Dear Doctor I am male 34, i am planning to get married soon. But i think I will have problems in becoming a dad bcoz I have physical relationship in the recently. I observe that I gets nervous and i am unable to satify my partner, I get erection but soon after 2-3 mint I find that there is no erection at all. can you advice me to what to do, should I inform the girl before we get married or my problem can be solved after marriage.

Ans: Why do you get nervous? Are you using protection?

**There are many reasons for not being able to get erection.** Some of the most common include:

* **Medical conditions:** Diabetes, heart disease, and certain medications can all contribute to erectile dysfunction.
* **Psychological factors:** Stress, anxiety, and depression can also make it difficult to get an erection.
* **Lifestyle factors:** Smoking, drinking alcohol, and using drugs can all damage your blood vessels and nerves, which can lead to erectile dysfunction.

**Best is get it fixed first before getting married as you don't want to ruin someone's life.** Erectile dysfunction can be a serious problem, and it's important to get it treated as soon as possible. There are a number of different treatments available, and the best one for you will depend on the underlying cause of your erectile dysfunction.

**Don't Marry. Fix the problem first.** Marriage is a big step, and it's important to be sure that you're ready for it. If you're having problems with erectile dysfunction, it's best to get it fixed before you get married. This will help you to avoid any potential problems in your marriage and ensure that you and your partner have a happy and fulfilling relationship.

Mohit Arora S
Founder - Real Dating School

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