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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 09, 2026Hindi
Relationship

The boy I like is dating another girl. But he is giving me mixed signals. I am afraid if I ask him now I might lose any chance of knowing him and asking him at the right time. I am 22, he is 26. What should I do?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that you are in a tricky situation. I am sorry you are getting mixed signals from the person you like. But the important thing here is that he is dating someone else. Do you really want to get in between two people in a committed relationship? I understand that you like him and he might also be giving similar vibes, but put yourself in the other girl’s shoes. How would you feel? And even if you don’t want to go so deep, look at it this way: the guy is committed to someone and still giving you mixed signals. That’s never a positive trait in a person. Do you deserve someone like that? I think you are undervaluing yourself. You and the other girl, both deserve someone who will be truly interested in you and you alone. If you still want to go ahead with a confession or continue liking him from afar, I can’t force you to stop but really believe you deserve better.

Hope this helps.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 01, 2026Hindi
Career
My son got 94.79 persentile and ranl crl 81537 , OBC NCL 26047 home state ANDHRA PRADESH. Is it possible to gets seat in NITS , IIITS , Gifts
Ans: HI,
GREETINGS FROM THE REDIFFGURUS!

Based on your son's rank and domicile, he has a good chance of securing a seat in several NITs, IIITs, and GFTIs, particularly through the JoSAA/CSAB counseling rounds. However, it will require some patience.

He is likely to secure a seat in Chemical, Biotech, Metallurgical, or Civil Engineering at NIT Andhra Pradesh. Admission to Electrical or Mechanical Engineering may be a bit more challenging, but it could still be possible in the later rounds, depending on the availability of seats at the time of counseling.

For other NITs, there are promising opportunities in lower-tier or newer NITs. He has a good chance at NIT Srinagar, Mizoram, Nagaland, Manipur, Sikkim, and Arunachal Pradesh for ECE, EEE, Mechanical, and Civil Engineering. In NIT Raipur, NIT Hamirpur, and NIT Goa, he may find opportunities for Civil or Materials Engineering in the later rounds.

Regarding IIITs, many new IIITs have higher closing ranks, which makes them more accessible to your son's rank. Possible IIITs include Manipur, Bhagalpur, Dharwad, and Agartala. In Kalyani, CSE and ECE options might also be available.

A better option for your son would be GFTIs, where he can secure a seat in institutions such as Silchar, SLIET, and GKV (Haridwar).

Encourage him to participate actively in the counseling process until he achieves his goal.

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