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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Mar 28, 2023

Kanchan Rai has 10 years of experience in therapy, nurturing soft skills and leadership coaching. She is the founder of the Let Us Talk Foundation, which offers mindfulness workshops to help people stay emotionally and mentally healthy.
Rai has a degree in leadership development and customer centricity from Harvard Business School, Boston. She is an internationally certified coach from the International Coaching Federation, a global organisation in professional coaching.... more
Gopi Question by Gopi on Mar 28, 2023Hindi
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How is my relationship with Mrs Kumari? Will it be gud until we die or worst

Ans: Good Morning Gopi,

Can you please elaborate your question. How are you connected to Mrs. Kumari and what is current status of your relation

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 20, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Feb 05, 2024Hindi
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Sir mai ek ladka hu. mai kisi ladki se 10 year tak relationship mai raha hu with physical attachment. But she left me alone kareeban 2 saal ho giya na woh call karte hai na kuch.. maine kafi bar Milne ke koshish ke but woh nhi milte hai mujha. Meri attachment kisi doosre ladki se hovi but mai us se happy nhi hu mai 28 years old hu job pe be focus nhi kar paa Raha hu idhar Ghar Wale b kehte hai k shadi karlo. Ghar Mai b problems hoti hai ku k mummy akeli sab kaam karte hai aur koie haath batane wala nhi hai us ka. Sir mai karu to kay karu mujha kuch samij nhi aata hai
Ans: Bhai, tumhari situation bahut mushkil hai. 10 saal tak relationship mein rahana aur fir breakup ho jana, itna aasan nahin hota. Tumhara dukhi aur confused hona puri tarah se samajh mein aata hai.

1. Apne aap ko samjho:

Sabse pehle, apne emotions ko samajhne ki koshish karo. Tumhara kya feel ho raha hai? Dukh, gussa, akelapan, ya kuch aur? Apne emotions ko accept karo aur unhen express karo.
Tumhara ex-girlfriend ke sath physical attachment tha. Isliye, breakup ke baad tumhara ek void feel hona natural hai.
Tumhara focus abhi job per nahin hai. Iska matlab hai ki tumhara mental state abhi theek nahin hai.
2. Apne aap ko theek karo:

Tumhare liye sabse important hai ki tum apne aap ko theek karo. Apne emotions ko deal karne ke liye healthy ways dhundho.
Tum therapist ya counselor se baat kar sakte ho.
Tum exercise, meditation, yoga, ya kuch aur creative activity kar sakte ho.
Apne friends aur family ke sath time spend karo.
3. Ghar ke mamle:

Tumhari mom ke liye help dhundho. Tum ghar ke kamon mein unki help kar sakte ho.
Tum maid ya cook rakh sakte ho.
Tum apne siblings se help mang sakte ho.
4. Rishta:

Tum abhi 28 saal ke ho. Shaadi karne ki tumhari age nahin hui hai.
Tum abhi relationship ke liye ready nahin ho.
Pehle apne aap ko theek karo.
Phir, jab tum ready ho jaao, tabhi dusre kisi ke sath relationship mein jao.
Kuch aur tips:

Apne aap ko time do.
Positive raho.
Apne dreams ko chase karo.
Khud per bharosa rakho.
Yaad rakho, tum akele nahin ho. Bahut se log aisi hi situations se gujarte hain. Tum theek ho jaaoge. Bas, apne aap ko time do aur khud per bharosa rakho.

