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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 15, 2021
She transitions into a beautiful phase of her life. But with this comes the responsibility of caring for a new-born or in your case a toddle round the clock.
She hardly has the time to focus on being a wife with the constant feeding and changing of nappies.
Added to that is she’s working, then there’s additional office work besides also taking care of the household chores.
Also, a woman goes through a lot of changes in her body after the delivery and for a few women sex is off the cards for a while after that.
This could be because some women feel that their body is not what their husbands will love anymore and also her focus has shifted on to her baby who needs her love, care and support 24/7.
There is a bond between the mother and the child that at times can irk a few husbands who can translate that as feeling ignored and angry.
This is the time the new father can also spring into action and come together for his lady and his child.
Support your wife unconditionally and love her without any expectations in return
Offer to care for the baby so that she can take some time-off to rejuvenate herself
Encourage her to indulge in a hobby that she might have stopped because of the baby; this will help her be in a happy space
Compliment her and engage in a little off-the-bedroom intimacy like hugging, kissing and holding hands
Watch movies together and do a couple of things that bonded you as a couple before the baby arrived
Smile at her warmly and reassure her that no matter what nothing has changed and that she is still the woman that you loved and married
Does this work? Yes, it does…Love and reassurance can cause a lot of calmness in her and arouse her better in bed.
And if there’s something still amiss, then maybe you could talk to a gynecologist who can guide both of you on the next steps and rule out any medical challenges. All is well.
Simply be in Love. Wishing you and your family a beautiful life!
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