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Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 26, 2024Hindi
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Hello, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend who is 2 yrs younger to me for past 3 years and i am not sure if he is someone whom i want to spend the rest of my life with. But he is ready to get married and his parents know about me and asking me when will i get married. I do not know how to take this forward and how will i know if he is the one

Ans: 1. do you have your must-haves ready - ideally not more than 7 - if he meets all, then go ahead and invest in him....i have written about must-haves - you can google to know more
2. you will never know 'someone is the one' till you do not invest in completition - keep in mind it takes 2 to make a relationship.

all the best

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Hi Anu, I am 30 years old girl and for the past three years, I have been in relationship with a guy who is two years younger to me. He is Marwadi and his parents are not agreeing to our marriage. I have tried breaking up with the guy several times and tried moving on but he always keeps saying that his parents need some time. My BF is a genuine guy and he loves me a lot.My parents on the other hand want me to get married by the end of this year. I am really confused if I should wait for my BF or listen to my parents and get married by their choice. I am unable to understand what to do. I am really depressed. Will it be really late if I get married after 30 or is it okay to wait for my BF?Please help me out.
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Dear AY,

And is your boyfriend also really depressed like you are?

Is he also desperate to get married?

Is he afraid of talking to his parents?

Does he also want to get married and settle down?

Is there a future for the two of you?

If the answer to each is a YES, please have that ‘uncomfortable yet firm’ conversation with your boyfriend.

Being in a limbo isn’t great, so please ask him how much time he needs to talk to his parents and when he is going to talk to them and how serious is he in this relationship?

Else, it will be an endless wait and that is what seems to be getting to you, the uncertainty.

So, by getting a clear commitment on the WHEN, will eliminate this stress that is eating you away. Things will get clearer, and you will know what to do!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2024Hindi
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Hi there, I have many things going in my life right now and I’m confused what to do, first thing I’m in a relationship with a man who’s 7 years older than me and is also not earning much, we are from different religions. Now as I’m 25 my parents are asking me to get married but some how I’m avoiding it, I’m currently living with them and I’m constant with growth in my career so they also want me to look for better opportunities. The thing is my boyfriend is also in the same city and I’m sad about going far away. He’s very supportive and motivates me to look further opportunities. But again my parents want an answer from me about marriage. And I discussed with my boyfriend as well and he understands that too but he doesn’t want to marry me.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
When he does not want to marry you, then what makes you waste so much time on him?
Move on with your life; it's not about getting married like the way your parents intend BUT more a signal to yourself to stop in your tracks and focus on what's important to you; your life...

He can be a good friend still supporting you (If the two of you can find that maturity) and you will both be able to walk on your own paths which isn't happening now. When he is clear that he is not going to commit to it, it should be enough data for you to look into yourself and know that you are trying hard to make something happen that does not want to happen. Making sense here?

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I hv started sip in 2008 and still continued , now the monthly sip is 55k and total value is 1.85cr. Need to accumulate 7cr with in next 4 yrs pls guide how can i achieve. - Deepak J. Hajari
Ans: Deepak, your long-term SIP discipline is impressive. Accumulating Rs. 7 crore in 4 years is ambitious. Achieving this goal requires a strategic approach, as time is limited. Let's create an actionable plan for your success.

Current Financial Snapshot
Ongoing SIPs: Rs. 55,000 monthly.
Current Portfolio Value: Rs. 1.85 crore.
Target Corpus: Rs. 7 crore within 4 years.
Your consistent investing habits have built a solid foundation. However, to achieve your target, adjustments are needed.

