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Asked by Anonymous - May 24, 2024Hindi

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Hi.. I want to ask if as a 40 year old woman is it ok to be with someone 8 years younger if both of us are into it. Just that I am feeling as if it’s a taboo and I will be excluded from the society for doing so ... pls advise

Ans: Its totally perfect. Be selfish. Society doesn't care for your happiness

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Hi.. I have a question ... I am a 40 year old female and there is someone younger to me about 8 years younger who has shown interest and I’m reluctant .. As I am skeptical if due to the age gap it can work out ... I am also scared of how I will be perceived if I do go ahead with this relation due to our age gap. Pls advise

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Can I marry someone who is younger to me by 8 years ... I am a 40 year old single woman and just wondering if his family will not agree ?

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Hello ma'am, I am 38 year old woman in love with 32 year old man. I have never married and he is divorced with no children. We both work in same company and relationship is serious. But everyone says woman being 6 years older is shameful in our society. His friends joke calling me aunty. Should we ignore society or I should end this before it gets serious?

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My son got seat in SRM in cse gaming is there good placement in this field.

Ans: Anoj, if your son is genuinely interested in this branch, he can pursue this. SRM has good overall placements. However, separate branch?wise CSE Gaming statistics are not publicly broken out in official reports; most data is aggregated under CSE/Computer Science, so gaming?specific roles (game dev, QA, and tools) exist but are embedded in the broader CSE?placement pool. All the Best for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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I have 25k rank in AEEE and home state quota in Kerala, Can i get admission for Ai and data science

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Hi Sir, I got Intermediate marks : 991 Jee mains percentile: 94.01 TGEAPCET :65 Marks VITEE : 12774 RANK BITSAT : 196Marks ..aiming for 300 next phase Wrote ugee well, Applied for amrita in jee mains quota Applied for sastra Suggest me next move..like which college suits me..i am looking forward for CSE and ECE PLEASE HELP ME

Ans: Best next steps are keep BITSAT Phase-2 as highest priority. At 196, BITS CSE/ECE is difficult, but 300+ can open ECE/EEE and maybe better options (scoring 300+ from 160 will be highly challenging; still, you must try). With JEE 94.01 percentile, top NIT/IIIT CSE is unlikely, but try JoSAA/CSAB for lower IIIT/GFTI branches. Your VITEEE 12,774 gives good chances for VIT Chennai/AP/Bhopal CSE-related and possible non-core options at Vellore. Amrita through JEE is worth trying through CSAP, as Amrita accepts AEEE/JEE scores. SASTRA is strong because 991 Intermediate marks help, since admission uses JEE + Class 12 weightage. Prefer: BITS if 300+ > VIT/Amrita CSE > SASTRA CSE/ECE > TG EAPCET options. All the Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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I got vit Rank 60625 can I get ece in vit ap category 1

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Sir I have got 70210 rank in VITEEE which college I get it I want to pursue cse with which category. Also I got 427736 rank in jee mains, can I get good government or private college for femalefrom Rajasthan, obc category.

Ans: With VITEEE rank 70,210, CSE core is unlikely at Vellore/Chennai, but VIT-AP or VIT Bhopal CSE/CSE specialisation may be possible, mostly in higher fee categories, likely Category 3–5 depending on vacancy. With JEE Main CRL 4,27,736, OBC female, Rajasthan, NIT/IIIT/GFTI CSE chances through JoSAA are almost nil. You can try CSAB Special Round, but expect only very low-demand GFTI branches, if any. Have 4-5 other reputed private colleges as backups including REAP Rajasthan counselling, RTU/Kota-affiliated private colleges, JECRC, Poornima, SKIT, Manipal Jaipur, and Amity Jaipur. All the Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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My daughter got chance in KIITEE in integrated M tech course and got 1802 in SRM... SHE is interested in bio technology....which institute is best for her career

Ans: Sarmistha Madam, prefer KIIT-MTech-BioTech over SRM. All the Best for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

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Question by Rashmi - May 11, 2026Hindi

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My daughter got 57194 in vitee. She wants ece in vellore or chennai. Whats the probablity?

Ans: Rashmi Madam, With VITEEE rank 57,194, ECE at VIT Vellore is difficult and should be treated as low probability. ECE at VIT Chennai is also not easy but may have a small chance in higher fee categories if seats remain during her counselling phase. VIT counselling is rank-, choice-, category- and seat-availability based; rank 45,001–70,000 fall in Phase 3 choice filling. Best preference order: Chennai ECE > Vellore ECE > Chennai EEE/ECM/Mechatronics > Vellore EEE > VIT-AP/Bhopal ECE/CSE-related. Keep backup options (4-5 other reputed private colleges) ready because ECE demand is usually high. All the Best for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

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Question by Amit - May 11, 2026Hindi

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Sir, my son has secured 12300+ rank in SRM JEEE 2026 and 70000+ rank in VITEEE. Is there possibility of getting CSE core or CSE AI/ ML in SRM KTR campus... Also pls share that what options I can get in VIT Chennai on this rank ( VIT Vellore seems very tough to get on this rank)...What branch should I fill as preference in VIT Chennai... I can get CSE core in VIT AP but not willing to join there... So should I prefer KTR campus with CS or VIT Chennai with branch other than CS ( as I will not get CSE there)...thanks in advance.

Ans: Amit Sir, at SRMJEEE, 12,300+ SRM KTR CSE core is doubtful, but CSE-AI/ML, Data Science, Cloud, Big Data, CSBS, or AI may be possible depending on vacancy/phase. SRM officially offers these KTR CS options.

At VITEEE 70,000+, VIT Chennai CSE/ECE are unlikely. You can fill EEE, Mechanical, Mechatronics/Robotics, Civil, Fashion/Design-related tech options if available in higher categories. Vellore is tougher.

My preference: SRM KTR CS-related branch > VIT Chennai non-CS > VIT-AP CSE, only if there is no objection. Backups you can have are SRM Ramapuram/Vadapalani CS and 4-5 other reputed private colleges in and around your State. All the Best for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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