Anu Krishna |1149 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 24, 2022
Dear PS,
What are you worried about? That by spending time away from you or not involving you when he is in a social setting, he might forget you or move away from you?
After 10 years, why do you feel the need to cling on to him in insecurity and anxiety?
Time to give yourself some love and attention?
Become your best friend and pamper yourself with a lot of care instead of constantly expecting it from your relationship?
The more you become safe and secure with yourself, the less you will cling onto your partner.
Clinging on and ‘owning’ another person will only make them move away from you as no one likes to be controlled and dictated to.
Instead, why don’t you ask him about his day and who he met up with and genuinely try and integrate into his life?
In this way, he will want to engage more with you and invite you when he is with his friends and family?
When you watch him interact with others, instead of feeling insecure and jealous, can you think of appreciating what he has brought into your life and why the two of you have been together for 10 years?
Also, involve him into your life and life’s journey.
Playing the victim involves a lot of drama, but playing a liberated person involves no effort.
So love yourself and love your partner for who he is.
The change in your relationship and your state of mind will be almost magical.
Enjoy the moment and be happy!
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