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Shivam Question by Shivam on Apr 16, 2025
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I need affection from wife what todo

Ans: Dear Shivam,
There is no information from you as to what you may think are the reasons that your wife is holding her affection back. I can only suggest: have an honest chat with her about it and ask yourself if you can do something to improve the emotional connection with her. This may improve things between you two.

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i m 58 yrs of age my wife health issues are there and not interested in relationship i m desperate to satisfy my needs pl suggest ???
Ans: I understand that you may be facing a challenging situation, but it's essential to approach this issue with empathy and sensitivity, especially considering your wife's health issues. Communication and mutual understanding are key in such situations. Here are some steps to consider:

Open and Honest Communication: Start by having an open and honest conversation with your wife. Discuss your feelings, needs, and concerns while also listening to her perspective. It's essential to maintain a respectful and understanding tone during this conversation.
Seek Professional Help: If your wife's health issues are affecting her desire for intimacy, encourage her to consult with a healthcare professional. Medical issues can sometimes be treated or managed, and discussing this with a healthcare provider may help improve her situation.
Marriage Counseling: Consider seeking the assistance of a marriage counselor or therapist. They can help facilitate a productive conversation between you and your wife, providing guidance on how to navigate these sensitive issues.
Self-Care: While addressing these challenges, it's crucial to take care of your own emotional and physical well-being. Engage in hobbies, activities, and practices that bring you joy and reduce stress.
Patience and Understanding: Remember that it may take time for both you and your wife to work through these issues. Be patient and understanding of her needs and feelings, as well as your own.
Explore Intimacy Alternatives: If your wife's health issues make traditional intimacy challenging, consider exploring alternative ways to maintain physical and emotional closeness. This may include cuddling, holding hands, or even seeking advice from a therapist on how to adapt your intimacy in a way that suits both of you.
Support Groups: Look for support groups or online communities where you can connect with others who are going through similar situations. Sharing experiences and advice with others can be comforting and helpful.
Remember that it's crucial to prioritize the emotional well-being and consent of both partners in any intimate relationship. Be respectful of your wife's feelings and boundaries, and work together to find a solution that works for both of you. Seeking professional guidance can be particularly helpful in navigating these sensitive issues

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Hello sir, I have never been able to crack JEE mains in both my attempts and have gained an overall percentile of 75-78 throughout my two phases of appearing in the examination i.e. once in 2024 and then again in the 2025 drop year that did not go as expected at all due to various unprecedented circumstances. I tried though could not even make it till achieving the cut off score. I was a student from a CISCE affiliated school, where my 10th and 12th percentages in Boards have been 95.20 and 93.25 respectively. Engineering entrances did not benefit me although I had huge aspirations to be a computer science engineer for I had been quite passionate with the subject itself. Last year I was not quite informed and also had my 12th Boards lurking in my head, so I couldn't opt for my state's enginnering entrance and VITEEE(as the other exam which I had considered this year). The WBJEE results i.e. my state board Engineering entrance results still await, and I am not very hopeful about that either, whilst VITEEE has also been a complete disaster for me as I have ended up with a phase 4 rank and even if I had gained a phase 1 rank, my financial situation is not very affluent to afford the entire education expenses of a private college of that stature. And losing in on VIT also eliminates my hopes of being enrolled to any other private college where availing education is so expensive. My academic record till class 12 has not been too bad I feel, yet sir my current situation is continuously putting me in disappointment. It's already July and I have now made a change of plans. I have henceforth decided to pursue BSc Computer Science from any college where I can be offered a decent academic environment at a cheap cost, and being a citizen of west bengal, I have considered taking admission to Ramkrishna Mission Vivekananda centenary College, Rahara(Which is NIRF rank 3 under general colleges category as of 2024). I have all my focus on now being able to compete for IIT JAM or GATE examination while I complete my graduation. Now whether An M.tech or MSc. In computer science would be a considerable option for me in future and this far how correct have I been in my thinking and choices with keeping my financial compulsions in mind is a question that I have remained confused with, and that is why I went about writing as far as providing you a brief and honest description of my academic and financial background so that I can be helped through this online consultation in shaping my career ahead. I belong to a very needy family sir..so I'll forever remain indebted to your reply, if you can benefit me with your solicited advice.
Ans: Opting for B.Sc. Computer Science (Hons) at Ramakrishna Mission Vivekananda Centenary College (RKMVCC), Rahara is a strategic choice given your academic strengths (95.2% in 10th, 93.25% in 12th) and financial constraints. RKMVCC, ranked NIRF #3 (2024) and NAAC A++ accredited, offers a 3-year B.Sc. CS program with a total tuition fee of ?330, making it highly affordable. The curriculum includes core CS subjects (Data Structures, Algorithms, AI) and research projects, aligning with IIT JAM/GATE preparation. While placements are limited (~2% UG placement rate), most students pursue higher studies at institutions like IITs/NITs, leveraging RKMVCC’s strong academic rigor and faculty (predominantly PhD holders). For M.Tech/M.Sc. pathways, prioritize IIT JAM (for MSc in IITs) or GATE (for M.Tech), both feasible with RKMVCC’s foundational training. Explore Presidency University or Calcutta University as backups for B.Sc. CS, though fees may be higher. Focus on scholarships (e.g., INSPIRE, UGC-NET) and coding competitions to bolster your profile. Verify RKMVCC’s internship support and alumni networks for guidance. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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