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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 06, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 05, 2024Hindi

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How to attract females towards oneself I m not happy in my married life Need some outside relationship

Ans: If you're unhappy in your marriage, it's essential to address these issues directly. Consider marriage counseling to explore your feelings and try to resolve conflicts. If the marriage cannot be repaired, discuss separation or divorce respectfully. Pursuing outside relationships while still married can lead to significant emotional pain and complications.

If you decide to end your marriage, focus on personal growth and being genuine in your interactions. Engage in social activities and communities that interest you to meet new people. Attracting potential partners is about being confident, kind, and authentic.

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Namaste Ma'am...I even tried to find a partner for long term relationship & marriage...but can't able to find one...every women finds me nice human,but not ready to be associated with me.Even in bumble,I am not getting matches...????.What to do? Kindly reply ma'am.

Ans: How about asking these women on what should you do to be taken seriously for a long term relationship. Doing so will give you insights into things you can work upon.

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I am introvert 19age unmarried adult how can I take step for making female friends

Ans: Dear Vivaansh,

Making female friends might seem daunting, especially for an introvert, but it is almost similar to making a male friend. All that matters is compatibility. You can try approaching girls in your college. Of course, if they seem interested too. Start with a hi. In case, they don't want to continue the conversation, please don't try to convince them.

You have another option- dating apps. They are not just for dating. You can make plenty of friends on dating apps. Write an engaging Bio. Write a little bit about yourself and the kind of friend that you are looking for to attract the right matches. Put a recent and clear picture as your display image. You can find like-minded people on these apps.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 03, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Nov 01, 2024

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I am 40 year old Man and single. Deprived of sex, emotional attachment, and companionship. Have made my profile in many marriage websites since a decade but things are not working out. I am earning a salary of around 9 lakhs per annum and often think tht my salary is a constraint for female to get married to me. I am educated i have done my MBA marketing and also have a Hotel Management degree. Please advice what to do.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Gyms, open parks, theater groups, dance classes, expressive art classes...the list is endless...you can definitely find like-minded women here who obviously may not be looking for a relationship. So, start by being friends and please hold your horses on making the first move as many times, a woman is happy just having you as a friend. Don't lose hope; but be a bit restrained in your approach. Now, I have no clue why with an MBA, you can't find something that pays you better...that information I don't have...so, find ways to find a place that appreciates your skill and that can pay you better.

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Tech Careers and Skill Development Expert - Answered on Apr 03, 2025

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Can you give me the information that , which type of engineering is best to choose for future demands . As all are taking the computer science AiMl , stream for the better future , is that really most demanding ? If not so , which branch is better to choose.

Ans: Short-Term (2025-2035): CSE, AI/ML, Data Science, Cybersecurity are great choices.
Long-Term (2035-2050): ECE (VLSI, chip design), Electrical (EV, renewable energy), and Mechanical (robotics) will be more stable than AI-based jobs.

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Tech Careers and Skill Development Expert - Answered on Apr 03, 2025

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Sir, My son is not interested in computer related jobs. However, he has deep interest in physics. Based on his choice, he likes two engineering branches (from good/reputed institute (like VIT/Thapar Institute) - Either Mechanical engineering or Electronics and communication engineering. So, please suggest regarding the following queries. (1) From package/salary point of view, which one would be better - Mechanical engineering or Electronics and communication engineering (Considering, having job in core sector)? (2) From profession growth point of view, which one would be better - Mechanical engineering or Electronics and communication engineering (Considering, having job in core sector)? Please suggest from short and long term perspective.

Ans: If he wants stable government jobs (PSUs like ISRO, DRDO, BHEL, ONGC, BEL, etc.) → Both ME and ECE are equally good.

If he wants a high-paying career in India (private sector) → ECE is better (VLSI, semiconductor, telecom are booming).

If he wants international opportunities (Germany, US, Japan) → Mechanical is good for automotive/aerospace, but ECE is better for semiconductors.

If he is interested in future technology (Quantum, AI hardware, 6G, IoT, Chip Design) → ECE has a clear edge.

If he enjoys hands-on work (machinery, engines, aerodynamics) → Mechanical suits him better.