Key Challenges
Short Time Frame: Four years is a limited period for aggressive wealth accumulation.
Significant Gap: A gap of Rs. 5.15 crore remains to meet the Rs. 7 crore goal.
Market Volatility: Equity investments might face short-term volatility.
Recommendations to Bridge the Gap
1. Increase Your SIP Contributions
Raise your SIP amount to Rs. 1.25 lakh per month.
This increase ensures faster wealth creation through compounding.
Prioritise high-growth funds in equity-oriented categories.
2. Invest Lump Sum Amounts
Consider deploying a lump sum if you have idle savings or low-yield investments.
Invest in aggressive equity mutual funds for higher potential returns.
Break down the lump sum into tranches for better market timing.
3. Diversify into High-Growth Mutual Funds
Focus on small-cap and mid-cap mutual funds for higher growth potential.
Maintain a balance with some large-cap exposure for stability.
Ensure the portfolio aligns with your high-return requirements.
4. Avoid Overexposure to Debt or Low-Yield Instruments
Limit debt investments during this aggressive growth phase.
Avoid instruments like FDs or debt mutual funds with lower returns.
Rely on equity for the next four years to maximise growth.
5. Rebalance Your Portfolio Regularly
Conduct a portfolio review every 6 months.
Reallocate funds based on underperforming or outperforming sectors.
Keep your portfolio aligned with market trends and your goals.
6. Capitalize on Bonus or Windfall Gains
Direct any bonuses, salary hikes, or windfall gains towards your target.
Avoid unnecessary expenses during this focused phase.
Tax Efficiency Matters
Equity Mutual Funds Taxation: Gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.
Debt Mutual Funds Taxation: Taxed as per your income slab.
Plan redemptions strategically to minimise tax liabilities.
Leverage Market Opportunities
Benefit from Market Corrections: Use corrections as opportunities to invest lump sums.
Stay Invested for Compounding: Avoid early redemptions to let compounding work fully.
Role of Regular Monitoring
Track Performance: Ensure funds are performing as per expectations.
Switch Funds if Needed: Shift from underperforming funds to high-growth options.
Final Insights
Deepak, achieving Rs. 7 crore in 4 years requires aggressive yet calculated strategies. Increase your SIPs, deploy lump sums, and focus on high-growth funds. Regular monitoring and disciplined investing are key to your success. Stay patient and consistent.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 20, 2024Hindi
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I am 50 yrs old. If I invest 60k per month for 10 yrs in SIPs of MF then will I be able to achieve the corpus of Rs. 2.50 Crs and if not how much shall I invest per month and in which SIP schemes
Ans: You have a clear goal to invest Rs. 60,000 per month for 10 years. The goal is to accumulate Rs. 2.5 crore through mutual fund SIPs. Let us analyse your query in detail and provide actionable insights.

Evaluating the Feasibility of Your Investment Plan
10-Year Time Frame:
Ten years is a medium-term horizon. Equity-based mutual funds offer good growth potential for this period.

Monthly SIP Contribution:
A SIP of Rs. 60,000 is significant. It shows your commitment to wealth creation.

Target Corpus Analysis:
The target of Rs. 2.5 crore depends on consistent returns. Market performance influences results.

Expected Returns:
Equity funds can give 10%-12% annualised returns in the long run. However, returns are not guaranteed.

Is Rs. 60,000 Sufficient?
Your current contribution may not be sufficient to reach Rs. 2.5 crore in 10 years.

For 10%-12% Returns:
You might accumulate Rs. 1.9–2.1 crore. There could be a shortfall of Rs. 40–60 lakh.

Solution:
Increase your SIP amount to Rs. 75,000–80,000 monthly for a better chance of achieving the goal.

Optimising Your SIP Contributions
Step-Up SIPs:
Increase your SIP amount by 5%-10% every year. This adjusts for inflation and higher earnings.

Lump Sum Boost:
If you have surplus funds, invest a lump sum. This accelerates your goal.

Diversify Investments:
Allocate across equity and hybrid funds for balanced growth and risk management.

Selecting the Right SIP Investments
Actively managed funds are suitable for your goals. Avoid index funds due to their limitations.

Equity Funds for Growth:
These funds have high growth potential over 10 years.

Diversified Portfolio:
Choose funds across large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap categories. This spreads risk effectively.