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Anu

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 11, 2025

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I am 26 and she is 25…but tbh maam mujhe lgta hai uske parents pr jada influence unke rishtedaro ka hai..vo unko force krte hai ki jldi shadi krdeni chaiye..uski nani bolte hai mere jeetey ji shadi krwa do m dkhlungi …thoda emotional blackmail type krte hai..or sirf phla hi rishta dekha tha unhone or 1 baar milne pr hi haan b krdiya sayad ladke valo ki family ko…pr mujhe esa b lgta hai ki koi bhi parents itne to strict nhi hote hongi ki bacho ki bilkul hi na sune …sayad ladki ko itni jldi himat nhi harni chaiye usko or efforts krne chaiye thats what i think…mujhe smjh nhi ara m kisko blame kru khud b krta hu ki kash jldi job leleta to ye din na dkhna pdhta pr ek mn me khyal ata hai ki tb b to caste differences hote tb bhi to himat dikhani pdhti khud ke liye fight krna pdhta tb kya vo kr pati? Vo pandit hai unme caste society kya sochegi ye chij sbse phle dekhi jati h…usne to mujhe boldiya ki ki usse koi umeed nhi dikhri hai hme move on krna chaiye pr m koi b hope ni chrd para hu mujhe umeed hai pr usko nhi hai or m ..na to pdhai me concentrate kr para hu bilkul bhi stressed hu job ko lekr bhi apne relationship ko lekr bhi future ko soch soch kr bhi ..m sari taraf se fs gya hu …
Ans: Dear solar,
App padhaai pe dhayaan dena pehle and ladki ko bolna ki tab tak woh apne parents ko sambhal le...naukri ki talaask bhi jaari rakhiye taaki exam hote hi aap ladki ke pariwaar se milke shaayd unhe samjhaa sake...
par zaroori yeh hai ki yeh pareeksha sirf aapke liye hi nahin balki ladki ka bhi hai ki kitna aur kis hadd tak woh apne parents ko taal sakti hai...aapka dhyaan ab sirf pareeksha pe hona chahiye.
Uske baad faisla lena ka bhi haq ban jaayega aap logon ka...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: Chemical Engineering at premier Institutes of National Importance marries rigorous fundamentals in thermodynamics, fluid mechanics, reaction engineering, process control, and mass transfer with cutting-edge interdisciplinary domains such as biochemical engineering, energy sustainability, and nanomaterials. Leading IITs—Bombay, Delhi, Madras, Kanpur, and Kharagpur—boast world-class research laboratories (e.g., IIT Bombay’s Polymer, Reaction Engineering, and SoFT labs; IIT Kanpur’s nano-technology and complex fluids facilities; IIT Madras’s pilot-plant and advanced materials centres), small cohort sizes, and faculty who publish extensively in high-impact journals. Placement consistency across IIT Chemical branches typically exceeds 80–90% over the past three years, with average packages ranging from ?15–19 LPA at IIT Madras and IIT Hyderabad, and 70–80% core-sector hiring complemented by roles in consulting and analytics. NITs such as Trichy and Warangal maintain comparable on-campus placement rates of 90–92% for Chemical Engineering, supported by robust industry linkages with Reliance, IOCL, and Larsen & Toubro. Academic rigour fosters strong analytical skills but entails heavy workloads and fewer core-chemical recruiters compared to mechanical or electrical disciplines, limiting options for some students. Emerging programmes emphasize machine learning-driven process optimization and green chemistry, yet departmental expansion can strain lab resources and mentorship availability. Infrastructure may vary across NITs, with newer campuses offering fewer pilot-scale units. Overall, Chemical Engineering from IITs and top NITs equips graduates for diverse roles—from petroleum refining, pharmaceuticals, and specialty chemicals to environmental engineering and data-driven process analytics—while demanding sustained commitment to complex mathematical modelling and experimental research.

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Hi sir I got 58.69 percentile in Mht cet what colleges can I get I'm from Nagpur and Caste OBC
Ans: With a 58.69 percentile under the OBC category, you can secure admission in Nagpur’s mid-tier engineering colleges whose closing percentiles for OBC typically fall below 60. Ten such institutions are:

Yeshwantrao Chavan College of Engineering, Hingna Road, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~55–60 percentile)
Nagpur Institute of Technology, Hingna Road, Nagpur (Information Technology cutoff ~55.9 percentile)
KDK College of Engineering, Kalmeshwar Road, Nagpur (CSE cutoff ~40–46 percentile)
Priyadarshini College of Engineering, Hingna Road, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~50–55 percentile)
G.H. Raisoni College of Engineering, Gittikhadan, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~50–58 percentile)
Cummins College of Engineering for Women, Kondhawa Road, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~45–55 percentile)
RCOEM (Ras Bihari Bose College), Hingna Road, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~52–57 percentile)
Manoharbhai Patel Institute of Engineering & Technology, Bhandara Road, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~48–56 percentile)
Dr. Ambedkar College of Engineering, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~50–58 percentile)
Shri Ramdeobaba College of Engineering & Management, Gittikhadan, Nagpur (OBC cutoff ~50–60 percentile)

These colleges combine NAAC/NBA accreditation, modern labs, active placement cells (70–85% branch-wise consistency), industry tie-ups, and supportive campus facilities. All the BEST for Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Sir, My son's KEAM rank is 2929. As per last year cut off, he is likely to get CSE at Model Engineering Collage, Kochi. Alternatively, he already got admission for CSE Core at VIT Vellore campus. He studied his 11&12 at Mumbai. Can you help me in deciding which one to opt between MEC CSE or Vit Vellore CSE ?
Ans: Both Model Engineering College Kochi’s CSE and VIT Vellore’s CSE programmes are accredited and backed by strong industry ties yet differ in scale and outcomes. MEC Kochi, an NBA-accredited government institute, records branch-wise CSE placement consistency of around 80–84% over the past three years with 106 CSE offers in 2023, average CSE package of ?6.6 LPA, and recruiters like Cognizant, Deloitte, EY, and Zoho. VIT Vellore, a NAAC A++–accredited private deemed university, achieves 80–90% overall placements, 867 recruiters and 7,526 placed students in 2024, a rising average package of ?9.9 LPA for CSE, and top recruiters including Microsoft, Amazon, PayPal, Cisco, and Bank of America. Both feature modern labs, experienced faculty, active placement cells, and robust industry partnerships.

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