For best career growth and salary: ECE (core sector like VLSI, 5G, semiconductor, telecommunications, embedded systems).

For passion in classical physics and machines: ME (with specialization in Robotics, Aerospace, or Renewable Energy).

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Tech Careers and Skill Development Expert - Answered on Apr 03, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Mar 24, 2025Hindi

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Sir, I have scored 97.01 percentile in JEE mains 2025 session-1 I belong to ST category and my domicile state is rajasthan what are the chances of getting top 5 NIT's CSE branch

Ans: Given your estimated ST category rank of approximately 1,400, securing a CSE seat in these top NITs may be challenging.
You may get NIT Hamirpur, NITs at north eastern states.
As a Rajasthan domicile candidate, you have the advantage of the home state quota at Malaviya National Institute of Technology (MNIT) Jaipur.

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Tech Careers and Skill Development Expert - Answered on Apr 03, 2025

Question by Sundram - Mar 25, 2025Hindi

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Sir I got 97.88 percentile in JEE MAINS 2025 .I am OBC NCL candidate with home state u p. Can I get CS in top NIT or IIIT. Or should I take electrical in top NIT or IIIT. Can you suggest me something best about it.

Ans: Congratulations on achieving a 97.88 percentile in JEE Main 2025! Securing a seat in CSE at top NITs such as NIT Trichy, NIT Warangal, or NIT Surathkal is highly competitive, and typically requires a higher percentile than 97.88. However, you may have a chance at obtaining a CSE seat in some of the newer or less competitive NITs and IIITs. For instance, IIIT Lucknow and IIIT Kota have had closing ranks around your range in previous years.
If you are more inclined towards Computer Science, it might be worth pursuing it in a newer institute. Conversely, if you have an interest in Electrical Engineering, securing a seat in a more established NIT could be advantageous.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 31, 2025Hindi

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After my mother's death, my father (54 years old) is involved in extra marital affair with an unmarried neighbour girl (25). Nobody knows about their affair except our family. Me (23) & my sister (21) tried our best to make my father understand that this is not the right time to do all these things, but he is not listening to us & not ready to understand. It seems useless for him to have affair with her because there is no future of this relationship. Age gap is also huge. Her parents also don't know about it. Neither we can tell about it to them, because they will target our family & ruin our life. They can also file police complain against our whole family if they gets to know about it. I am sure they will also deny this relationship. Took our relatives help too, but it didn't work. Don't know what to do. Can you please help ??

Ans: Hello mam..This could be a part of mid life crisis and he could feel this extra marital affair to be coping mechanism after trauma, your mother's death. Your father should definitely think about his children and their future. Are you and your sister working or studying? I would like to know a little further about your present status so that i can suggest you something better.
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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 01, 2025

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my wife do not allow me to tuch since 6 months,i tried every thing ,please help me..

Ans: Hello sir. Plz have some patience. I understand that this is an important aspect of relationship but not the only aspect. It could be a reaction to some trauma also. Take some private time and sit with your wife. And politely try to figure out the problem. Take her some time. Have some patience. Let her be comfortable with you again. Everything will come to normal. Take care!
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WHAT WILL BE THE BEST DISCIPLINE/BRANCH TO STUDY AFTER 3 YEARS IN ENGG. CONSIDERING THE IMPACT OF AI . MACHINE LEARNING,ROBOTICS,DATA SCIENCE ETC ?.

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Dear Sir, My son right now will appear for 10th Board next year (in Year 26) is very much keen for Computer Science, as he coding is his passion. But Since we are seeing rapid changes in computer world, from AI to Chatgpt and every other day some new inventions. By the time he will complete his Graduation with CS from even reputed institute many of the things will be out dated. Also I am still not sure, weather he will be able to get good job for long term basis as I believe, Computer field is changing very rapidly as it is difficult for any other to keep on updating with a changing phase, So I need your view/advices on my thought Please.

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after getting a percentile through SC category can the same student apply through general category with same score in jee.....

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I get 98.66 percentile ews in which top nits i get mechanical or electrical

Ans: Congratulations on achieving a 98.66 percentile in JEE Main under the General EWS category! You can try for NIT Tiruchirappalli (NIT Trichy), NIT Warangal, NIT Surathkal

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