Hybrid Funds:
Hybrid funds provide stability by balancing equity and debt investments.

Avoiding Direct Funds
Investing through direct funds might seem cost-effective but has drawbacks.

Limited Guidance:
Direct funds lack professional advice. This could lead to suboptimal fund choices.

Benefits of Regular Plans:
A Certified Financial Planner ensures proper fund selection and portfolio review.

Managing Tax Implications
Understanding taxation helps optimise your returns.

Long-Term Gains:
LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%. Plan redemptions strategically.

Short-Term Gains:
STCG on equity is taxed at 20%. Avoid frequent withdrawals to minimise this tax.

Hybrid Funds Taxation:
Gains from hybrid funds are taxed as per your income slab.

Steps to Achieve Rs. 2.5 Crore
Increase SIP Amount:
Raise your SIP to Rs. 75,000–80,000 monthly.

Review Annually:
Monitor portfolio performance and adjust investments.

Use a Balanced Strategy:
Combine equity funds with hybrid funds to optimise risk and return.

Seek Professional Help:
Work with a Certified Financial Planner to refine your plan.

Final Insights
Your goal of Rs. 2.5 crore in 10 years is achievable with adjustments. Increase your SIP amount and maintain discipline. Diversify investments and periodically review the portfolio. A Certified Financial Planner can guide you for maximum efficiency and clarity.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP

Chief Financial Planner

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Nov 21, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Nov 19, 2024Hindi
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Im a 34 year old, my father is planning on selling a property from which he would provide me with a gift of 1 Crore. At the moment , since my business has not launched, I would like to be earning interest from the Corpus amount and would also like to have a withdrawal of around 40-50K per month. Im very new to investing, and all i know is , getting half baked answers just isnt worth it. So im asking the experts, what is a realistic return that I could hope for? Provided its invested into mutual funds and debt funds. I would like to protect the corpus and make it grow while also trying to a withdrawal of 50-k per month.
Ans: Firstly, it's fantastic that you're approaching your investment decisions with a clear goal in mind. Receiving a gift of Rs 1 Crore from your father is a significant opportunity. Your desire to earn regular income while protecting and growing the principal corpus is a smart approach, especially given the current stage of your business. Let’s explore a realistic strategy for achieving your goal of monthly withdrawals while ensuring long-term growth.

Key Objectives
Preserve the Corpus: Ensuring the Rs 1 Crore grows steadily and does not erode.
Generate Monthly Income: Aiming for Rs 40,000–50,000 monthly withdrawals to meet your cash flow needs.
Balanced Risk: A mix of investments in mutual funds and debt funds to balance growth with security.
Types of Funds to Consider
To achieve your objectives, the portfolio needs to include a mix of debt and equity mutual funds. Here’s an overview of each option:

1. Debt Funds (Low-Risk)
Debt funds are ideal for stability. They typically offer steady returns with lower volatility. These funds invest in bonds, government securities, and corporate debt.

Stability: They offer relatively stable returns with low risk to the principal.
Monthly Income: Debt funds with monthly income plans (MIPs) can provide regular payouts.
Expected Returns: Historically, debt funds return 7-9% annually, depending on the type and tenure of the bonds they invest in.
2. Equity Mutual Funds (Moderate to High-Risk)
Equity funds invest in stocks and can offer higher returns, but with more volatility. Over the long term, they have the potential to outperform debt funds, though there can be short-term fluctuations.

