cr and Health insurance for 10LK. 12000 per month rental income. Sufficient investment in open plots.Please advise further

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Dear Sir, I am 38 years old with a home loan of 81 lakhs outstanding. My EMI is Rs 1.05 lakhs, and I have 12 years left in the tenure. Additionally, I have a personal loan of 9.5 lakhs with an EMI of Rs 52,000 and 15 months remaining. My monthly income is 2.8 lakhs. I have mutual fund investments worth 18 lakhs, gold worth 4 lakhs, and a fixed deposit of 5 lakh. Should I use some of my savings to prepay these loans or continue paying EMIs and let my investments grow?

Dear Sir, I have taken an LIC policy jeevan shree on 31st Jan' 2002 with sum assured of 5 lacs and yearly premium of 24520. What maturity proceed can I expect in 2027. It had a premium paying term of 16 years and maturity of 25 years.