Growth Potential: Equity funds are essential for capital appreciation.
Risk Profile: Equity mutual funds carry more risk but can provide higher long-term returns.
Expected Returns: Historically, equity funds can offer 10-15% returns per annum, depending on market conditions and fund management.
Expected Return and Withdrawal Strategy
Given your goal of withdrawing Rs 40,000–50,000 monthly (Rs 4.8–6 lakh annually), let’s assess a realistic return scenario:

1. Required Returns for Monthly Withdrawal
To generate Rs 4.8–6 lakh annually, you need to have a combination of income and growth.
Assumption: You need a mix of debt and equity funds. If you target an average return of 8-9% per annum from debt and equity, your portfolio should generate enough income.
2. Risk-Return Balance
Debt Funds: These funds will give stability and a guaranteed income, but at a lower return rate.
Equity Funds: These can help grow your corpus and offer a better chance of increasing the monthly withdrawal amount over time.
3. Potential Returns Based on Allocation
50% Debt Funds: Target return of 7-8% annually.
50% Equity Funds: Target return of 12-14% annually.
This balanced approach provides income and growth, helping you meet your withdrawal goal while maintaining long-term growth.

Portfolio Structure Suggestions
1. Debt Fund Allocation (50%)
Why Debt?: Debt funds offer lower risk and more predictable returns, making them suitable for generating a steady income.
Types of Debt Funds to Consider:
Corporate Bond Funds: These offer better returns than government bond funds, but at slightly higher risk.
Short-Term Debt Funds: These funds invest in short-term instruments and are less sensitive to interest rate changes.
Monthly Income Plans (MIPs): These funds are specifically designed to provide monthly payouts, offering an income stream.
2. Equity Fund Allocation (50%)
Why Equity?: Equity funds will provide higher returns and help your corpus grow over time. They are necessary for long-term wealth creation.
Types of Equity Funds to Consider:
Large-Cap Funds: These invest in well-established companies with a stable growth record.
Flexi-Cap Funds: These funds invest across all market caps, allowing flexibility to choose the best opportunities.
Hybrid Funds: A mix of debt and equity, hybrid funds are suitable for balancing risk and return.
Tax Considerations for Your Portfolio
Mutual fund investments are subject to taxes on the capital gains.

Equity Funds:
Long-Term Capital Gains (LTCG): If held for more than 1 year, LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.
Short-Term Capital Gains (STCG): If sold within 1 year, STCG is taxed at 15%.
Debt Funds:
LTCG: If held for more than 3 years, debt fund gains are taxed at 20% with indexation benefits.
STCG: If sold within 3 years, gains are taxed according to your income tax slab.
You should plan your withdrawals in a way that balances both income generation and tax efficiency.

Risk Management and Capital Preservation
Your focus on preserving the corpus is essential. While debt funds provide safety, equity funds add the potential for capital appreciation. To protect your capital:

Diversify Across Different Asset Classes: Ensure a mix of debt, equity, and hybrid funds.
Review Portfolio Regularly: Market conditions change, and it’s important to keep your portfolio aligned with your risk tolerance and financial goals.
Avoid Overconcentration: Don’t put all your funds into one type of asset. Spread your investments across sectors and instruments.
Steps to Implement Your Strategy
1. Choose Mutual Funds Through an MFD with CFP Credentials
Why?: Investing through a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) ensures your investments are aligned with your long-term goals and risk profile.
Avoid Direct Funds: While direct funds have lower expense ratios, you miss out on valuable advisory support. An MFD offers curated fund selection, tax advice, and regular portfolio reviews.
2. Start with a 50-50 Debt-Equity Split
Debt: Focus on short-term and MIPs for income generation.
Equity: Invest in large-cap or flexi-cap funds for long-term growth.
3. Monitor and Rebalance
Rebalance your portfolio annually based on market performance and changing needs.
Adjust debt and equity allocations depending on your withdrawal requirements and market conditions.
Final Insights
With Rs 1 Crore, you can generate enough income for your monthly withdrawals while allowing your money to grow. A balanced approach of 50% debt funds and 50% equity funds is a realistic strategy to achieve this. Your investment portfolio will ensure that you have both stability and growth, helping you meet your cash flow needs while protecting and growing your corpus.

It's crucial to engage with a Certified Financial Planner to tailor the investment strategy to your exact needs. Their expertise will help you make better decisions for both tax efficiency and long-term wealth creation.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP

Chief Financial Planner

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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